Pretty generalized question , keep your expectations low and enjoy the company as it is. If you have sex great if not then great ! I take it for what it is and if we have a good time then I'm happy.
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JamesHarrysXper 1
1 y
Nope. Unless you advertise yourself as loose, no we don't. (traditional men)
The fboys do though, if it's not with you, it will be with somebody else. Same mentality as promiscuous women.
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GoodGuyBreakingBadMaster
1 y
Nope, I'm the oldest male virgin on this site, sorry, saving myself for after marriage.
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bowenwMaster
1 y
I've never had that expectation.
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megabamseExplorer
1 y
Don't expect it no, but hope for it
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TheSpaceGnomeGuru
1 y
I don't.
I appreciate full nudity and spilling every detail about her mind on the first date though, so I know what I'm going for. Oversharing makes dating way easier.
But because sex has the risk of negative concequences, that can wait until i'm sure everything she said to me about herself is true and I know everything about her.
At that point, if all checks out well compatibility wise, then I'll be ok with sex.
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Akam93Yoda
1 y
I did because I was horny.
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BrookeS
1 y
What about girls?
Mr1derfulGuru
1 y
Nope
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RHK36Yoda
1 y
Depends on the girl and how the relationship came to be.
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AsaKyoYoda
1 y
I'm pretty sure a lot do, considering there are so many stories about it online and irl
But like if I was doing that, would I expect it? Uh no... because we're trying to get to know each other lmao... like why tf would we toss intimacy into it when I barely know who tf you are? 💀
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MansearchingYoda
1 y
I never have.
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SolitarySolaceYoda
1 y
No. I find sex repulsive
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beernbacon69Xper 5
1 y
No, I don't have that expectation on a first date for sure, and it's only happened a few times which was a nice surprise though!
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rabbitzzzExplorer
1 y
we expect consistency. if you sleep with 10 other guy on first date and then shame another for wanting the same. That's not nice. But if sex on first date is not your thing and you make everyone wait until you feel them more. Then it's ok. Ultimately there is no solution. Because one man's sex on first date is another's sloppy seconds.
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ObscuredBeyond
1 y
While I tend to agree that women should wait longer in general before giving up the goods, you raise a very valid point here. The thing every man wants most in a woman, is consistency. When she has different rules for every guy, and they're totally arbitrary and contradictory, it gets old fast.
sarasubmisXper 6
1 y
A lot seem to yeah
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UncleBilllXper 5
1 y
I definitely expect the girl to spread her legs if I am paying on the first date, or the very least a good BJ and some suckling of her chest twins
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Sparkie460Guru
1 y
I think a lot of guys try to have sex on the first date but I'm one of the guys that would refuse to have sex until we were better acquainted
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bolverkGuru
1 y
Personally, No. the 'First Date' is a 'getting to know you' situation and I'd be uncomfortable having sex, maybe three or four dates down the line, but even then I would not expect to have sex after the date, but then I'm a man of my time.
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Pixel343Xper 6
1 y
Want, sure, I'm a horny guy. Expect, Nope, 2many prudes.
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MrQuickXper 5
1 y
Naaa. Not really. A respectable guy does not. But, that doesn't mean it cannot happen. I personally don't look for it. I certainly go for the kiss, but not necessarily sex.
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28 107Pretty generalized question , keep your expectations low and enjoy the company as it is. If you have sex great if not then great ! I take it for what it is and if we have a good time then I'm happy.
Nope. Unless you advertise yourself as loose, no we don't. (traditional men)
The fboys do though, if it's not with you, it will be with somebody else. Same mentality as promiscuous women.
Nope, I'm the oldest male virgin on this site, sorry, saving myself for after marriage.
I've never had that expectation.
Don't expect it no, but hope for it
I don't.
I appreciate full nudity and spilling every detail about her mind on the first date though, so I know what I'm going for. Oversharing makes dating way easier.
But because sex has the risk of negative concequences, that can wait until i'm sure everything she said to me about herself is true and I know everything about her.
At that point, if all checks out well compatibility wise, then I'll be ok with sex.
I did because I was horny.
What about girls?
Nope
Depends on the girl and how the relationship came to be.
I'm pretty sure a lot do, considering there are so many stories about it online and irl
But like if I was doing that, would I expect it? Uh no... because we're trying to get to know each other lmao... like why tf would we toss intimacy into it when I barely know who tf you are? 💀
I never have.
No. I find sex repulsive
No, I don't have that expectation on a first date for sure, and it's only happened a few times which was a nice surprise though!
we expect consistency. if you sleep with 10 other guy on first date and then shame another for wanting the same. That's not nice. But if sex on first date is not your thing and you make everyone wait until you feel them more. Then it's ok. Ultimately there is no solution. Because one man's sex on first date is another's sloppy seconds.
While I tend to agree that women should wait longer in general before giving up the goods, you raise a very valid point here. The thing every man wants most in a woman, is consistency. When she has different rules for every guy, and they're totally arbitrary and contradictory, it gets old fast.
A lot seem to yeah
I definitely expect the girl to spread her legs if I am paying on the first date, or the very least a good BJ and some suckling of her chest twins
I think a lot of guys try to have sex on the first date but I'm one of the guys that would refuse to have sex until we were better acquainted
Personally, No. the 'First Date' is a 'getting to know you' situation and I'd be uncomfortable having sex, maybe three or four dates down the line, but even then I would not expect to have sex after the date, but then I'm a man of my time.
Want, sure, I'm a horny guy.
Expect, Nope, 2many prudes.
Naaa. Not really. A respectable guy does not. But, that doesn't mean it cannot happen. I personally don't look for it. I certainly go for the kiss, but not necessarily sex.