Does it count as losing my virginity if the guy was tiny?

Serious question.

I've only ever been with 2 guys. My ex and my current boyfriend. I lost my virginity to my ex , but the thing is, he was so small, I didn't really feel anything. And I don't think he was long enough to hit my hymen.

I say this because when I had sex with my current boyfriend for the first time, I was so tight, it took a few tries before he could get it in and I did bleed a lot in the beginning.

So knowing this, would you say I even had sex with my ex? And if you're curious, my ex was not even 3 inches fully hard.
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  • To be honest there is no such thing as virginity. We just use it as a term for when a man and a woman do the deed. Its like marriage. Marriage was made popular by a company so weddings are really just a way to give the company's money.

    • If you say so...

    • Just up Adam ruins everything weddings he'll explain what I'm talking about

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  • Congratulations either way you've lost your virginity. Welcome to the club. It's not a very exclusive club though. We let anyone in here.

  • Most vaginas are only 4 inch so how big is your cunt bro?

  • Lol. Yes it counts.

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  • It really comes down to how you view thing, and how you define "virginity"
    Some people say having oral sex counts as loosing virginity some people disagree.
    It doesn't matter what we tell you. Many people disagree on what makes someone a virgin. I've even heard a few guys claim if a girl breaks her own hymin with a sex toy she's no longer a virgin

  • It's still an act of sex so I say yeah you have had sex even though he didn't go far in. It's like saying you didn't smoke weed because you didn't inhale

  • lol, yes. Doesn't matter the size, if it went inside you, it's gone.

  • of course it counts

  • Is this actually a retaliation by saying your ex's is small lol

    • Lol no. Genuinely curious