Do you believe being heterosexual, bisexual or homosexual etc is a choice?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't believe its a direct choice, but like all other mental illnesses the result of one. It is the effect of a choice.

Romans 1:24 - 27
(24) Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. 25 They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.

(26) Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. (27) In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.

Soremain · Accepted Answer

It's very easy to check in your own experience. Did you make that choice or did you just naturally find yourself to be attracted to the opposite / the same sex? Can you right now choose to change your sexuality? The people who say it is a choice are bi sexuals. Because straight and gay people have no choice, only bi sexuals can pick and choose.

MissDawn7961 · Accepted Answer

yes I do for you know what sex you are and what sex you should marry and date too ! I know of one male who became involved with male prostitution and ended up becoming a Christian and turning his life around the way God wanted it ! this human said that down below it had a penis but above that it was a girl , so even it knows the difference in sexes ! so trying to become a male when your a female or a female when your a male will just cause you all sorts of mental problems and you will be in trouble with God too ! thanks

angeliquedevereux2 · Accepted Answer

Ok so let's say you're asexual (dont have any sexual feelings whatsoever) is that a choice? Not feeling anything for another person sexually. That's a defect in your brain, it's not something you can just turn off and on. Now think about homosexuality. Not a choice. Can't turn those feelings off and on. Sexuality is never a choice

Breanna_nonbinary · Answer

Having sex with a girl or guy is a choice. Being homosexual, heterosexual or bi can be biological. That’s because they are about sexual attraction and relationships.

CourtneyJane · Answer

I think sexual orientation is more biological than choice.

Daniela1982 · Answer

I like how you post these click bait questions and never reply to them and just move on to the next.

Quackthulu · Answer

No, I'm not retarded.

AzureGirl · Answer

No, you don’t choose your sexuality. You just are.

WadeDanielSmith2 · Answer

Yes, it's a choice. God didn't create anybody as being a homosexual or bisexual, they choose to rebel against God's natural order of things.

God says two male monkeys trapped in a zoo cage ARE at fault for fucking one another, they should have just waited to be let in a cage with the females, but God said the monkeys were sinful. Contrary to what I thought. I thought the zookeeper was at fault, but God said no, it's the monkeys' fault for being perverts.

spartan55 · Answer

I don't remember the day at school where we had to choose if I like boys or girls. Why? BECAUSE IT NEVER HAPPENED. I've always known I like women, it's hardwired into me.

abc3643 · Answer

Of course not. You have as much choice with that as you do your eye color.

Sarahr123 · Answer

I don’t know because I’m straight and would be repulsed to be sexual with a woman

Kaneki05 · Answer

Mostly no. But people who were just completelty can just become gay later on in life. Probably some mental thing that clicks tho not a choice.

DanaeAdam5 · Answer

Anyone who chose A is an idiot.  Being gay, straight, bi, asexual etc. Is NOT a choice.  Sexuality is something that you are born with

Dargil · Answer

For women, somewhat. For men, far less so.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

No. You are born with whatever you are born with

NewZion · Answer

Yeah.

Browneye57 · Answer

Of course it's a choice. But you really can't help what turns you on.
Since when is our lifestyle and relationships not of our choosing? Or are you saying you've given over control over yourself to someone or something else?

AdithyaR · Answer

We're born that way. It's not a choice.

ThiccNigro · Answer

I don't think it's a choice. I'm straight myself, but I didn't choose being straight, I just am. I didn't just wake up one day and think "Huh, I'm gonna start fucking women from this point on"

DamnSam · Answer

Then every fetish would be a choice... but probably there are tnot that much guys into caviar&champagne (google it with the word porn... or better dont do that)

_SOARER · Answer

It is a choice
Many people feel like it isn't because for heterosexuals its natural
But for homosexuals it's due to trauma that causes them to desire men. Most of the time it's due to poor parenting, sexual abuse, pornography abuse at a young age, and effeminacy. In this country when a man is effeminate people accuse them of being gay and then say it's ok. The effeminate man then accepts that role of being gay.

0oGreyo0 · Answer

100% it's a choice.
Most women are gay because of 4 things
1. Abuse ( physical most of the time like getting hit women tend to be with other woman as a safety mechanism or they become heterosexual if they were raped or touched on to overcompensate
2. Because of men seeking attention
3. Lack of attention from. parents or missing a parent
4. Media/Society push

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