Does confessing your kinks attract or scare away potential partners?

We've all seen those guys on here who ask "mmm can I eat your bellybutton fluff?" Then the next day they're asking "why am I single?
But on the other hand, I've noticed people with extreme kinks seem to be very good at finding each other.

Guys complain they can't complete because they're not rich enough, tall enough, beardy enough etc but I reckon if they just came out with their kinks they'd vastly up their chances.

For example when you start a new job or are introduced to new people just come straight out with it "hi, I'm John I'm the one who likes spanking." People openly state their preferred sexual pronouns so why are you scared to state your kinks?

Sure, some people won't approve but those girls who share your kinks will instantly put you top of their list.
Does confessing your kinks attract or scare away potential partners?
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  • I like hairy women.

  • Attracts a mix of creeps and kink compatible partners.

  • I think my kinks scare people away from me.

    • what's your worst kink for others to walk away and what do you think is your best kink

    • @weysally I am interested being disciplined and trained for a Bondage session and having forced orgasms

  • I don't have any crazy out of the world kinks. The things I like are pretty common during regular sex.

  • I'd rather figure out kinks spontaneously 😯

  • My experience has been everyone keeps kinks to themselves, for better or worse

  • That's a really good question. And, tbh, I don't really know the answer. Because it really could go either way!

    I don't personally have any kinks per se, although I am very open-minded. 😏

  • I would only confess that only and if they ask if I have any or if a deep topic of sexuality comes up. I think its important to know.

  • Potential partners? That's like asking should I fill up the tank of this car I just wrecked?

  • Usually attract and I mean really attracted

  • I would imagine it would bring you closer. Honesty, begets trust

  • Would you have assurances they’d share too?

  • They attract women because I tell them I will make them cum many times between my tongue and cock. Most know it’s true from what other girls have said.

  • we all have kinks but 80% are too embarrassed to act on them

    • Do we have a reason not to be?

    • i have no shame in my game but with others you would never know 😇

  • What's wrong with eating belly button fluff?

  • Probably attrackt

  • It attracts those with my kinks and terrifies those who aren’t compatible. It’s not every girl who’s comfortable discussing cutting off my penis but those who are into it are very happy to talk

  • I have a friend who will only hookup with bisexual men here dating bio says this

    “ If you are uncomfortable with two mouths on your penis keep it moving “

    Her boyfriend is broke , no ambition , going nowhere in life yet she loves him because he will suck dongs with her

    I wish I could show a picture because she is such a sweet normal looking girl ( closet pervert )

  • Some of both I think
    Those cuffs I already know some of them lol

  • Would probably scare

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