Do you think older virgins don't like sex as much?

Like maybe they are still virgins cause they aren't as horny?
I know I get horny but I wonder if it's less than normal and that is why I am still a virgin and haven't looked for sex anywhere.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • When you grow up in a sexually oppressive culture or a sex negative culture like America, then you will have people not integrating sexual choices in ways that are really thought out and empowering. I assume that you are American as most of people are here from USA.

    The stigma surrounding virginity is approached differently for men and women. When a man is a virgin in his adulthood, he is seen as unmanly and almost weak, and women are often seen as prudes if they're a virgin throughout college.

    It's totally about choice Pink Anonymous. I had came into contact with horny girls who are super horny but they save themselves for their future soulmate. There exist demisexual female who want emotional connection for intimacy. There exist experienced females in bed who have less sex drive but had more number of partners.

    Just love yourself as you are and do what suits to your Inner happiness.

  • Sometimes i think i do. But honestly i think it has more to do with the fact that i meet a woman i'm attracted to and while seemingly we get along that's as far as it goes. She's not interested in me. She only likes the attention i'm giving her
    So i don't think it's i'm less horny lol. I think it's that before i was filled with hope and what if. And now i just prefer to stat realistic.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Just never had the desire for it and I’ve never met someone that id want to have sex with. I don’t believe in having sex without being in a relationship.

  • no sex drive and virginity are two different things.

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  • And that cool because the moment it happens And if the makes it all about you then your going to warn it do you masturbate right now

  • It's possible. It's also possible they have a strong sex drive but are shy or just haven't met anyone they would want to have sex with.

  • Erm... that's not how it works, kid.

  • Oh, I'm horny bitch. But you women aren't worth doing shit for your smelly moist hole when I've got a perfectly capable hand and a wide variety of high definition hardcore porn.

  • You're talking about "libido."

    And yes, some people have a very high libido, some are very low, and some are middlin'.

  • Nope. I lost my virginity at 35, i've been horny for years. Love sex, would happily have sex daily if only OH would let me

  • Yep I’m. 30 year old virgin and now just numb to life but I’d like to have a lover now that I have a job and my own place yeah a beautiful girl from California come and have sex with me haha :)

  • No you're wrong

    It's just person by person

  • no. wrong

  • Or they just haven't had the opportunity yet.

  • Virgins are really horny, I was masturbating twice a day in high school. Now it's just meh, I can do it tomorrow, it's not that big of a deal. However, I believe that if you wait too long you can develop asexuality.

  • I don't think that.

  • I guess you learn to live with it

  • No i think its just what yoh eat or hiw tired or stressed you are

  • I think they just haven't experienced it yet. My girlfriend and I waited 6 months, and now wish we didn't wait past the first time she came over to my house. You don't know your sex drive until you've had sex

  • Most all girls like sex once they’ve had it, virgins tend to crave it.

  • Say often depends on the person

  • Well they never had it with a person so they don’t know what they are missing so they probably don’t crave it as much as the rest of us

  • Not really some virgins I have meet were the horniest and most kinkiest persons I have ever met.

  • You just aren't ready and dont have things in place

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