I wish I could. Tbh I’ve never had a partner I felt safe enough to share all of them with
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sanashah
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Safe enough about what? Like, feeling judgement?
andy530
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Yeah the fear of judgment is real
sanashah
+1 y
Ah I see
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andy530
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Yeah
JamesBlackDragonXper 7
+1 y
No the only one I haven't shared with her is the one about me having a child of every race nationality culture etc
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UKMidsGuyXper 5
+1 y
Yes I’ve shared them with my wife and we’ve acted out quite a few of them too! 😊
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sanashah
+1 y
You didn't particularly hide some fantasies that may be a little too much?
UKMidsGuy
+1 y
No I don’t have to, we are pretty much on the same wavelength as far as fantasies go
Cannuck22Xper 7
+1 y
I would yes
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sanashah
+1 y
No fear or judgement or misunderstanding?
sanashah
+1 y
*fear of judgement
Cannuck22
+1 y
No. Life is too short to have fears of that nature. Do you
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sanashah
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Okay. And no, I don't share everything.
Plitty-TankYoda
+1 y
Not all at the same time. I usually go a few days in between telling her.
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teaguru90Xper 3
+1 y
I share some but keep others to myself
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sanashah
+1 y
How do you decide what to share?
teaguru90
+1 y
Start with not so risky or too kinky ones and slowly build up to them
sanashah
+1 y
Okay
BilleyXper 4
+1 y
Yes of course,
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GermanGuy87
+1 y
I don't think so. what if your girl wanted to shit in her hand and smoosh it into your face or do something CrAzY - there is definitely a line
billluc69Yoda
+1 y
yes, then we act them out
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sanashah
+1 y
What if you don't want to act it out? Like, it's just a fantasy. Would you still share it?
billluc69
+1 y
sure why not
sanashah
+1 y
Okay
McluvenXper 7
+1 y
Not really. I share them with stranger on here. How perverted is yours?
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dc858917Xper 4
+1 y
Absolutely not
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Veronica97Xper 1
+1 y
Yes, how else are they going to know what I want
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sanashah
+1 y
So there's nothing you consider too perverted and cannot share?
Veronica97
+1 y
No, if they think it's too perverted we wouldn't be right for each other anyway
sanashah
+1 y
Ohh okay
krazinXper 1
+1 y
Noo, some I keep for myself
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sanashah
+1 y
Any particular reason?
krazin
+1 y
Maybe he will think that I am too perverted
sanashah
+1 y
Yeah, I was thinking the same. And like I don't want him to think that I'm actually interested in doing such things in real life. It's just a fantasy, something to masturbate to only.
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krazin
+1 y
If you won't do that in real life, you shouldn't tell him. My advice ☺️
sanashah
+1 y
Ahaha okay :)
gowtham08Xper 1
+1 y
Depends
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sanashah
+1 y
... on?
gowtham08
+1 y
Partner , he might/might not have interested
sanashah
+1 y
Okay
Anonymous
+1 y
Most yes there are 2 I wouldn't tho until years into being with her
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Anonymous
+1 y
Nope, I like to keep my secret garden
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Anonymous
+1 y
Yeah pretty much all but one
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sanashah
+1 y
Why not share that one?
Opinion Owner
+1 y
Embarrassed worried what she might think
sanashah
+1 y
Okay
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Opinion Owner
+1 y
Eventually I would like to tell her though just not sure how to bring something like that up
sanashah
+1 y
Haha all the best. Hope it goes successfully when you share :)
Opinion Owner
+1 y
Yeah I don't know I'm just worried it could upset her
sanashah
+1 y
Well it's okay. Some things are better not said then
Opinion Owner
+1 y
Yeah even though it has a really big fan of seeing a huge turn-on and might be better left undone but for some reason I just can't stop thinking about it
Opinion Owner
+1 y
But it's possible she might also like the idea
sanashah
+1 y
Flip a coin 🤞
Opinion Owner
+1 y
Well my fantasy is to watch her have sex with someone else I mean what do you think that's something I should tell her or just keep to myself
sanashah
+1 y
I don't know how she thinks about sex. You can tell her, but be ok if you're turned down.
Opinion Owner
+1 y
Yeah I know I would never try to force her into it or anything like that cuz she wanted to I would totally let her
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6 34I wish I could. Tbh I’ve never had a partner I felt safe enough to share all of them with
Safe enough about what? Like, feeling judgement?
Yeah the fear of judgment is real
Ah I see
Yeah
No the only one I haven't shared with her is the one about me having a child of every race nationality culture etc
Yes I’ve shared them with my wife and we’ve acted out quite a few of them too! 😊
You didn't particularly hide some fantasies that may be a little too much?
No I don’t have to, we are pretty much on the same wavelength as far as fantasies go
I would yes
No fear or judgement or misunderstanding?
*fear of judgement
No. Life is too short to have fears of that nature. Do you
Okay. And no, I don't share everything.
Not all at the same time. I usually go a few days in between telling her.
I share some but keep others to myself
How do you decide what to share?
Start with not so risky or too kinky ones and slowly build up to them
Okay
Yes of course,
I don't think so. what if your girl wanted to shit in her hand and smoosh it into your face or do something CrAzY - there is definitely a line
yes, then we act them out
What if you don't want to act it out? Like, it's just a fantasy. Would you still share it?
sure why not
Okay
Not really. I share them with stranger on here. How perverted is yours?
Absolutely not
Yes, how else are they going to know what I want
So there's nothing you consider too perverted and cannot share?
No, if they think it's too perverted we wouldn't be right for each other anyway
Ohh okay
Noo, some I keep for myself
Any particular reason?
Maybe he will think that I am too perverted
Yeah, I was thinking the same. And like I don't want him to think that I'm actually interested in doing such things in real life. It's just a fantasy, something to masturbate to only.
If you won't do that in real life, you shouldn't tell him. My advice ☺️
Ahaha okay :)
Depends
... on?
Partner , he might/might not have interested
Okay
Most yes there are 2 I wouldn't tho until years into being with her
Nope, I like to keep my secret garden
Yeah pretty much all but one
Why not share that one?
Embarrassed worried what she might think
Okay
Eventually I would like to tell her though just not sure how to bring something like that up
Haha all the best. Hope it goes successfully when you share :)
Yeah I don't know I'm just worried it could upset her
Well it's okay. Some things are better not said then
Yeah even though it has a really big fan of seeing a huge turn-on and might be better left undone but for some reason I just can't stop thinking about it
But it's possible she might also like the idea
Flip a coin 🤞
Well my fantasy is to watch her have sex with someone else I mean what do you think that's something I should tell her or just keep to myself
I don't know how she thinks about sex. You can tell her, but be ok if you're turned down.
Yeah I know I would never try to force her into it or anything like that cuz she wanted to I would totally let her
Alright