Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Does it bother you if your girlfriend masterbates?
Anonymous
My boyfriend said he didn't want me to masterbate on the days we didn't see each other this week and so it would be sexier when we see each other. I'm a very sexual girl and I masterbate when I want. I like it. And I don't see him everyday. I thought it was weird, he's like insulted that I got myself taken care of so to speak on the days we aren't together. What do you think guys? Does it bother you if your girlfriend masterbates?
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4 39if I masturbate, why would I complain about her doing it?
More masturbation please. Women that masturbate are hot.
Not really. Masturbation is really good, essential for sexual people. Just make sure it does not interfere with your sex life. I wouldn't mind if my girl masturbated.
It would produce better sex if you didn't masturbate
It doesn't bother me as much as you spelling it: masterbates
well I'm very horny all the time too! So I get what you're going through!
Yes, because it's mortally-sinful.
No, maybe he thinks about his own orgasm when he masturbate every day, after doing it all week long it doesn't feel as good for him as if he skip a couple of days. The orgasm is more intense.
Yeah
No it's perfectly normal & I'd find it kind of exciting to be told about it!
no I encourage masturbation any time I'm not available for sex
no I think it's great
Heck no, I just tell my wife to record it for me and if she starts masterbation in front of me that turns me on and when I watch her masterbate I control the porn and ask her if she likes this guy's cock and she tells me but she really does like the big ones on a young guy.
No, I really like to watch.
I masterbate all the time next to my boyfriend while he sleeps..
It is fine but she should realize that is part of the reason why girls don't orgasm as often when with a guy is because she does that too much.
That is a complete myth. If anything masturbation would help a woman orgasm when she's with a guy. If she can get herself off she can teach you how to get her off.
@coralee You build up a tolerance and it takes more to get off. Same goes for men that masturbate or have sex too much. It takes longer for them to get off.
It doesn't work that way for women. It takes far more then the average women masturbates to affect her ability to orgasm.
@coralee Oh well for me it takes me much more now than it used to.
Yeah it's a biolgical difference. For women state of mind is far more likely to affect their ability to orgasm.
No, not at all
I like it turned on for me when I saw her doing it.
Doesn't bother me at all. You're entitled to some relief just like anyone else It's healthy and it's not like you're cheating or anything