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Sexual Health Guys, Do you think fat women are worthless or unattractive? Please be honest?
Anonymous
I'm a fat girl, well obese to put it. I am losing weight (50 lbs down) but I've always seen people say that fat women are disgusting, worthless and don't deserve love. I have been losing weight because I want to be loved, don't want to be worthless and it's obvious that a lot of men don't find fat attractive. I know I'll be skinny again soon because I'm tired of being like this. I'm just tired of men lying saying that weight doesn't matter or that they would date one, when they never will. So, do you really think fat women are unattractive, worthless, disgusting or their weight defines who they are. It'd be nice to have honest opinions. Thank you!
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What Guys Said
(49)Believe me you are not worthless.
Everyone deserves love. No one is worthless. Anyone who finds another person disgusting a) is wrong and b) really disgusting.
Since I find these assholes disgusting then I must also be disgusting.
As for attractiveness, chac un a son gout. Can't do anything about that.
Worthless no, cause looks don't define your worth.
They ar unattractive though.
Don't be so hard on yourself. It depends on the woman and how overweight to be honest. And younger guys care a lot more. As they get older they realize nobody is perfect and not everyone is a model. Everyone is different. Ignore anyone that says you're "worthless" or "don't deserve love". If that's your own thoughts then you need to see a professional and work on your self esteem. This thinking will be affecting your personality to which guys will pick up on. That is likely more the issue here, more than your weight.
No, definitely not worthless. And ca also be very attractive. However those are always the ones that say to themselves "I am fat and beautiful".
It starts in your head.
I personally don't think so BUT my opinion is not representative of what I observe.
My Observation: Is bigger women considerably fall on the wrong side of this imaginary line when it comes to the dating world. Guys tend to subject these girls more towards being a--> easy target, having low self esteem, considering them as a bbw fantasy all that but they seem to always fall short when it comes to keeping one of those guys.
No, I like heavier women
Congrats on the weight loss! Keep it up!
In general less weight looks healthier and heather is generally happier. There are lots of factors in attractiveness.
There are guys that prefer larger features and larger girls but the majority would find a more fit person more attractive.
Keep getting more healthy and do it for you and YOUR satisfaction not others.
Good luck!
I definitely wouldn't think they are worthless but I would. tend to find them more unattractive than girls who were around average weight or athletic, simply because it shows they don't really take care of themselves that much. It wouldn't make me think anything less of them as a person, just overall attractiveness.
Yes, obesity is unattractive. It is a public display of self-destructive behaviour. It clearly shows anyone that some things went seriously wrong with your mental or physical health to get into this state. And that in fact IS unattractive.