no, because there's no value in getting something easily and he does it for an ego boost
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expressiveshortyXper 1
+1 y
If you are the night call, only hang out at home , no dates, not consistent with calls or text, you don’t even know the family or friends. It’s most definitely not love! Is just the love of the pleasure and satisfaction of his needs.
I do believe men do sometimes fall in love only based on being infatuation from the sex only! Not falling in love because of sex! If the man is truly invested in you sex would not only be on their mind as my uncle would say men don’t want to just waste their time emotionally Unless they are truly interested. Men don’t do that with women they see as only for the sex opportunity or Because they always say yes to it! You might be his sex comfort and not a connection or guards down.
So to answer your question? NO! You’re calling him a player for a reason.
Does not sound like there is an actual investment in the relationship from his part.
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Ironic_MethodYoda
+1 y
I dont consider myself a player, but I tend to WANT feelings for anyone I sleep with.
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K-I-S-SXper 7
+1 y
No, not the kind you are probably thinking.
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NeosporinXper 7
+1 y
Prolly not
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Yahall0Xper 3
+1 y
In most cases no
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Iron_ManMaster
+1 y
Maybe depends how close he is
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EssenceOfLightExplorer
+1 y
Short infatuation? Yes. Respect and emotional affection? Nope My player friend has absolutely no strategy or plans for future. Lot of debt and zero conception how to survive without leeching on his parents wallet. I found him cool and smart 10 years ago but this guy didn't change a bit since then. Now, I think he is in some way handicapped.
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jb12358Xper 7
+1 y
I’ve been a bit of a player and always had feelings to some extent. If there’s no emotional attachment the sex is meaningless
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Jamie05rhsMaster
+1 y
It's acting.
How are you 53 and still don't know this?
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kellythemanGuru
+1 y
It can be real with some women but if he is a true player he just consider all girls sluts.
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DWornockYoda
+1 y
He loves her when he is with her.
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Caliguy88Yoda
+1 y
I’m not a player now but had my phases. I generally like all the girls I sleep with and like them more after bonding like that.
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TheBigGuy9Yoda
+1 y
I was one for the longest time. My feelings were always centered around my dick. It was always based off something on you. Either your big boobs, nice ass, etc. All my feelings were skin deep. All I cared about was cumming. My own selfish needs.
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HappySquarePantsXper 6
+1 y
I would assume him to be, like all of humanity, asexual/aromantic. Sooooo... no.
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ChiPaPaGuru
+1 y
They're a player. They don't give a flying fuck.
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Emanon25Explorer
+1 y
I think it’s real
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b5fanXper 5
+1 y
I am sure they have feelings just not love or even friendship. A true player is addicted to the thrill of the chase. After sex they will abandon you for the next thrill. If you want to get to know a player, you must not have sex with them under any circumstances. But it raises the question... why would you want to get to know such a toxic individual?
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Lisa_97Xper 4
+1 y
I don't think so, it's possible but why risk it?
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NYlatefun
+1 y
Not in general, if you’re only looking to have fun.
Lisa_97
+1 y
@NYlatefun that's true if you want to have fun why not
NYlatefun
+1 y
Do you have ONSs?
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Lisa_97
+1 y
@NYlatefun nope
NYlatefun
+1 y
Have you ever had sex only for fun? No strings attached?
Lisa_97
+1 y
@NYlatefun i did for sure
NYlatefun
+1 y
Oh so you’re now in a committed relationship?
Lisa_97
+1 y
@NYlatefun i broke up 2 months ago
NYlatefun
+1 y
Sorry! So now you only look for serious relationships?
Lisa_97
+1 y
@NYlatefun not now still recovering
NYlatefun
+1 y
That must have hurt, so sorry! So you haven’t had sex since?
