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Do you think having a high sex drive makes you more prone to cheating?

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  • No... I've seen people that are addicted to attention end up cheating more than I've seen nymphomaniacs cheat. Just thinking about sex isn't going to put you in situations like going to a club for attention, or leading people on just for attention, justifying flirting while in a relationship for instance... they want to justify it for the attention it gets. All of those things lead to situations even for people determined to not cheat. The increased amount of "situations" is what leads to the cheating stuff actually taking place rather than someone that just masturbates while their partner is at work.

    So to be blunt, I think a chronic masturbator is less likely to cheat than a chronic texter addicted to social media.

    They say opportunity is the #1 reason males cheat and emotional cheating is the #1 reason females end up doing it. I'd say that getting into sexualized conversations and situations are more likely going to lead to both of those scenarios. The girl that flicks the bean to porn and then wants more sex when her man gets home isn't going to be the one that cheats as fast as the girl that goes on constant "girls' nights out" or "girls' only vacation trips."

    (It's girls only because bringing a man basically shits on the real purpose of the time out)

    No, I'd say the bean flicker is probably going to look at the guy that randomly winks at her like he's a creep... the attention whores out there though will think that was something special.

  • crazy topic, thanks for bringing it to light

    • Yeah, lol, it got me thinking, I have a low sex drive, but I've cheated multiple times

    • yeah lol

    • high and it can

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  • I think one should find a partner that suits one's sexdrive. Then there shouldn't be any problem.

    When it comes to cheating, someone is missing something and they "supposedly find" it with someone else. People need to communicate and be honest with each other. But as evolved as we humans tend to seem, that still proves to be too much to ask of one most of the time.

  • No. It is due to a lack of self-control, self- respect, and respect for others that contributes to infidelity. Someone can have a high sex drive and still maintain their morality. It just really boils down to the person being so deficient in self-worth that they willing to hurt other people in an attempt to fill their emptiness inside.

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  • If you are in the top 2% or so in sex drive, then probably yes. But most cheaters are just selfish and self centered - all that matters is whatever they want in the moment. Most have relatively average sex drives, but they are greedy and see no reason to deny themselves any opportunity, and they often care very little about hurting their partner.

  • I think it has a very good possibility verses.. but also I think if you have a partner equally matched or close to with the drive I don't think cheating would be an issue.. i think the lack of sex would be the only reason a high sex drive would cheat... but then again there's other possible reasons they would cheat like more then a sex drive it would fall into an unhealthy addiction type thing or they don't really care for you so they cheat.. yup

  • No, I think it depends on other personality traits.

    In fact, a high sex drive can mean that your woman continues to be sexy enough for you indefinitely. Someone with a lower sex drive might need more variety and different stimulation to still feel sexual excitement.

  • i suppose it could happen…. if you have a girlfriend/boyfriend who isn't willing to give you sex to satisfy you.
    But….. i know i have a high sex drive and i never cheated because my partner had less of a drive

  • I have a high sex drive and I always thought I’d be the one who’d possibly cheat and was really scared to break my ex’s heart.

    He ended up being the one who broke up with me though.

  • I think that either side has its intended effect.

  • Not at all. I have always had a high sex drive and I abhore cheating.

  • I wouldn't think so. I would discuss it with my SO and see what she says. I am not about to cheat on her just because I'm a horny-toad all the time.

    Honey... can I cum with you a little more often?🤠
    Honey... can I cum with you a little more often?🤠

  • Let me know when you find out

    • Guess we gotta have sex lol

    • Can I DM you

    • @tedbuoyy you can eat shit

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  • It increases the risk for sure that’s part of why men don’t like promiscuous women.

  • It does, but if you’re in a relationship it’s your job to control your sex drive and not give into it

  • No. Being a selfish empty person does.

  • Definitly

  • Not necessarily, I think if you have control and are able to fight your urges. You should be fine.

  • Not at all at least in my case. I have a high sex drive but I'm not the type of woman who has sex with anyone just because she's horny and I never cheated on any of my partners. I get horny easily when I think of my partner or when I we haven't seen each other in a few days and I start missing him. I start craving him after some time and I just want to have sex with him. If I'm single I'll just take care of it myself.

  • No. I have a high sex drive and I’m still a virgin out of choice. I plan on only sleeping with my husband. You can please yourself alone when you take the time to learn about your body.

    • same lol but I'm also retarded

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  • Well I'd say "Yes"
    It's easier to get tempted when you're horny.

    It doesn't mean though that every man with a high sex drive will cheat.
    It just means that statistically speaking, when a person with high sex drive ends up partnering with a frigid person, there will be more chances that the one that's not satisfied will look for it elsewhere.
    On the other hand, an honest partner will just be upfront and make it clear that the relationship is not working because he/she is constantly unsatisfied.

  • yes but that's not an excuse to cheat , if a man cheated on me bc he can't control himself than that means he's just weak and lack self control/discipline

  • Nope, I have a pretty high drive and I wouldn't feel right cheating.

  • Yes it's true. I have a super high seex drive, I've never actually met a chic who has a higher one than me. Some have matched and we would phuck tons of times in a day or she'd love sucking my D for an hour or more, etc.. but in general, when the seexual chemistry wore off in a relationship, especially if I wasn't that attracted to her and could find hotter, I would end up cheating for sure.

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