Do guys masturbate after seeing girls in bikini?

I'm a girl from brazil and yesterday something strange happened for me. I was in my aunt's house and I was getting ready to go to beach. So I was trying on my new bikini at the house, then I headed to downstairs to show my new bikini to my aunt. In the middle of way to downstairs, my nephew saw me and you know, he was looking at me so strange... It even made me to feel embarrassed. After that I showed my new bikini to my aunt, I headed to my nephew's room to ask him why he was looking at me like that. Unfortunately I didn't knock the door and... He was masturbating... Days after, when I was chatting with him, he told me that he was masturbating because of me 🤦🏻‍♀️He was masturbating because he saw my body in bikini. Now I'm really afraid and even ashamed of wearing bikini again in beaches. Because I think that some other boy might masturbate afterwards by the imagination of my body in bikini. It's really challenging for me now. Please boys answer. Do you really masturbate after that you see us in bikini? I really don't masturbate after seeing a boy in speedo... Actually now I'm "Alice in wonderland" Everytime the TV shows women in bikini, or even women swimming competition, I think with myself that my father would masturbate by seeing these afterwards in his room... Or what about those times that he's alone in the house? Is it possible for him to get turned on by looking at women in bikini or women swimming competition and even start masturbating by looking at them? Please give me clear answers about this.
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As a conclusion, now I've decided to never wear bikini again where boys can see me. Maybe I'll wear a more covered swimsuit when boys are around. And I'm already deleting some of my Instagram posts which included my body in bikini. Maybe I would prevent my father from watching women swimming competition on TV or any other stuff that shows women in bikini or short swimsuit...
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  • There's nothing wrong with nudity, bikinis, sex or MASTURBATION.

    That's the first thing you need to get outta your head that this is somehow EVIL because it's perfectly normal and natural. Sexuality has been demonized by the retaarded Christians, Muslims and Jews all over the world. It's completely ruined and warped the minds of people on these issues. Open your mind, there's nothing wrong with you wearing a bikini or your nephew masturbating.

    • It's not about religion... Let me ask you a question. If you get to know that your friend masturbates everytime he sees your sister in bikini, are you alright with it? It's not about religion and I'm not a religious person. But we're not animals! Animals have sex whenever, wherever and with whoever they want. So it's really not good for human to masturbate freely by looking at each other, especially when I myself as a girl really don't like to make guys masturbate with me... It's disgusting, huh

    • You sound pretty dammn religious to me. I see nothing wrong with nudity, sex or masturbation. And yes we are animals. There's nothing unique about us. And there is no SKY-DADDY out there somewhere, stop believing in fairytales.

    • EXAMPLE "PAWNEE NATIVE American TRIBE" BELOW Polyandry (the marriage of one woman to more than one man at the same time) was found among many of the tribes. This practice was often not recognized by Europeans, including many ethnographers, as it seemed so alien to them. The Pawnee, for example, practiced a form of temporary polyandry. When a boy reached puberty, his mother’s brother’s wife would take charge of him and initiate him into sex. He would continue having sex with her until he married. For a period of four or five years, the young man, and perhaps his brothers as well, would be a junior husband for this woman, creating a temporary state of polyandry. Polyandry also occurred as a form of an anticipatory levirate. In Native American cultures, marriage was neither religious nor civil. There was usually no religious ceremony involved, only a public recognition of the fact of marriage. In most cases there was no formal ceremony. The couple simply started living together. In most Native American cultures, nearly all adults were married, yet marriage was not seen as permanent. It was recognized that people would be together in a married state for a while and then separate. Divorce was accomplished easily since the couple did not own property in common. Each partner simply picked up his or her personal property and left. Divorce was neither a civil nor a religious concern-this was a private matter among the people involved. While some American commentators bemoan the negative impact of divorce upon children, in Native cultures, each child had many fathers, many mothers, and many siblings. A child was not property but a member of a large family and thus had rights. Since divorce was accepted and the raising of the child was the responsibility of many relatives, not just the biological mother and father, divorce does not appear to have had negative impact on the children.

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  • I don't need to, my girlfriend is with me, if she go for trip then her best friend or her mom available for me.

