My new boyfriend is wanting me to swallow but I never done it?

I'm 18 and not a porn star but my new boyfriend wants me to swallow when he cums. I gave him head last night and was about to try it but I got scared. He's not forcing me but he wants me to since he wants a girlfriend who swallows. I need some tips I guess. What's it like?

My new boyfriend is wanting me to swallow but I never done it?
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  • Most of guys’ love when a girl swallows our cum , it’s a huge turn on to us when she does it. But if you feel forced to do it , and don’t want to do it? and you are disgusted by it , than don’t do it , if your boyfriend can’t accept the fact , that this is something you don’t want to do , than he doesn’t deserve you period and you are probably best to end your relationship with him. Don’t ever feel forced to do anything that you don’t want to do in a relationship. All that will do , is cause resentments in your relationship , if you do something you didn’t want to do. If he truly wants to be with you and stay with you , he will accept your decision. He might eventually walk away from you and get it elsewhere but if that’s the case , than he really didn’t value you or appreciate you in the first place and be thankful he walked away from you and did you a favor. If he chooses to do so. Me personally loves when a girl swallows my cum without me asking her to do so , it makes me feel she appreciates me and values me , and wants to please me , if I have to keep asking a girl to do things to please me? Than sadly she isn’t the girl for me , because our sex life will eventually turn one sided and then to shit because I have to keep asking her to please me , it’s sexier to be with someone you don’t really have to ask to please you , they already know how to please you and they don't force you to do something against your will. It’s ok that your boyfriend is asking you to swallow his cum but not ok if he demands it from you. Only swallow his cum if you want to please him

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  • I would recommend setting up some communication beforehand asking him to let you know when he is cumming. Either just by saying it or a tapping or something like that. Then, you can use that to go deeper right when he is cumming, that way he's shooting his load down your throat and past your tongue that you would be tasting it with.

    My new boyfriend is wanting me to swallow but I never done it?

    For me, this would be ideal, because I want to be deeper anyway when I come, and ideal also for you because being past your tongue you won't really get as much flavor. It can vary in taste from what I've heard, really bad to kind of sweet or like water (my girlfriend says mine is more like water, not a bad taste). If he smokes or has a bad diet it will likely taste worse.

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  • I think you should try it. If it’s too gross, you don’t have to do it again. I swallow. It doesn’t taste good but it’s bearable

  • You can just tell him you're not ready to do it

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  • swallowing cum may take a few times to get used overall it's not bad and they expect it swallowed

  • Do not do something you are not comfortable with.

  • You say he isn't forcing you to do it, but if he asks and you don't want to.. Tell him you'll feed him some and if HE swallows it, you will!

    I guarantee you he won't!

  • Your boy friend sounds like a Barbarian ! Kick the moron to the curb. Jesus!

  • It’s not bad. Millions of women love it

  • Take your time and get used to giving head , it's hard to just swallow the first time while giving head for a lot of women , but in most cases it's just the starting trouble

    You can communicate with him if you dislike it even after trying it

    • I give him head lots just not let him cum in my mouth and swallow

    • DO you wish to?

  • Does he cum in your mouth now but you just spit it out?

  • Agree to trying baby steps to see if you can do it. Start with a couple of drops, maybe after a hj and work your way up from there.

  • just tell him u aren't ready for that

    communication is always the key

  • Don't feel pressured into doing it, if he says you must and you don't want to, then tell him to find a girlfriend who actually likes doing it. If you want to or are willing to try if anything to make him happy, then take it easy and it'll come to you.

  • Hmm if I were you I would negotiate with him, first let him fire in your mouth, if you don’t like it, spit it out. If you do like it, swallow. But if you don’t want to do either - don’t wait till he’s ready to fire. Have tissues, or toilet paper ready or if you want he can fire on your breasts. But don’t be forced into doing something that you don’t want to do.

  • It is ur body and ur choice not his. He is still getting some good orgasms out of it!! Does he return the favor every time? U deserve some good orgasms also! How old is he? Maybe give him a handjob and then put a little on ur finger and taste it and see if u might get use to it. Your thoughts?

    • He is 21 and I give him head lots just do not have him cum in my mouth but he really says he likes it if I swallow. So I tasted it so that is not the problem just not sure about the squirting and me trying to swallow it all. Did your gfs swallow for you?

    • Some have and some do not like it. It is their choice... the orgasms are fantastic either way Message me if u want tot alk about it

  • Just try it once and see if like it.

  • Lasagna is GREAT to swallow, lassie !!!

  • It should be pretty easy and enjoyable for you depending if you like the taste if cum already

  • A lot of girls swallow. It's a slightly unpleasant taste from what I know, but it's not really a gross taste. Plus he probably doesn't cum like a firehose, so there's not a lot. If you don't like the taste, drink water afterwards. I don't think he wants you to swallow and then wax lyrically about how good it tastes. It's hot to see your girl swallow.

  • What are you scared of? It ain’t watermelon seeds…

  • It's fun to try and see if it makes you horny, it's more for erotic reasons, having a guy ejaculate into your mouth.

  • Ok, so pressure to perform anything sexual is not cool. Swallowing is not a big deal and yes, for guys, it’s awesome. But only if you are ok with doing it.

  • He should take what he gets, have u tasted it?

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