Do you think being good is boring?

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And do you think you’re a goody goody? I think I’m good... at what I do. Lmao nah but forreal, I do think I’m a good girl despite what some think 🤣 And I like good boys who will be bad when I need them too. Lmao lemme stop. But seriously, good guys definitely attract me more than bad boys. Its so much hotter when they’re good but bad just for you. Now this is not to be confused with “nice” guys. Fauck them lmao. I think some people think being good is boring because it takes extra effort and they don’t want to put in work. Now I won’t say I like a challenge lol, But I dont mind giving it my all. I’m just not gonna waste all my energy on something if it doesn't seem to be going anywhere. Still, I like that good boys surprise you. They are so seemingly innocent on the outside but full of flavor once you keep sucking enough to get to center. Damn now I want a jawbreaker   #FeelFreeToList

Alchemizt · Accepted Answer

I'm that quiet guy who gets talkative and crazy once you get to know me lol. I don't like partying and I don't smoke or do drugs, so some people who like that stuff may call me boring. Many people have told me "Thought you were some nerd at the beginning, geez look at you now" lol. I don't say I'm completely a good guy, I do have my bad side, but overall I think I'm good. I don't know I let people decide. I've had some very interesting conversations with some of the so called "boring good people". And some of the "Bad and cool people" I've met turned out to be complete morons and a**holes. So I have to say being good is not boring. Boring is when you have no sense of humor, no interesting conversations stuff like that.

exitseven · Accepted Answer

Sometimes I get down on myself because I think I have led a pretty boring life. I have never been arrested, don't use illegal drugs, never had a threesome or anal, never had an affair , I really do not have any kinks and have a really low body count. I mostly tried to be a good person and a good boyfriend and husband. I usually thought about how I would like to be treated by somebody. I know that probably more than one girl thought I was not cool enough or was boring and lost interest in me. But I am what I am. Me and Popeye.

Rosexøxø · Answer

In general,

people find “being bad” more thrilling, and to have/ give off stronger emotions.

They don’t appreciate the warm feelings that are felt with ‘good.’

Also, to mention, it’s possible people like ‘bad’ because ‘good’ is usually “Routine” or “normalized,” and a place of comfort-zones.

It’s a wrong interpretation because all things good, can still be all things wild.

Someone may get a strong high from drugs and say that’s for them, but meanwhile, they never tried skydiving 🪂 like the other person, who’s “good,” and getting a high off of that.

If anyone is wondering.. you can STILL get high off of ‘good.’

You can still feel amazing and “bad” or untamed better yet, and truly free, in being good as well.

People only want bad because they never understood how great the good of life can be. Good can still be unpredictable. Good isn’t uniform.

It can be, but it doesn’t have to be.

People also like bad because they like doing something, someone else told them not to do lol.

Kissing in the library, after being told not to can be just as fun as kissing on a rope swing , swinging into a lake or something, or kissing on a horse running- at who knows what- mph.

Me, personally. I like the good.

Anyone ( I ASSUME) can look at the film “the good, the bad, and the ugly,” and see that Clint Eastwood had just as much action as the bad boys. Difference is, he left with the rewards lol.

Good is smart in the long run, and everyone likes the good. Usually. Lol

WindAtMyBack · Answer

Being good is not boring. Being TOO good is boring. Come on. Live a little.

Door number one. Door number two. Door number three. Something bad might be behind them. Something fun might be behind them. To open a door or walk away? I'm gonna open one of the damn doors.

Live your life. Take some risks. Just know when it's too much risk.

Vikkrram · Answer

You know Dizzy that's why people complains that this world sucks coz we don't appreciate good people.

21Cowboy21 · Answer

I find they are yes. I have always disliked hanging out with people (both guys and girls) that were too timid to try anything fun or be open to adventure (wether approved by others or not).

Skinny dipping with a girl in the backyard pool when the old man was out growing up was always fun in high school.

The other one I love now that I have my own place is a hottub in my backyard with friends. My brother gave me a rope & wooden homemade "clothing required sign for when family/kids are over during social gatherings, and on the back a "clothing optional" sign on the other side for when its just the friends or dates is always hilarious and leads to some fun evenings.

