Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Does a player have feelings towards women he has sex with?
Kroberts16 Xper 5
He puts a lot of feelings into making love, very much so. Do you think that's real or acting?
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37 84As a guy who has had sex with over 200 women I will say "sometimes". Sometimes it's just sex and physical but once in awhile feelings developed. I hate the term player for me though because I have always been brutally honest w women i didn't want a relationship with.
200? You’ve got expert social skills lol. I don’t like the term player either. Not every guy who sleeps around is out to use or take advantage of a woman. Women get shamed for their sexuality but guys do as well.
@Rachel794 hope you get tested regularly
Lol that was ment for @mikethebartender
@Puppystarfish23 Lol it’s fine
How did you get to have sex with so many women?
@Rachel794 is he lying I wonder?
@Puppystarfish23 You think he is lying?
@Steven8000 I don't know but most people are capable of that number
@mikethebartender 200 women? You’re no longer Mike the Bartender. From this day forward, you will be known as Mike the Plumber.
Hahaha i live in a party city, think like Miami beach type thing and as the name ensues spent many years in the nightlife biz. I got tested and DEFINITELY HAVE had STDs luckily all treated. You don't get numbers like that w out w few battle scars!
I believe you with the 200 number. It’s basically one woman per week for 4 years. That’s easily achieved in Miami.
@Rachel794 most people are not capable of that number lol? What are you smoking? Most ugly guys are not capable to lay that many women FOR FREE. I included for free, cause he could lay some women for free in his lifetime but it won't be a big number unless he also paid a shit load of hookers and strippers. Lol
When I was young I messed with a lot of girls and a lot of people said I was a player but I don’t agree because I never lied to them or hustled them for anything I was straight up from the start that I wasn’t looking to be exclusive so it was all friends with benefits but I did actually consider them my friends so I did have feelings for them just not love like that but a lot of women think that good sex equals love so they catch love kinda feelings but it’s just good sex between friends
No, usually not
if all he does is bag shag and skidaddle then he really doesn't have any feelings for who he is with at that moment.
It is all about the conquest, no other feelings.
he is good at what he does, remember he has had a lot of practice doing it, both the personal and the physical part.
He can be considerate but that's all there's to it.
Nah I still care about all girls I sleep with. It might not be commitment to life partnership but I care! Especially withheld younger girls.
Nice of you
Can you DM me? If you wanna chat
No thanks
Some of it is real and some of it is fake.
Some sure, but men can disassociate during casual sex.
Well, the standard caveats and formalities aside; I think most players probably do have genuine feelings for the women they sleep with. You're always going to get the malicious and manipulative assholes, but I think most players are basically just genuine people who have sex with the woman and then realize that things changed with her after having sex.
Yes. I love them. All of them. Each and every one. Desperately. Passionately. I wish I could split myself up and get married and have kids and live forever with each and every beautiful lovely one of them
Probably not if he's only looking for one thing only
It's not acting it's not real love...
A players is born..
When he truly gives his heart to a girl and she leaves him...
His heart goes long with that girl...
Now he is heartless..
He cannot get hurt.. But he does not feels love..
But he remembers how much this things meant to him.. When he had his heart...
And he gives his dedication and devotion in bed..
To see those expressions that are generated on face of a person with heart..
Well it's kind of like you learn to not get connected like the one time you truly do give your heart away.
They’re not called “players”. That’s just a nice name for “perverts”. Such people don’t tend to be decent men that you Would want to want to spend the rest of your life with.
these “players” usually don’t develop feelings 95% of the time because they wouldn’t be players If it was common for them to fall in love with the girls they slept with. If man whore has slept with 200 women, he wouldn’t be a man whore anymore of he fell in love with any of them.
I don’t think so, from my experience, play boys act and do everything to make the girl have sex with them, all they think about is having sex and leaving the girl heartbroken, some of them enjoy this, to boost their ego for some reason, only in play boys though, other men except for them might actually develop feelings but not as fast as women do.
It's real. He loves fucking.
For some reason, some people think love is somehow exclusive. It's just not - there is nothing keeping anyone from loving many people. And in fact, many do.
Were you expecting more from your player-man? Like if you had sex with him then he would forsake all others? The golden-vagina?
Sure. His penis has plenty of feeling towards her.
I feel that once the hanky-panky is over the woman must leave.
See? We do have feelings after all.
Players just love the female attention to boost their self esteem
If he is not true you could notice he can start to ignore.. if it is true love he won’t
I think some people have feelings in the moment but when the moment has passed so do the feelings. Haven’t we all had a person we’re all flirty towards, feel a bunch of things when we’re with them, but then as soon as we’re not around we barley even think about the person. Sometimes there’s just a sexual connection, energy between people. And it’s not that deep.
I think its easy to separate feelings and sex with someone you're not romantically involved with. Whether you're wanting a person for physical or other reason, you can forget their face pretty easily if they didn't mean anything to you.