Does he thinks that I only love his dick anot not him?

We are seeing for 3 years. At first I just liked him, and he liked me too. After a year, he told me that he loves me, while he was drunk and while we had sex. I didn't say anything about it.
After a couple of months he told me that I don’t want anything serious with him, that I don’t love him and I told him I had never been in love with him. After that, dating got worse, we saw each other, but I was cold. He thought I was sleeping with others, that he was my other option.
He started asking me every time we saw each other if I was in love with him and I always said no.
He once asked me if I love him during sex and I said yes, and he said I was lying and that I just love his dick. I later said I said that because he was in me. After that, he once fainted that he loved me, but he corrected himself.
He kept saying that he wanted to have a girlfriend, to be in a serious relationship. He asked me when we were going to have a drink, I didn’t want to. He told me he wanted to be in a serious relationship with me, but I didn't say anything.
Then he asked me if I love him and I told him I love him. I keep repeating it since then and telling him.
A couple of weeks ago he asked me why I don't want to be his girlfriend, that he wanted to be with me. During sex, he constantly asks me if I only love his dick or him too. Does he doubt I love him because until recently I said I wasn’t in love with him and because I didn’t want anything serious with him?
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  • That's because you were silent or didn't give a positive response during the first few times he asked that question. And you were also seeing him at that time. So it's natural for him to doubt that you only wants him for sex
    That's why he asked this question

  • Yes and maybe no

  • Carry yourself out of the relationship. It seems you love the guy and you cannot live without his love n dick.
    It is better you decide once and for all. if you feel insecure then let him go.
    N. B you need to decide to either be with him, or to move on.

  • If your not in a relationship you don't owe feelings to anyone if you love him tho don't take it back or lie that's head games. If y'all are just fuckin leave it at that and tell him get out his feelings

  • You should know about it, do you like it or not like it..

  • maybe, is it true

  • Not sure how to answer that one lol

  • no he is a whore

  • Nah girl get it

    • Who cares lol

  • Stop playing games

  • LMAO

  • Sounds like you have been giving him mixed signals and fucking with his head. If you dont love him, dont tell him you do. If you are only in this for the sex, tell him. You are being manipulative and to put it lightly, super fucking confusing.

  • It doesn't sound like you're that into him. Maybe it's not a good match

  • If you guys only have sex and do nothing else that he will think that

  • Are you seeing other dudes and having sex with them? I'm pretty sure that's what he's mainly concerned about.

    • Well? Are you?

    • I only go out with them

    • Why not sex with them? And why go out with them in the first place if you're not at least entertaining the possibility of having sex with them?