Lisa_97
+1 y
@NYlatefun thanks, i don't want to answer that
NYlatefun
+1 y
Sure, Np
doctorwowXper 3
+1 y
I'll always remember this one girl Averee. One night stand but planned to meet again. I was head over heels she was fun younger then me and beautiful. Talked for a week and decided to meet again just to get ghosted while I was omw to meet her. Since then I don't care as much and tend to not try
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Interstate
+1 y
In other words, she just wanted you for what is in your underwear. She thought meeting you again would be her ticket to get more, but found somebody else in the meantime.
doctorwow
+1 y
Fuckin A man
Interstate
+1 y
That is all that has happened to me, for the exception of one. Needless to say, it is a BIG part of why I quit trying to get into the dating game. I had the shits of being played and my feelings screwed with.
What Girls & Guys Said
37 84no, because there's no value in getting something easily and he does it for an ego boost
If you are the night call, only hang out at home , no dates, not consistent with calls or text, you don’t even know the family or friends.
It’s most definitely not love!
Is just the love of the pleasure and satisfaction of his needs.
I do believe men do sometimes fall in love only based on being infatuation from the sex only!
Not falling in love because of sex! If the man is truly invested in you sex would not only be on their mind as my uncle would say men don’t want to just waste their time emotionally Unless they are truly interested. Men don’t do that with women they see as only for the sex opportunity or Because they always say yes to it! You might be his sex comfort and not a connection or guards down.
So to answer your question?
NO! You’re calling him a player for a reason.
Does not sound like there is an actual investment in the relationship from his part.
I dont consider myself a player, but I tend to WANT feelings for anyone I sleep with.
No, not the kind you are probably thinking.
Prolly not
In most cases no
Maybe depends how close he is
Short infatuation? Yes.
Respect and emotional affection? Nope
My player friend has absolutely no strategy or plans for future. Lot of debt and zero conception how to survive without leeching on his parents wallet. I found him cool and smart 10 years ago but this guy didn't change a bit since then. Now, I think he is in some way handicapped.
I’ve been a bit of a player and always had feelings to some extent. If there’s no emotional attachment the sex is meaningless
It's acting.
How are you 53 and still don't know this?
It can be real with some women but if he is a true player he just consider all girls sluts.
He loves her when he is with her.
I’m not a player now but had my phases. I generally like all the girls I sleep with and like them more after bonding like that.
I was one for the longest time. My feelings were always centered around my dick. It was always based off something on you. Either your big boobs, nice ass, etc. All my feelings were skin deep. All I cared about was cumming. My own selfish needs.
I would assume him to be, like all of humanity, asexual/aromantic. Sooooo... no.
They're a player. They don't give a flying fuck.
I think it’s real
I am sure they have feelings just not love or even friendship. A true player is addicted to the thrill of the chase. After sex they will abandon you for the next thrill. If you want to get to know a player, you must not have sex with them under any circumstances. But it raises the question... why would you want to get to know such a toxic individual?
I don't think so, it's possible but why risk it?
Not in general, if you’re only looking to have fun.
@NYlatefun that's true if you want to have fun why not
Do you have ONSs?
@NYlatefun nope
Have you ever had sex only for fun? No strings attached?
@NYlatefun i did for sure
Oh so you’re now in a committed relationship?
@NYlatefun i broke up 2 months ago
Sorry! So now you only look for serious relationships?
@NYlatefun not now still recovering
That must have hurt, so sorry! So you haven’t had sex since?
@NYlatefun thanks, i don't want to answer that
Sure, Np
I'll always remember this one girl Averee. One night stand but planned to meet again. I was head over heels she was fun younger then me and beautiful. Talked for a week and decided to meet again just to get ghosted while I was omw to meet her. Since then I don't care as much and tend to not try
In other words, she just wanted you for what is in your underwear. She thought meeting you again would be her ticket to get more, but found somebody else in the meantime.
Fuckin A man
That is all that has happened to me, for the exception of one. Needless to say, it is a BIG part of why I quit trying to get into the dating game. I had the shits of being played and my feelings screwed with.