So I’m re-watching married at first sight and my initial thought of guys want a virgin right? This person is proverbs 31 woman a person that has never been touched right but on the other hand, I hear a lot of guys these days that want someone that knows something in the bedroom and not just laying there like a log so what is the balance no one touches her, not a lot of people you just don’t want to hear about it
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Did you now know that you can medically make a virgin. Reconstructive surgery
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tzdc21Xper 7
12 d
You're talking about two different things. Guys have a mindset for sex, and a mindset for marriage. For marriage, we want a woman who is a virgin. For sex we want a woman who is experienced. And the guys who complain, they complain when she doesn't even touch them, or when they tell her what to do, and she is still dead set on laying there like a dead fish. Touch him, grab him, kiss him, lick him, hell bite him, just do something to show you want him, instead of giving him the starfish treatment.
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NamerOfStarsMaster
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I think you need to reread Poverbs 31! The woman it describes is industrious, loyal, pragmatic, prepared, and compassionate- but nothing whatsoever about virginity is mentioned. Indeed, "her children ris[ing] up and call[ing] her blessed" kind of requires being otherwise.
As for the Update, Hymenorrhaphy is like Fake Boobs, it's not makes her a Real Virgin.
CrabCakes11
10 d
You’re proving me right
AviatorTomMaster
14 d
Doesn't matter to me. We are all virgins... until we're not
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RavVidGuru
12 d
Quite obviously men have mutually contradictory desires. Yes we want girls that readily put out and never say no to anyone. We'll get more sex.
A little later though we do want a woman who takes marriage seriously and whom we can have great confidence has given us paternity of her children.
The best evidence of an appropriate view is... omg... virginity.
Virgins can enjoy sex after they are initiated but there is a chance they are virgin because they don't like the idea of sex at all.
It is not a perfect world is the net summary.
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itsclearlynicholasXper 7
14 d
Lol maybe they're all just odd people they cast. Each show each year always makes me think "where do they find these people" 🤔😋
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Nikki1989Master
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Usually, only other virgins or total creeps want a virgin.
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DrPepper12Xper 7
13 d
Virginity is a recent social construct to guarantee legitimate male heirs once we stopped being nomadic and had fixed assets to bequeath. It's a ridiculous concept. The first is no different than the 10th. Yes, I would prefer an experienced woman and DGAF what her body count was.
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RavVid
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I am curious - and only curious - as to how you construct a social construction out of virginity? Quite clearly there is a point at which a girl has been penetrated by a penis for the first time. The value that is put upon it might differ and be variable, but not the fact. Some form of marriage is universal and recognition of a girl becoming nubile is also. It is an in your face body transformation. This applies to nomadic hunter and gatherers long before agriculture. In some cultures there were what we might call anti virginity practices of stretching girls to better accommodate a penis. Somewhat nasty and somewhat 180 degree but it recognized virginity in the inverse.
DrPepper12
11 d
@RavVid yes. In sedentary societies virgins are prized. Marriage is also a recent social construct from nomadic life where it was BETTER to be promiscuous and NOT know who the father was therefore encouraging the band to all expens resources in the child.
BarryLiverstoneMaster
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No ty
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MicahRaineXper 3
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Honestly I don't care much either way
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MicahRaine
11 d
Yes I did know that @your update
Jamie05rhsMaster
13 d
That's a common misconception. No, we do not expect her to "know everything in the bedroom.". That's ludicrous. How could she possibly know everything if she has zero experience?
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LiamJHaydenGuru
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I do not care as long as she is not carrying STI's/STD's.
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JuxtaposeMaster
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I don't care about virginity. It's just a lack of experience.
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OddBeMeMaster
13 d
They say they do, it’s Bible nonsense. It really makes no difference.
“At first sight” is just the stupidest way to marry. Might be a good game show. But long lasting marriages are ones where you know every intricacy of the person from toothpaste stains to dirty dishes.
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