Do guys sometimes ”accidentally” put their dick in the wrong hole?

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Is this actually by accident or is his a try in not just having vaginal sex? Like a hint?

Sometimes it happens that he is about to hit the wrong hole so to say. And I have friends who have said guys have actually put it in all the way, but wrong hole. Which is not really okay without consent, to me at least.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

It can actually happen, and some girls are built in such a way that it's much easier for it to happen to them, compared to other girls.

But, keep this in mind: I've had GIRLS put it in the wrong hole before - both when she's on top and when she was using her hands to guide me in while I was on top. So, clearly, doing it by accident is a thing that can happen. Most of the time, the girl will say something ("oops, wrong hole!") or put her hand in the way to stop the guy from going forward, before he gets very far, but a couple of times, I've had it go all the way in before there was any reaction from her (usually, she stiffens up like a statue... LOL).

Are their guys who do this "accidentally" on purpose? Apparently there are, and I totally get that this would make women upset. But there needs to be some realization that it CAN sometimes happen accidentally, and the relationship you have with your guy should tell you if he's the kind of guy who'd do it on purpose, or if it's really an accident.

AndyOh · Accepted Answer

From my experience, it seems to depend on the shape and build of the woman.
If her bottom is big and her kitty is smaller and close to the booty hole, then finding the right hole is small challenge. Sometimes the guy might need to use the thumb as the lead guide to get it in the right hole.
However, if I wanted to get into the booty hole or any hole, I would just poke around till I found a hole that let me in.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Nope. It isn't difficult to stick it in the vagina unless they are doing some weird sexual maneuver that starts a few feet away from you. At which point, if you have to resort to that kind of maneuvers, you are probably doing sex wrong in the first place.

loves2learn · Answer

I had a lady ultrasound tech do that. 🙄

summiter · Answer

It has not happened yet but I can see how it does with some people.

slatyb · Answer

It can happen depending on the position, but usually some additional lubrication is needed for anal penetration.

buddysboy16 · Answer

One time I slipped out and knocked on the back door. Anything past that wasn't an accident.

Bricealan · Answer

Can't imagine 'by accident" . Having had both: I know how the vaginal opening feels, and how the anus feels... Not even close to the same. "accidental' HELL !  Simple answer: NO

dave9970 · Answer

accidentally on purpose!

chriscdi · Answer

maybe in the dark and still at that point, he most likely knows what he is doing

Feelicks · Answer

I mean it can happen if you're going fast and slip out, but that hasn't actually resulted in more than an erroneous knocking at the door so to speak, lol.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Nah, I think they're bullshitting you. ... Unless he's just really f'ing ignorant.

Wise4myage · Answer

That sounds very intentional to me.

Nic1330 · Answer

I doubt it was an accident but maybe I'm biased because I'd like to be in the other option or maybe I'm wrong and it was an accident

Twalli · Answer

The only wrong hole it can accidentally go into is the pussy. It won't go in the asshole without intent. Sometimes even with intent it may not go in.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Accidents do happen if you're having rougher and more wild sex. But in theory if you have sex like that you are more up for whatever happens. I wouldn't say its super common like once a week your going to take it up the butt by accident but maybe once a year if y'all fuck a lot. Especially weird positions and in the dark and stuff like that.

Diversity_Hire · Answer

It's happened a handful of times over the years. The problem occurs when I get a bit too into it; I've slipped out before and going back in... well you can imagine.