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Do you think it sounds strange for a woman to have a fantasy about being raped by a man she thinks is really handsome?

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  • I've heard that it's not uncommon.
    Obviously, a rape "fantasy" isn't a desire to actually be raped. The thing is, in our fantasies, we are in control. We're safe.

    I think there are different aspects involved in a rape fantasy. First, I assume that the man is always handsome and he might have a gorgeous and intimidating cock. As in "bodice ripper" novels, he is driven so wild with desire by your beautiful face and sexy body, that he must have you. He needs your mouth, tongue, saliva, and body so badly that he takes it by force.

    For the woman's part, she is helpless against his size and strength. She may protest and struggle, but in vane, as he strips her and satiates his hunger.

    I think, for women, it is a desire to drive a man wild; to be irresistible. Also to be dominated and thoroughly used by a big, powerful man; ravished, plundered, enjoyed; feasted upon like helpless, quivering prey; spread open, lifted, positioned, pinned, and gripped tightly; filled to the limit of their endurance and fucked hard. It's a submissive thing.

    But in a fantasy, everything is enjoyable. It's intense but not painful. The man does everything that she secretly desires. Even his voice, his sounds, and the way he cums hard is per her secret desires. It's all her creation.

    • Fanning myself.

    • @mspotaytuh. LOL

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  • It’s about total lack of control.

    it’s common within BDSM, not the rape bit, it’s why Consensual Non Consent exists.

    Where No does not mean no.

    How they look is just your add on to the kink.
    often it’s a celebrity crush, a teacher, a stranger, faceless or even darker,

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  • It sounds odd to say out loud that you fantasize about being raped but I have totally done that. I even sometimes have dreams about being raped by guys I think are hot. I’ll wake up and be turned on. I sometimes even masturbate thinking about it. I don’t really want to raped but for whatever reason, the fantasy of it does something to me. I would probably be into simulating it tbh.

  • Yes she's got issues.
    Perhaps that she can't take ownership of her own sexuality, and will, and desire. So she needs a man to take the choice out of her hands, so she doesn't have to feel guilty about her sexual desire.
    I'd suggest therapy.

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  • It's a very common fantasy. Just be careful out there.

  • Many many women have a Rape fantasy , its about complete removal of power , played out this fantasy in role playing a lot , but one girlfriend loved it so much , she liked to be picked up hitchhiking ( by me ) , I had all the stuff to tie her up , and she would everything to break free , it got really intense , but the sex at the end was great..

    Strength , power , complete loss of choice and liberty , you can understand the fantasy.

  • No because essentially it's not rape at that point

  • That's one of the most common sex fantasies for women.

  • No, we just want to be dominated by an alpha male

  • I've always been puzzled by the fantasy of being the victim of a violent crime.

  • I like rape porn more than normal porn

  • Some women like to be dominated during sex. So long as this is only a fantasy, it's kinda normal.

  • It's common. And it turns me all the way off. It's a red flag the size of Brazil. I'll never be good enough or "that guy" for her. Like Crimson Cure says "One of those girls who needs to be beat up and spit on." Go get your rocks off in the streets. I don't need my real life to be porn

  • Most women have a need to feel dominated sexually. It makes them feel desired, connected. Even the most ardent feminists will occasionally admit they want to be dominated in the bedroom.
    Ever see lions fuck?

  • Yes, absolutely. I'd suggest she hire an experienced candidate for that lol.

  • I doubt that women EVER fantasize about being "raped", because being raped is not about sex, it's about power. So unless you've ever had your life threatened for real and thought you were going to die, it's doubtful you can even imagine it. That's rape - the sex is secondary.

    I think women fantasize about being "taken forcibly", either by someone they know, or even a stranger, but within the fantasy they "know" they're safe. That's about sex, not fear of death.

  • Quite now if its foreplay thats different

  • its not rape

    its rough sex

    i guarantee you

  • No. But it’s hard for a man to get raped.

  • Extremely common

  • No, it's fine I had it too

  • NOT strange. It's Human Nature. It makes me uncomfortable, but it's MORE common than we realize.

  • No, not at all.

  • No it isn’t strange. A lot of fantasies want to be fulfilled weather its “step bro, I’m stuck” to “a man who pushes you against the wall rips your clothes off ties you to the bed and spends hours making you cum.” A fantasy should be fulfilled so you can be filled.

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