Do some women genuinely enjoy anal sex?

My girlfriend and I had anal sex last Saturday. It was the first time ever for me and it was awesome. We had never talked about it before and it just sort of happened. I was rubbing her butthole with my thumb while doing doggy and the way she reacted I could tell she was enjoying it. I pulled out of her vagina and lightly pressed my dick against her butthole to see how she would react and she moaned in a good way. I asked if it was ok and she said yes. It took me a little longer to get in but not as long as I imagined. It actually didn't feel much different from regular sex but I enjoyed it a lot. I think it was more the mental aspect of it and seeing her enjoying it too, which just seemed unlikely to me. I guess I assumed women only do it to please their partner but don't enjoy it themselves.

So last night we had sex and she asked me to do her that way again. I had noticed a small bottle of lube sitting on her nightstand earlier which made me think we might do it again, so I put some on her and myself first (we didn't even use lube the first time, just spit). It was great, and she even had an orgasm!

I'm just wondering how common it is for women to enjoy anal sex. Is she a rare bird or is it more common than I think? Also, if a woman has done it in the past does it make it easier for her to "relax"? It went in surprisingly easy last night. I'm just wondering if she has done anal a lot in the past. I don't care if she did, I'm just wondering if that's why it was easy.

Updates:
2 mo
Thanks to everyone for your great responses. Too many to respond to individually but thank you all.
0 1

Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't know how common it is, but I can say for sure that some girls do love it! I dated a girl during my senior year in high school and a couple of years after graduation who loved it. For the last year or so we did anal more often than not. I started in her pussy and finished in her ass most times. She always had an orgasm or two by rubbing her clit. She had more orgasms during anal than vaginal. She also liked a finger in her butt when I gave her oral. It made her orgams more intense.

    You should always use lube too. We often did it without lube because we sometimes had sex in her car or somewhere else when we didn't have any with us. She got super dripping wet during anal so I could grab some of that and use it, but lube is better and more comfortable for her. A good water based lube is best. Oil lubes suck. Some people swear by silicome but we hated it. It's not as slippery as water based. The only downside to water based is it can dry out if you've been going for a while or the ceiling fan is on, but it's easy enough just to add more lube or reactivate it with some spit.

    I will also confirm what The Sexpert said. Never go back in her vagina after being in her ass without thoroughly washing yourself first. I used to go back and forth with her because I was young and stupid. We did it many times with no issues. But then once she got a vaginal infenction and had to see a doctor and be treated for it. I felt pretty stupid like I should have known better and I never did it again. Don't make that mistake.

    • I forgot to mention that yes, a woman who has experience with anal will be able to relax and take it in a lot easier. And it's not because she is looser or stretched, but because she has learned how to relax on demand, which is definitely a learned skill. The natural inclination is to tense up, which makes it a LOT harder and more uncomfortable for her. My ex was that way at first, and it took her probably six months of doing it pretty regularly before she mastered the whole relaxation thing. Sounds like your girlfriend has figured that out already.

  • So women do love it so much
    Anal orgasms are often very intense and electrifying
    Even a vaginal penetration like doggy or a Clit play when combined with Anal fingering/stimulation can give her faster and better toe curling orgasms!

    But I must point out a warning for you
    NEVER switch from Anal back to vaginal penetration without cleaning

    Whatever you stick inside her butt.. whether it's your penis or finger or a dildo.. after anal it's not clean enough to be put in her vagina.. so without proper cleaning it can cause her problems in her vagina

    Glad that you both are having a great sexual relationship, Good luck

    • Thanks for the great response. I should have given you MHO but I didn't see your until after I gave them. My bad.

    • No issues mate

Most Helpful Girls

  • Anal can be very enjoyable at the right time with the right guy. It feels very different than vaginal, sometimes overwhelming. That doesn’t mean it can’t hurt too, especially when first starting out. Yes it does get easier the more frequently you do it, but that’s probably more psychological than physiological. That is you know what to expect and are prepared. Speaking for everyone I know, the first time can be pretty painful and uncomfortable. So I’d say yea, she’s probably done it a few times before

  • I don't know but I get the impression it's common. I've never tried it myself but I know of several friends who definitely enjoy it. I know I shouldn't knock it without trying it myself but I'm pretty sure I would NOT like it. No judgment for those who do it, it's just not my thing.

    • I wish I could comment anonymously: thanks to the power of google plus grains of salt plus lack of supposedly lack of research : "do they ever worry about the short term or long term, of say, prolapse or leaks or both?" After all, such things can happen to anyone from variety of causes and aging unrelated from anal. 😋

    • However much like yourself lady, I for one would never act on anal sex. I may joke about it or reference it pop culturally yet unlike those with an agenda and without a soul, I for one don't promote anal neither would I partake myself, not even a finger, crikey. 🕳️ What once was a lock 🔐🔒 may widen lol 🕳️🇭🇲😵

    • Typo on the flag. The emojis meant to symbolise loosening from exits that shouldn't be entries aka golf holes lol 🕳️ and locks 🔒🔐 referring to exit only not entry no entry lol 🚫⛔

    • Show All

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

5 6
  • It is definitely more common than you think. I have quite a few friends who I know enjoy it. And it does make it easier to relax in that you know what to expect, but you also said you used lube so I'm sure that helped.

    • No fear or concern among them of prolapse or leakage or loosen or any of those words? Google sure is a powerful salt aka grain of salt. However like the lady above, no I'd never partake. Joke or pop culture joke it sure, but partake? Me, never 👀😑

  • Not sure how common it is but my wife likes it as well. We were very anti anal at first but we gave it a try and had fun… we do it to change things up

  • Yes they do, normally those who have started off slowly with someone that knows how to have anal sex and not someone that watches porn and assumes you just slam it into the garage.

  • Many my friends do it from behind and enjoy it

  • Yesss anal can feel amazing if done right

  • Definitely. There are a lot of women who absolutely love it.

  • It is more common than most people think.

  • There's a wrong way to do it. If the girl doesn't want it or is nervous, she'll be tense and it will be hard to do it and she won't enjoy it. However, if she's willing to try and the guy is good at it then it will feel good for her. The asshole has a lot of nerve endings and if they're stimulated correctly, it feels good. That's why butt plugs are so popular.

  • apparently they do

  • The anus can be an eregenous zone. I think it’s a trained sexuality instead of biological.

  • And I believe men only have sex to please their partners. Men from what I’ve heard don’t enjoy sex.

    • @Tim2nice it’s not nonsense. It’s what I’ve heard from personal experience. And what do you mean you would be better off? You Make no sense

    • @Tim2nice if women didn’t enjoy sex then women would be better off