AmyHew1tt · Answer

Sometimes I think I'm boring. I have no close friends, I have no desire for close friends, I go out in public only to go to the bookstore, gym and to write in the library. I don't like parties, drinking, smoking, or normal teenage things.

I'll do the odd out-of-my-comfort thing if someone prompts me, and usually, I can enjoy it. But yeah, I think at least for people my age, I'd seem boring.

RobT312 · Answer

Naw it’s not boring, it’s sexy. It’s also a nice way to cover the intimate stuff you want to hide between the 2 of you, it makes the wild stuff 😈 more special.
every knows good girls/boys are typically not that behind the scenes!

Gochogirl · Answer

I don't know about me but my boyfriend is a perfect example of a great guy who's bad for me and I wouldn't trade it, it's perfect

lilyanony1 · Answer

The people that come into my life seem to think that I'm boring.. Basically I go to work and I come home. I cook my dinner, walk the dog and pretty much get my self ready for the next day.
Occasionally I make mid week plans to meet a friend and go to so something but generally it's the same.. My weekends these days I rarely do anything. Its not due to money its due to my health since I have low iron I really struggle to function so the weekends when it's really bad I pretty much play catch up my sleeping til late.
A lot of my hobbies are individual ones like sewing, playing bass and drawing.

But lack of energy means I don't do them as much as I could.

Consequently everyone around me whether they're rich or poor are constantly looking for things to do whilst I'm at home.

So I agree yes I am boring. But it is what it is. And I'm living it, it keeps me out of trouble and I manage really well financially

sarahstar13 · Answer

Yes, being good is very boring.

lightbulb27 · Answer

I think it depends on what energy you are drawing from inside.

If you are coming from negative energy/emotion, then good will feel boring, if not bad. Why... it goes against the internal energy state.

If you are coming from positive energy/emotion, then good will feel enlivening.

Jesus didn't seem bored. Ghandi was not bored. Buddah and Krishna, I'm not sure.

electromagnetic · Answer

So boring.
I spent most of my life making sure I never bought attention to myself because of how my super religious family would handle the situation. As I got older, I realize boring still leads to death so I’d rather die happy knowing I did crazy fun dangerous things.

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

Lol you are so bad Desii! So good and sweet and seemingly innocent…but so deliciously bad! Haha!

I’ve always said that I want a lady with me in society and a vixen in bed. But there are so many ways to be bad and so many ways to be good. I think it still stands but I’m not sure anymore. It’s funny! I don’t think being good is boring but I do think that there are so many views on it that it could be naught but still good…

NathanDavis · Answer

I've never ever felt bored in my life life is way too busy to end up bored, lol

JDavid25 · Answer

Not at all.. A genuinely good person could be the first to run into danger to save somebody, or love skydiving, or be a bodybuilder, or a soldier who never killed but only helped carry his comrades to safety.. Like many people here I like a live a simple drama free life.. I mostly work, go to the gym, and am at home.. I never liked to party, I socially drink but never been drunk, never smoked weed, or anything like that.. So, I've been called a good boy..

Msputiton · Answer

Naw, i think you can be good, and still be fun. I enjoy myself, and I'm considered good

Agape93 · Answer

Yeap, very boring. And no, I don't see myself as a good person.

Dargil · Answer

We may be dull to date but are A-list to marry. Kind of like buying a Maserati Quattroporte. They are fast and exciting but they don't last.   I'm kind of a Toyota Camry kind of guy. A little bit of fun, but reliable, economical and safe.

bowenw · Answer

No. It also makes being bad feel more exciting.

anon1903 · Answer

Not putting effort is boring. Goodness is cool. Like some nerdy men dress up as friggin teens and complain how no woman would go out with them.

Even I, a simp for gamers, won't. Put some damn effort if you want someone on your arm!

RavVid · Answer

Hmmh... nice guy vs good guy differences. Is this the same as nice girl vs good girl? Like a nice girl might - on request - suck me for 30 seconds but if she blew me and edged me for a long time and then swallowed I'd be saying 'Good Girl! Good Girl!'. A bad girl would be blowing everybody with possibly a queue of guys lined up at a party.

No, being good is not boring (if I'm getting sense right).

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