  • Because that is what our culture brainwashes us, humans, with. Ninety-eight of males do not think of sex when they see a female in whatever clothes they wear. Yet, we females think of ourselves as sexual by our culture, which is false. We females need to stop seeing ourselves as sex objects and as wonderful human-like as the males are. Stop watching television shows which project us females as being sex objects. Stop listing to music that projects us females as sex objects. Stop reading books or magazine which projects us females as sex objects. Our thinking is how we think others are seeing us. Males and females are sexual human beings, not sex objects. Stop talking to others who put false thinking in your head about others and what others are thinking about you. Conversations are the highest lead of both genders getting sexually assaulted. What we talk about and how we talk about it can be healthy or none healthy. True friends do not lead their friends to be abused in any form. Do not let others push you in any form is being abused. Pick healthy, positive friends. Someone starts to talk junk, get up, and walk away from them. It shows you are much bigger than you, and you are much more of a strong person than they are. Dirty, gross, and nasty locker room talking of either gender is wrong. So, it would be best for females to respect the male's bodies, and males need to respect the female body. Each female needs to respect the female's bodies, and males need to respect other males' bodies. There is nothing wrong with talking about sexual matters or other people's bodies. How you talk about it is good or bad. Example: Two preteen girls are talking to each other about their brothers around the age of 12-years-old. Both girls see their own brother naked in their own home. Both girls from two separate families talk about the penis erection of their brothers. They both talk back and forth about how it gets an erection, how they see it get an erection. Their final remarks are that they love watching their own brother having an erection how it hangs after it gets an erection. It looks and how they notice things about the penis when it gets an erection. Both girls' families are nudists. So the girls have seen both boys of each family. One of the boy's foreskin has not been cut. The girls talk about the foreskin of one of the boys slides off the penis when soft, and when it starts to get hard, it slides behind the head of the penis. This conversation between these two girls is healthy. It does not apply any dirty talk or insulting remarks—two girls who are completely safe to be around each of the girl's brothers. Most males and females do not masturbate when they see the other gender in any type of clothes.

    • Great answer! Somehow we need to remove the shame from sexuality and teach a healthy sexuality.

  • He's either a virgin or a teenager cause it takes more than that...

  • We shouldn’t masturbate to our family members that’s unfathomable but any other woman in a bikini will stunt our imagination yes.

    • Stir*

  • Guys are going to masturbate no matter what. If you like wearing a bikini, then then wear it. We don't need to actually see anything to masturbate. Although we are very visual. It's just the way we are.

  • Nope it has never once occurred to me to masturbate to a random girl I saw in a bikini. And to tell her about it is a whole different level of wtf. Unless she's my girlfriend which in that case that's a definite yes xD

  • Probably so

    • Man how are you

    • But not with relatives

    • I’m doing good how are you

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  • I never do. Some boys especially if they’re in their teens may get turned on by seeing a girl in a bikini.
    How old is your nephew?

    • Wow Really because you never got a sexy girl

    • @candyPineda I’ve had plenty sexy girls. I just get an erection

    • 21 I'm really upset by thinking about that how many boys have masturbated after seeing me in bikini 😔 It made me to delete some of my Instagram posts which include my body in bikini or even one-piece swimsuit...

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  • he probably is going though puberty super horny. For me a bikini woint get me hard, I need more or actually less.

  • Maybe, depends on the girls looks.

  • Your nephew needs to grow up and learn what is family and stay away from the porn sites and sexualized material on tv. Yes, guys will Jack off to anything. Some guy did it in a gym while some woman was wearing tight pants.

  • No. It's completely depends on individual. If you comfortable wearing a bikini please Wear. Don't stop anything for some pervs outside.

  • When I was a teen, urges to masturbate were frequent, spontaneous, and almost uncontrollable at times, where even hearing or reading anything sex-related, or even so much as a random thought could set me off. Nowadays it typically requires more of a conscious effort and won’t normally happen unless I sense some sort of mutual attraction with a girl.

  • I have before if I found her to be particularly attractive. May I ask you the follow up question of why you are so upset about this? What that meant is that your nephew (curious about his age) finds you very attractive. I doubt he meant it as an insult or anything. If anything, he would probably consider it a compliment since it's highly unlikely he masturbates to every woman/girl he's ever seen in a bikini.

  • Guys are gonna do that regardless of what your wearing so don't be afraid by it

  • Don't worry, things sound very normal. Guys think about sex all the time when they are young. You did nothing wrong. Let me know if you have any other questions.

  • It depends on the girl and how horny you are. So if I don't find a girl attractive or I'm not in the mood I won't.
    I still occasionally masturbate to the image of a girl who was wearing short white shorts who had an amazing ass.

  • lmao

  • your over thinking it. be sexy and proud.

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