So you want experience virgin?

So I’m re-watching married at first sight and my initial thought of guys want a virgin right? This person is proverbs 31 woman a person that has never been touched right but on the other hand, I hear a lot of guys these days that want someone that knows something in the bedroom and not just laying there like a log so what is the balance no one touches her, not a lot of people you just don’t want to hear about it
So you want experience virgin?
So you want experience virgin?
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Did you now know that you can medically make a virgin. Reconstructive surgery
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  • You're talking about two different things. Guys have a mindset for sex, and a mindset for marriage. For marriage, we want a woman who is a virgin. For sex we want a woman who is experienced. And the guys who complain, they complain when she doesn't even touch them, or when they tell her what to do, and she is still dead set on laying there like a dead fish. Touch him, grab him, kiss him, lick him, hell bite him, just do something to show you want him, instead of giving him the starfish treatment.

  • I think you need to reread Poverbs 31! The woman it describes is industrious, loyal, pragmatic, prepared, and compassionate- but nothing whatsoever about virginity is mentioned. Indeed, "her children ris[ing] up and call[ing] her blessed" kind of requires being otherwise.

    Anyway, not every guy wants the same thing.

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  • There are advantages both ways

    Virgin - everything is new and you can mould and teach her to satisfy you better.

    Experienced - no teaching needed she may know a few tips or tricks that could surprise you.

    So basically if 2 girls came up to me equally as good looking and wanting sex one experienced one a virgin... ask for a 3sum!

    • This is the most embarrassing thing I’ve ever read. If I were you I’d delete my account

  • I want a virgin, I rather be with a girl who is just laying there like a log than be with a ho.

    https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

    So you want experience virgin?
    • You don’t understand how a hymen works

    • As for the Update, Hymenorrhaphy is like Fake Boobs, it's not makes her a Real Virgin.

    • You’re proving me right

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  • Doesn't matter to me. We are all virgins... until we're not

  • Quite obviously men have mutually contradictory desires. Yes we want girls that readily put out and never say no to anyone. We'll get more sex.

    A little later though we do want a woman who takes marriage seriously and whom we can have great confidence has given us paternity of her children.

    The best evidence of an appropriate view is... omg... virginity.

    Virgins can enjoy sex after they are initiated but there is a chance they are virgin because they don't like the idea of sex at all.

    It is not a perfect world is the net summary.

  • Honestly I don't care much either way

    • Yes I did know that @your update

    • Also from my experience with Raine (who was a virgin before me), virgins can be awesome at sex.

  • Usually, only other virgins or total creeps want a virgin.

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  • Lol maybe they're all just odd people they cast. Each show each year always makes me think "where do they find these people" 🤔😋

  • Virginity is a recent social construct to guarantee legitimate male heirs once we stopped being nomadic and had fixed assets to bequeath. It's a ridiculous concept. The first is no different than the 10th. Yes, I would prefer an experienced woman and DGAF what her body count was.

    • I am curious - and only curious - as to how you construct a social construction out of virginity? Quite clearly there is a point at which a girl has been penetrated by a penis for the first time. The value that is put upon it might differ and be variable, but not the fact. Some form of marriage is universal and recognition of a girl becoming nubile is also. It is an in your face body transformation. This applies to nomadic hunter and gatherers long before agriculture. In some cultures there were what we might call anti virginity practices of stretching girls to better accommodate a penis. Somewhat nasty and somewhat 180 degree but it recognized virginity in the inverse.

    • @RavVid yes. In sedentary societies virgins are prized. Marriage is also a recent social construct from nomadic life where it was BETTER to be promiscuous and NOT know who the father was therefore encouraging the band to all expens resources in the child.

    • Australian Aborigines are about as far back as we can go in terms of sexual mores in hunters and gatherers but there is not reason to think practices didn't change on the trek from Africa to Australia. Or that there was a consistent set of morals throughout all the tribes. And then there is the question of what were the most common sexual practices. You could have one tribe where everybody fucked everybody and next door a tribe that was monogamous. One thing we can be sure of is men had higher mortality. In one tribe men had 27 wives and it would be sensible to reassign widows. For some reason, newly nubile girls ended up becoming wives of elders. The deals were quite complicated and could involve as yet unborn girls. There was a strong concept of marriage. In return for doing tasks for elders, young bucks might be given sexual access. At a time was thought Aborigines were unaware sex created babies but that has been disproven. In short I don't think we can be that confident what mores were but we can be reasonably sure there was a concept of wives as chattels.

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  • No ty

  • That's a common misconception. No, we do not expect her to "know everything in the bedroom.". That's ludicrous. How could she possibly know everything if she has zero experience?

  • I do not care as long as she is not carrying STI's/STD's.

  • I don't care about virginity. It's just a lack of experience.

  • They say they do, it’s Bible nonsense. It really makes no difference.

    “At first sight” is just the stupidest way to marry. Might be a good game show. But long lasting marriages are ones where you know every intricacy of the person from toothpaste stains to dirty dishes.

  • I never wanted a virgin.

  • As a virgin, I'd prefer a woman that knows what she's doing, so I can learn lol

  • I like virgins bcs they can be cuter and have a very high sex drive

    • @CrabCakes11 actually I dont watch porn at all and I dont masturbate but its okay :)

    • @CrabCakes11 yeah read about taoism you are just a average intelligence woman

    • @CrabCakes11 no but it is related to masturbation and porn, you my friend are very slow

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