Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Do you care if your partner has had sex with someone else in the past before they were with you?
dpy87 Xper 6
It shouldn't matter but knowing your partner has had sex with someone else before you sort of leaves me feeling uneasy. Probably more so my ego. I'd probably rather not know either way.
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17 24not really its just past
I used to care much more about knowing details because I was more insecure so I needed to know how a previous guy was in bed or if I measured up. I've just matured where I don't focus on that anymore. If anything I use that as a sexual motivator or turn on with her so it's not a toxic thought.
Genuinely dont care about sex as much as I would care to find out they were deeply in love with someone else. I get JEALOUS. Sex is just a physical thing. Feelings and attachment though THATS A WHOLE OTHER STORY.
That's why I wouldn't have sex with someone who has already had sex. Because she would have HAD to have been emotionally attached to him if it had gone that far.
@Jamie05rhs Not always. To some people sex is strictly physical. People get in the moment for all kinds of reasons apart from feelings. But I do have to agree that sex creates some kind of weird bond between two people which is why I don't do hook up culture lol.
@Alyssa_11 👍
Naw but it is fun to break the cherry of a virgin
I would expect my partner have a life, before meeting me. So I wouldn't care, if at the same time no health risk is involved.
"YES, I DO CARE!". - said in Samuel L. Jackson's voice
At this age it's kind of expected. Plus I am not a virgin so it's kind if hypocritical to want one now.
I used to be sad about my boyfriend being like this but not anymore
Wouldn't be surprised if didn't, it's common nowadays I guess. As long as it was not too many or more than 1!
Hell no. Especially if they were married before.
Yes I care. But only if they hadn't. I've never been with a Virgin but I wouldn't want to settle down with anyone when I they're first. They need and deserve to live life a bit more
It does not matter. My wife had quite a few partners more that I did but I don't care. She was honest with me and I with her. We have no secrets. I go by the philosophy that she has had the rest and now she settled for the best. Going on 30 years together so proves shit like this does not matter.
Its her past so i dont really care
My wife had a baby with another guy, before we met,
if that tells you anything
It's normal for everyone to have had sex but a high number would bother me because she's a slut, and of course, I'll get dislikes from sluts on here.
Not a slut just fyi. I find slut shaming like that absolutely disgusting and that’s why I downvoted you.
@bones_20 I'm not slut shaming I just don't want one for myself, lots of other guys can have her. You could ask a question on GAG, "If a girl has a high body count is she a a slut?"
Live in your shallow little bubble I really don’t care. Just wanted to own my dislike and the reason for it.
@bones_20 It's ok, you can stick up for sluts if you like them.
@bones_20 I agree with Anonymous, but I admire you for owning your downvote.
Congratulations. Another judgmental person in the world. What a surprise. 🙄
Lol. I thought that was already established. My views are widely known here. But hey, I was just try to say something nice. :)
Nice? Oh...
Yes... 🙃
Yes, it matters if they were promiscuous. Especially to guys.
I only care for a big number.