Do you think a guy can tell when the woman is having her orgasm?

[Wendysbitterapple]

[Dargil]

Orgasms during intercourse are easily faked. There are some hints but even those can be acted out.

TMI ahead.
I can easily detect orgasm during oral. I can feel contractions there if I'm positioned right and she "squirts" pretty much every time she has an orgasm from oral.

I had a girlfriend who had a orgasm from fingering (clit play) more often than not. She let me watch closeup to see what her orgasm looked like. The twitching of her vagina and anus were unmistakable and she drooled out fluid when she came. I admit this is the most exciting sexual thing I have ever seen. I would have jacked tight there if I were in a position to do so.

[Leapfrog00]

I've always been able to tell. From my experience, when a girl squirms and her toes girl, she's cumming. Another clue is when I'm inside of her and she starts to cum, she'll pull me closer to her and wrap her legs tighter around me.

Sometimes even, her eyes will keep moving in different directions or stay in one spot, and she'll stare off into space. Also, her pelvic walls will close in on me when I'm inside of her.

If I'm eating her out and she has an orgasm, she'll grip my head tighter and thrust her pussy into my face. A couple girls I was with even squirted when they came.

I don't know about other guys, but I can tell when a girl cums definitely.

[ShellyB]

I feel kind of bad saying this bc it's TMI and may gross some people out, but yes a guy can tell if he has a finger in her beehole. I know bc I was caught faking this way and after that, I just gave up on faking. There may be other ways also but, I would say most of the time his finger is there and apparently there is some involuntary reaction that is obv. If not for that, I think faking it would not be too hard. JMO!

[Guardian45]

Fascinating! Can I ask some Qs?

[ShellyB]

@Guardian45 I don't do PMs on this site but you can ask here and I will answer if I can! But I don't really know a lot except that I guess there are involuntary contractions or something.

[Guardian45]

Was he monitoring the gspot digitally?

[ShellyB]

@Guardian45 No (I am trying to think how to answer this the least graphical way) it was doggy style, his P was in my V, and his fingertip in my beehole. I am used to having a finger there now but it was weird at first. I like it now bc it is like feedback for the orgasm, I can feel my body against the finger and that can make it more intense. But in that case he knew I was faking bc my body was not reacting against his finger.

[Guardian45]

Ah! I understand! Your explanation was crystal clear. Thank you!

[Apple1996]

They can maybe tell a little but it'd be impossible to tell a real orgasm from a fake orgasm if that's what they're trying to do. Like personally I don't want a guy to know that I've orgasmed or not cuz I want things to keep going since some guys will stop putting in effort if they know she's already orgasmed. Our orgasms do not signify that we are done like mens do.

[Guardian45]

LOL! Very true, but we need your encouragement for good behavior!🤪😋

[msmissydc]

I think if a man has any experience with a real orgasm he should easily be able to do that. I mean there are so many signs even if you can't read them all it should be possible.

I could tell you a story here how my husband was for a long time better at knowing how close I am to an orgasm than I myself could.

[Guardian45]

*whoa*😳Please explain!

[msmissydc]

@Guardian45 What? Like what shows a womens orgasm?

[katiesmuff]

They know when I'm having one!

[RobT312]

Most of the time with taste and reactions. I suppose someone could fake it but why do that?

[Keyboardkat]

The problem is, women can fake it. Guys can't.

[summiter]

I usually can. I never want a girl to fake it.

[OfMiceandMen]

Sure, if the girl is somewhat vocal about it.

[Guardian45]

Mine are Soprano singers

[NathanDavis]

definitely...

[AlexisDiani]

If he can’t then he needs to learn.

[Kelly6]

its a gift only some men have

[AlexisDiani]

@Kelly6 make him count 10 in a row. If he gets one wrong he starts again. Lol

[Cute_potato01]

I believe experienced men can

[Miristheiss]

Not always, other than her sounds and her telling me so (which brings up the faking debate, she could be truthful or faking). Sometimes I can actually feel the contractions inside her.

[Finchie40]

Yes, For the most part I can tell when she does, sometimes it’s tricky but I have my ways of knowing , it’s easier knowing when I am not wearing a condom

[MementoMori777]

It's not easy to hide I don't think

[Bricealan]

If he can't, there is something very wrong.

[RavVid]

Absolutely. You can feel the twitches on your cock. Quite unmistakable.

[Fireguy17]

Most of the time.
I have been with some women that might just make a tiny noise and be done.
Others are grasping at thin air, pounding on the mattress with their arms, claw marks on you back, her high heels are dug into you legs and she gets toe cramps from curling them so hard, or anything in between.
Everyone is different.

[talka20]

Yeah

[exitseven]

I can tell.

[FilmGuy93]

An authentic orgasm is a pretty distinct thing. Women can fake things fairly well, but they aren't that good actresses.

[Shedzij567]

Obviously

[Danny_dan92]

There are some physical and audio cues