Just because people party and drink and go on like they do. It isn't all about drinking their problems or sleeping with people just to forget about their problems.
Me and my buds go to modern day culture parties to have a good time and enjoy my self but I don't do it because I have problems.
Its just to get out and do something else mostly its to be with friends or meet new people and no I have not picked up a random chick and took her home just for sex, I socialize with the girls but stops there because thats not me but drinking and dancing yes thats me but I drink in moderation due to me being the designated driver as well🤣🤣.
I've never been much of a drinker and I've never enjoyed going to night clubs. I'm more the type of guy who enjoys sitting together with a small group of close friends, maybe cooking dinner together, having interesting conversations and so on.
That said, I did miss out on making some fun, casual, sexual experiences and sometimes I'm sad about that. If I'll get the opportunity to make up for this in some form, I definitely will.
It’s sad really. Because we should face our problems. Because only in time it’ll become worse and finding negative coping methods instead of healthier ones. Some people do but a lot don’t. Or they indulge in both 🙁
I don't see much of a difference to party culture of past generations. If anything, Generation X's party culture was more intense and hedonistic. Much more so, actually.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'm sick of it. I glad I'm not around that or around people who do it. Those places are not safe.
Life is about having good times while you can. A genuinely good time to you is a waste of time to someone else.
I don't like people that drink just to drink. Drinking is fine as long as your goal isn't to be the drunkest person on the planet.
No. Too much sensory overload not interested. Rather go out for dinner with some friends.
You don't need to have problems in order to go to a club
Can you not have problems and go to a club, technically yes. If you dont have problems you would never even want to go to a club. Its like saying the best students skip school. Technically they could skip a day and be fine but you know as well as i, the kids skipping smoking pot in the woods is the least likely place to find the straight A students. So why would an upstanding well adjusted and responsible person want to hang out with 99% of people who are losers and emotional wrecks and irresponsible? Would you call that person problem free?
I go maybe once or twice a year but I have friends who go 3 times a week and still have their shit together. They're all working on their bachelors or masters degree and get good grades. People who work hard deserve to relax and it's their choice how they do it. It's just about dancing and having a good time. It's not that serious
Once or twice a year, ok maybe you are one of the few. Your friends who go three times a week i guarantee absolutely have some serious issues. But that only makes me think if you have no issues, why are these people your friends? Its funny going to school is like a catch all you must be a good person if you go to school. Smh. School is irrelevant. Some of the best people in the history of the world had no formal education and some of the worst had lots of formal education (and vice versa). Its like saying they go to the club 3x a week and they also wear blue shirts sometimes so its not like they don't have their lives together... wait what? lmao What would you think about someone who said this? "I like to hang out in drug dens. Its just a fun way to blow off steam in a crack house. I don't even do drugs, just prefer crack heads and that lifestyle. I have a college degree so don't worry, my shits together. I have zero issues." I would say Yeah right buddy.
In my experience, it's just sad people trying to dull the pain or distract themselves. If someone wants to drink and have sex then that's they're business as long as they aren't hurting anybody. I understand it, sometimes things just get to be a lot and you need to take a minute and just not think. Personally, I'd rather smoke weed than drink, but that's just me. It's nice to take time and get out of your head
I don't think much has changed on that front. There have always been people like that.
No, I do not like modern party culture, it is too fast-paced, loud, confusing, and expensive. I prefer quieter, calmer activities that don't reinforce my desire to start the zombie apocalypse.
Not to be critical, but this is hardly a "modern" thing. It's been going on for centuries. And, no, I don't hate the culture, it's just not something I like to do.
I like to party and dance not necessarily to get laid but because I'm a social being. It's a great stress reliever for me.
It does have it's moments.
No... it's fucking dumb. I mean I look around, and all I see is people posting underwear pics on their instagram, hooking up on their tinder, vaping, smoking weed, and drinking.
I'll drink... but it's not a social activity... I drink alone and pass out. It helps me sleep. I don't think I'm 'cool' because of that... it's fucking dumb. Even dumber if I try to pass it off as cool.
Not really but it is a way to get a quick one. I am slowly leaving it and spending all my time at work.
It false: people trying to hide from reality! Why can't people be who the are: with all to crap?
I like aspects of it. When I drink now, I barely drink. There's no point in drinking so much that you don't remember the night. You'd have been as well just going to bed.
I don't have a problem with the casual sex aspect though.
Party culture has happened for a long time. Party like Gatsby was a real thing. People were always ridiculously drunk in the 1920s.
I’m not a party girl so this doesn’t affect me or others like me, therefore I do not care or have much of an opinion on party culture.
I’m not going to go out of my way to stop others from enjoying themselves even if it’s somewhat destructive. And I’m not going to judge. If you want to party, go ahead. Just let me know so I can make plans to sleep somewhere else so I don’t have to deal with with noise 😂
Thervis nothinn different about our time than the 70’s... people love to think their generation is different. It’s almost all different variations of the same thing.
Thank you
My mother tells stories of her partying days😂 she was never too wild, but coke and promiscuity was still a thing. My moms in her 60’s
Totally agree fam. I wouldn’t say I’m necessarily angry about it, I just choose to opt out of it and hold onto the friends I make that like to have fun in other ways. People can do whatever the hell they want tho.
There's nothing particularly modern about it. "Wine, women, and song" is a very old phrase.
Party with someone whom I love deeply from heart ♥ otherwise it's to risky to party in strangers
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