Do you guys consider blowjob as a degrading act?

[Anonymous]

I personally don't think it's degrading but just selfless. Like, I don't gain any pleasure out of it but I do it for my boyfriend anyway just like he does lot of things for me out of which he doesn't derive any pleasure.

I've seen many girls specially on reddit saying it's degrading and few of them even commented that just thinking about been on knees and having a dick in mouth makes them feel like a "slave", to which I personally cannot relate.

[NamerOfStars]

Not at all- I see it as a gesture of love and affection, same as if the genders were reversed. I mean, if you're the one down there controlling what you do and what kind of stimulation you provide, you're one in the driver's seat, so to speak, no?

The thing about sex is that to get the most out of it, you need to give yourself over to your more animalistic side, if only for a while. The joy of food is in eating it, not merely in satisfying a need, and lust should be viewed in the same light that hunger is. If you let yourself see and feel the satisfaction that you're bringing to your partner, a person you love (or at least have real fondness for), then you'll get something from it even if it isn't sexual satiation. It's about you, and them, and you and them.

Letting politics get into it ruins it, as it ruins pretty much everything it touches.

[Bricealan]

I think it can be made to be a 'degrading' act, depending on the attitudes of both, especially the guy. I have had a girlfriend on her knees in front of me in the entryway, and the view of my penis in her mouth over and over is very exciting, to see, but I did not try to make her feel like a "Slave" or try to demean her.
By the same token, I really liked to eat her pussy and did it many times, and also ate her ass out on a few occasions, (which she seemed to like better than having her pussy eaten) That said, I am not sure how SHE felt about me after me eating her ass, and later I felt a little degraded, simply by the fact of me having my face and tongue in her ass. (She did not reciprocate)
Let me make this an Answer/Question, to you in return, in that would you think I DEGRADED myself by eating her ass out? Always questioned myself about that!

[chrissykerdock]

yes i find it degrading to a point but i love being on my knees giving a blowjob in a short dress wearing make up... it helps or helps my confidence that a man is hard for me and wants me to suck his bad boy... the fact he's going to cum in my mouth always excites me... i like sucking the dirty old man... i met a guy online who lived really near me i meet in a mini dress and he invites me in his apartment we're hanging out and he asks for a blowjob i'm like yes... completely excited about it... and a lot of other guys... definitely like being someone's cum swallower... talk about an adrenlaine rush and being excited.

[JessicaEarl]

No way. I find it really empowering. Like “guess what I’m about to do to you” or “this is how much I love you” type of thing. Some people don’t get turned on by pleasing others, which is okay because you don’t get to choose your kinks, but life is more fun when you enjoy it

[OnyxianGhostsLove]

That is a great way to look at it! Sadly, I think most people tend to want to degrade others :( Do you give advice?

[JessicaEarl]

@OnyxianGhostsLove not really, but you can ask. No DMs tho

[Guy13]

Why is pleasing the one you love Degrading. I cook, clean, and waste all kinds of Time with that degrading fire play 💩. Only because she likes that I do it.

YOU ARE SELFISH…and I pity the guy who gets stuck with you

[Tyrael]

That sounds like some weird modern feminist thing. I don't consider it degrading, just like I don't consider it degrading to give oral pleasure to a woman.

[Red_Arrow]

No I do not, though I can understand why some women think they are. So she certainly does not need to do them. Many couples find them extremely loving and arousing. I guess, to each their own.

[Berethor]

I understand girls that find it degrading.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

A blowjob a day keeps side chicks away.

[Mandylynn]

No I don't think it's degrading at all

[MrTuxedo]

Absolutely not. I don't consider eating pussy a degrading act either. Those are two completely normal, and alluring sexual acts.

[8Bit_LYNX]

Absolutely bro! I couldn’t say it better.

[Kaneki05]

Depends how you do it and like it. It's only if it's made to be that way. That's like saying is sex a degrading act welp only if you make it so. Just a simple example like you've put "Been on your knees" one does not actually need to do that for a BJ.
I think it's hot in all the way's shrugs.

[TadCurious]

No I don't think it's degrading at all. It's a gift and can be very meaningful in a relationship.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not at all. I like it. If you really feel that way I guess don’t do it? Or do it laying down next to him. But seriously. You’re not giving your man much incentive to lick you if you tell him stuff like that.

[oldguystillhasit]

The act of going down on a woman makes me more aroused the longer I am doing her. I get a lot of satisfaction out of making her happy. My wife has always said she has her best orgasms when we do 69.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Not at all, it can be a very loving and intimate act.

[megabamse]

Not at all, suck that cock

[Andres77]

I think it's very intimate but any ass can take something good and corrupt it

[KatherineJ]

I don’t think giving my man a blowjob is degrading at all.

[RebeccaBI2000]

Never have thought about it like that

[Aakash_Hangargi]

For some women everything is degrading can't do anything about it's natures way.

Selfless act will boost morale of your guy to fuck you better so keep the good deed 😸🌹

[Wise4myage]

No I sure wouldn’t.😊

[Wise4myage]

Girls like that should always be avoided lol.

[Dchrls78104]

To me, yes; it's degrading. It would be a dealbreaker for me.

[MountAverage]

I wouldn't enjoy it if I considered it degrading. But I also wouldn't fully enjoy it if she considered it entirely selfless. She has to get pleasure out of it as well.