Do some women genuinely enjoy anal sex?

Question

My girlfriend and I had anal sex last Saturday. It was the first time ever for me and it was awesome. We had never talked about it before and it just sort of happened. I was rubbing her butthole with my thumb while doing doggy and the way she reacted I could tell she was enjoying it. I pulled out of her vagina and lightly pressed my dick against her butthole to see how she would react and she moaned in a good way. I asked if it was ok and she said yes. It took me a little longer to get in but not as long as I imagined. It actually didn't feel much different from regular sex but I enjoyed it a lot. I think it was more the mental aspect of it and seeing her enjoying it too, which just seemed unlikely to me. I guess I assumed women only do it to please their partner but don't enjoy it themselves.

So last night we had sex and she asked me to do her that way again. I had noticed a small bottle of lube sitting on her nightstand earlier which made me think we might do it again, so I put some on her and myself first (we didn't even use lube the first time, just spit). It was great, and she even had an orgasm!

I'm just wondering how common it is for women to enjoy anal sex. Is she a rare bird or is it more common than I think? Also, if a woman has done it in the past does it make it easier for her to "relax"? It went in surprisingly easy last night. I'm just wondering if she has done anal a lot in the past. I don't care if she did, I'm just wondering if that's why it was easy.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't know how common it is, but I can say for sure that some girls do love it! I dated a girl during my senior year in high school and a couple of years after graduation who loved it. For the last year or so we did anal more often than not. I started in her pussy and finished in her ass most times. She always had an orgasm or two by rubbing her clit. She had more orgasms during anal than vaginal. She also liked a finger in her butt when I gave her oral. It made her orgams more intense.

You should always use lube too. We often did it without lube because we sometimes had sex in her car or somewhere else when we didn't have any with us. She got super dripping wet during anal so I could grab some of that and use it, but lube is better and more comfortable for her. A good water based lube is best. Oil lubes suck. Some people swear by silicome but we hated it. It's not as slippery as water based. The only downside to water based is it can dry out if you've been going for a while or the ceiling fan is on, but it's easy enough just to add more lube or reactivate it with some spit.

I will also confirm what The Sexpert said. Never go back in her vagina after being in her ass without thoroughly washing yourself first. I used to go back and forth with her because I was young and stupid. We did it many times with no issues. But then once she got a vaginal infenction and had to see a doctor and be treated for it. I felt pretty stupid like I should have known better and I never did it again. Don't make that mistake.

The_Sexpert · Accepted Answer

So women do love it so much
Anal orgasms are often very intense and electrifying
Even a vaginal penetration like doggy or a Clit play when combined with Anal fingering/stimulation can give her faster and better toe curling orgasms!

But I must point out a warning for you
NEVER switch from Anal back to vaginal penetration without cleaning

Whatever you stick inside her butt.. whether it's your penis or finger or a dildo.. after anal it's not clean enough to be put in her vagina.. so without proper cleaning it can cause her problems in her vagina

Glad that you both are having a great sexual relationship, Good luck

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Anal can be very enjoyable at the right time with the right guy. It feels very different than vaginal, sometimes overwhelming. That doesn’t mean it can’t hurt too, especially when first starting out. Yes it does get easier the more frequently you do it, but that’s probably more psychological than physiological. That is you know what to expect and are prepared. Speaking for everyone I know, the first time can be pretty painful and uncomfortable. So I’d say yea, she’s probably done it a few times before

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't know but I get the impression it's common. I've never tried it myself but I know of several friends who definitely enjoy it. I know I shouldn't knock it without trying it myself but I'm pretty sure I would NOT like it. No judgment for those who do it, it's just not my thing.

misterious87 · Answer

It is definitely more common than you think. I have quite a few friends who I know enjoy it. And it does make it easier to relax in that you know what to expect, but you also said you used lube so I'm sure that helped.

RobT312 · Answer

Not sure how common it is but my wife likes it as well. We were very anti anal at first but we gave it a try and had fun… we do it to change things up

Apple1996 · Answer

Yesss anal can feel amazing if done right

RebelinSteel · Answer

Yes they do, normally those who have started off slowly with someone that knows how to have anal sex and not someone that watches porn and assumes you just slam it into the garage.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Definitely. There are a lot of women who absolutely love it.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is more common than most people think.

Twalli · Answer

There's a wrong way to do it. If the girl doesn't want it or is nervous, she'll be tense and it will be hard to do it and she won't enjoy it. However, if she's willing to try and the guy is good at it then it will feel good for her. The asshole has a lot of nerve endings and if they're stimulated correctly, it feels good. That's why butt plugs are so popular.