Do You Prefer Your Partner To Undress You?

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Or Do You Like To Undress Yourself For Love Making?

Sangita93 · Accepted Answer

There are no fix rules in the game of LOVE and sex. Ladies or women / females are all individuals, and so men. The 3 billion women on planet earth do not work as a group. They do not get together and agree what they like or do not like. (it is very common to disagree with each other for women.) As such this question is sexist and very difficult to answer with any accuracy.
I like my husband undresses me make me feel more exciting, loved, and intimate, and at the same time he expects me to undress him. Nearly everyone women will be extremely disturbed and report you if you walk into a female changing room and start helping them undress, but most women love their partners undressing them during foreplay for sex.
I had some conversations with my childhood friends after marriage about how powerful it can be for a wife to allow her husband to undress her (as a part of foreplay). It may be a struggle with body image. The fact is - thought of your husband seeing you naked, let alone being the one responsible for getting you to that point, raises your anxiety. Or, if possibly it just has not occurred to you that undressing each other could even offer much to your intimacy. Why should not we just move things along and get naked already?” The reason is - your husband undressing you may be one of the best things for your sexual intimacy, and it is trusting your husband for everything with this.
It is not just clothing… “Why it should really matter that my husband is unbuttoning my pants, slipping my shirt off or unhooking my bra?” Vulnerability is indeed a scary place in a relationship, but it is the only place to go for an emotional intimacy that cannot be discovered any other way.
I am not talking about physical intimacy if my husband is undressing me, but for physical intimacy to be profound, it is going to have to involve a whole lot of emotional intimacy. I think when we give our husband free rein in the moments before lovemaking to take our clothes off, we are speaking something non-verbally - “I am yours to unwrap, I am yours to explore and I trust you with that.”
Just like sex, the privilege of being undressed is reserved only for my spouse. No one else gets to journey to that level of intimacy with me. It is indeed a private club reserved for just the two of us.
Sex in marriage can and will become routine, if we do not fight against that tendency. There is a fine line between comfortably knowing what is a “sure thing” in arousing your husband… and what is simply a repeated pattern of intimacy like a script of a familiar play. It will indeed teach us about new levels of arousal if we allow it to. Guys tend to be more visually stimulated than women. Ask your husband if he would like to undress you. And ask him if you can undress him. Sometimes nakedness can take on whole new meaning, depending on the context, ranging from indescribably tender to ravenously playful.
But letting your husband see you undress yourself and undressing him might be a bigger deal than you realize. It might be a pathway to extreme oneness that you have left untapped. And taking your clothes off is not just arousing for him, it is arousing for you too.
You are the only woman he gets to see do this undressing thing. Consider it a privilege to undress for him. Most guys are visual. There is just something about a woman’s body that a man finds attractive. Your husband wants to see your curves, your softness, your breasts, your … … Everything. And you know what? Your husband does not want the airbrushed model anyway! He wants you — his wife; because the most amazing thing about building amazing sexual connection is doing it with the person you literally said you would die for. Your husband does not just want to lay his hands on your body. Undressing for your husband is good foreplay, because it forces the two of you to slow down a bit, take your time with arousal, and extend an invitation to touch one another. Enjoy the journey of intimacy.

fauchelevent · Accepted Answer

I prefer him to undress me. There's something more sensual about it. I also really like undressing him. Of course, sometimes someone gets stuck in their clothes or it's not as graceful as you might have wanted and then you both giggle a bit and that makes it fun too.

DevikaButts95 · Accepted Answer

I prefer to undress myself. But I start a lot of my facesitting clothed as a warmup before I undress, and they're usually tied up and can't take it off me. Besides, dropping my panties on their face while I undress is a classic Devika move. :*

valentine74 · Accepted Answer

We rip each others clothes off and when I get left in her underwear I either say you don't have to take your panty off I'll push them to the side and she blows me through my tighty whiteys then it's a mystery as to how we get naked

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

I want her to strut out in her trashy little nothing and undress me at my direction.

PrudentGuy · Answer

It doesn't matter as long as both of us undress enthusiastically.

CherryRoseChampange · Answer

I like to undress myself, I feel like he'll take too long lol.

Nexovous · Answer

I think being undressed could be kinda hot.

GhettoGirl · Answer

That usually just means my clothes lay in clumps on the floor, I'll undress myself.

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

Partner

ohshee · Answer

I like both but I do like to undress her

Apple1996 · Answer

I don't care as long as the clothes come off

Hamsteroids · Answer

A little of both

zoeadams3 · Answer

We undress each other.

EmmaMary · Answer

I truly believe my husband must hold the world speed record in undressing me! lol

Jjpayne · Answer

She can ask me to do whatever she wants with me :)

just_a_potato · Answer

More like peel

MajesticTwelve · Answer

A mixture of both.

YvanKarma · Answer

That we undress one another seems more intimate I don't know :)

Smith_22 · Answer

Yep, if she's wanna do it in a sassy teasing way. I usually love it whenever she did.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes that sounds sexy :)

BillieJean1070 · Answer

I love it when that happens!

ariadneR · Answer

Depends on the urgency lol.  He can rip it off or pull it off to side.

NyfikenSyd · Answer

I would love to be undressed. It doesn't happen so often sadly. But the act of undressing someone signals that you lust for their body - it's an intensely arousing thing to have happen to you.

lesleyl95 · Answer

A bit of both

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