Do you feel comfortable taking a shower with your sexual partner?

What girl in her right mind wears a bra or bikini top in the shower?
What girl in her right mind wears a bra or bikini top in the shower?
I don't really enjoy shower sex; water washes away natural lubrication, the shower can be slippery, and getting in the right position can require some acrobatics that are beyond my abilities. But I do enjoy taking a shower with my partner. Assuming that "shower together" isn't simply a code word for sex, then it is a great non-sexual way to buld intimacy in a relationship.

I have had a few previous partners who were either very reluctant or simply refused to shower together, and for some of them, it was an absolute never-gonna-happen kind of thing. I dont know why they are okay with having vigorous doggy style sex in the bed but shy about me seeing them in the shower 15 minutes later.

Everybody's different. So. . . what about you? Are you eager to jump in the shower with your partner or do you say "no" whenever they ask?
I've never had a sexual partner
Vote A
I've had a sexual partner but never had the opportunity to take a shower together
Vote B
It's just going to lead to shower sex and I don't like that so the answer is "no"
Vote C
I've taken a shower with a sexual partner but I'd rather be in private when I take a shower
Vote D
I've taken a shower with a sexual partner and it wasn't a big deal so, if they want it, I'll do it
Vote E
I've taken a shower with a sexual partner and I enjoyed it so, if they want it, absolutely I'll do it
Vote F
I hate taking showers and always take baths instead
Vote G
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  • i would rather be alone and enjoy the shower

  • I’m a water sign! Go figure.

    • Thats a yes?

    • Yes. It’s fun and I find it sweet.

  • I'll be updating you on what I think tomorrow night 😉

    • So the answer is most definitely a hell yes

    • :) :) :)

    • Awesome! 👍👍

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  • Yes.

  • I take a shower with my fiance from time to time

  • It can be nice but I like having a shower to myself. I'm in there to get clean and contemplate life which is difficult with someone else hogging the water

  • If I had a sexual partner ( girlfriend ) but I wait for after marriage

  • I do like

  • I like doing it

  • We shower together a lot. We had a new bathroom built and got an extra large shower stall.

  • I wouldn't have any issue with it.

  • I like to say save water, shower together.

    Now if you have just a bathtub and using it to shower, that's not very comfortable. An actual shower where you can move in more than one direction is great. I have a big enough shower downstairs that two people can safely have sex in.

  • Perfect for shark-week. :)

  • Not so much for shower sex, but can be fun as the pre or post fooling around clean up

  • Obviously yes

  • It was nice when she was behind me and reached between my legs to wash my abdomen (think about it).

  • good clean fun

    • I like the pun haha

  • Sure I'll do that.

  • Yes we do that all the time and a good portion of it isn't even sexual it's just nice

  • Yes, I do!

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