Does he thinks that I only love his dick anot not him?

We are seeing for 3 years. At first I just liked him, and he liked me too. After a year, he told me that he loves me, while he was drunk and while we had sex. I didn't say anything about it.
After a couple of months he told me that I don’t want anything serious with him, that I don’t love him and I told him I had never been in love with him. After that, dating got worse, we saw each other, but I was cold. He thought I was sleeping with others, that he was my other option.
He started asking me every time we saw each other if I was in love with him and I always said no.
He once asked me if I love him during sex and I said yes, and he said I was lying and that I just love his dick. I later said I said that because he was in me. After that, he once fainted that he loved me, but he corrected himself.
He kept saying that he wanted to have a girlfriend, to be in a serious relationship. He asked me when we were going to have a drink, I didn’t want to. He told me he wanted to be in a serious relationship with me, but I didn't say anything.
Then he asked me if I love him and I told him I love him. I keep repeating it since then and telling him.
A couple of weeks ago he asked me why I don't want to be his girlfriend, that he wanted to be with me. During sex, he constantly asks me if I only love his dick or him too. Does he doubt I love him because until recently I said I wasn’t in love with him and because I didn’t want anything serious with him?
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  • I don't think so, anyway don't think too much about it, you're not interested in him anyway

  • It's complicated... I get it.. clear things out

  • The left it late to say I love you and he's thinking now that your only saying it because it's what he wants to hear and not what you feel.

    Tell me something, why is it just recently you fell Inlove with him and you weren't before? *what changed

  • You love him. Nothing less than that what he wants

  • Some guys are just good for that 1 thing. If we could just keep them from talking, they would be perfect.

  • Yeah, he probably still does doubt you. And it's understandable. If you want him to believe you, you need to be consistent and continually prove your love to him. Because there was a long period there where you were really messing with his head (though probably unintentionally).

    However, you need to decide for yourself whether you actually do love him. Don't say it unless it's true. If you're not sure, just be honest and say you're not sure. In that case, just keep an open mind and and an open heart and let Cupid do his work. :)

  • It's clear You don't Love Him. That, You mentioned.
    What He needs to get through that thick skull is that You don't.

    • Mmm I like skulls 💀

    • Me too!

    • Your reason?

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  • i am indecisive

  • Yeah i pretty much think he thinks that

  • He has to many fears of people hurting him an needs help him with or he won't lern to ever trust you

  • Face it if he got his dick cut off tomorrow im sure you will think of him differently.

  • You have VERY good stories. You should write these in a novel or something. Journal at least. Good luck brauddahs

  • Please:
    Get married
    Have his babies
    And live unhappily ever after!

  • Prob. Do you love him?

  • After 3 years, I think he loves you and loves to fuck you

  • Yeah

  • I’m sorry but you should really focus on yourself first. The inconsistency is appaling.

  • Yes, you are horny and have over-active hormones otherwise you wouldn't give your pussy away to a cheater! Have some self-respect for yourself!

  • Sounds like insecurity problems on his part you can love someone and not be in love with them but why waste all that time and energy sounds harsh but i think you need to be blunt and tell the dude what the situation is with you the sex is good but you don't want shit with him otherwise your just misleading him

  • Ask him!

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