Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Does sending nudes make me a slut?
JustVic_ Xper 4
So I'm an almost 18 year old virgin, but for a virgin I'm very "sexually active" bc I send nudes. The truth is that if you meet me in person you would never think that I'd do that sort of thing, it's not that I'm a prude or act like I'm the holiest thing you've ever seen, it's more of a I keep to myself about those sort of things. But if a guy asks me for nudes and I have decided that he's not going to leak them or be mean about them, then I'll go for it. I honestly mostly do it bc I like the idea of someone wanting me in that way or the thought that I can make a guy cum, it's really empowering to my lack self esteem. Does me sending nudes to "random" guys make me a slut?
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+1 y
Okay, me asking this question wasn't so that I could have guys asking me for nudes, it was out of pure curiosity, so please stop telling me that I should just send everyone nudes bc I'm only really about the attention. 😁🍓
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What Girls & Guys Said
10 42Not at all
yes that is slutty
That's attractive in a way if you ask me. Nothing slutty about it.
Yeah it does kinda
sending nudes will never make you a slut
no not at all. just make sure your face isn't in it :)
just sounds like a power addiction and a sexual hook... your comment about wanting to make a guy cum sorta indicates that
Just make sure you dont get into any sort of trouble. And no, you're not.☺
Nope 💁
Lmao What's wrong in being sloot OP
Sending nudes doesn't make you sexually active. Sex makes you sexual active.
well, it doesn't really make you girlfriend material. not to mention the many ways this could ruin your rep.
How does that equal her not being relationship material? Doesn't mean she's still gonna do it when she'll have a boyfriend or that she'll cheat on him or something.
Honestly tho, I've never been girlfriend material. A big part of why I'm still a virgin is bc ever since the begging of what I thought was my first relationship I've been a side hoe, and honestly about the whole rep thing it's kinda over rated to me. I get where you're coming from but I've been wise enough to not send them to any guys that actually interact with me. Thanks for answering my question tho
@Thunderstorms very true, it's not like something I'm addicted too lol
no problem...
@Thunderstorms for one: no man is gonna wanna be with a girl who gives random guys nudes... unless they're looking for a fling or a girl that'll take care of him. and Asker, what's to keep you from screwing up? one girl did this crap... she ended up sending on to her father.
You can't speak for all guys hun. Trust me, most guys don't give a fuck.
@Thunderstorms and trust me, babe, most guys'll say anything to get in a girl's pants.
Lol you don't have to tell me that. I just don't see how her sending nudes would be a dealbreaker... well, unless he's insecure or Jesus Christ himself. I for one wouldn't give a shit that a guy sent a lot of nudes before he was with me. It's just some harmless fun. Who cares?
@Thunderstorms harmless? let's see: most guys will show his friends, post it all over the web, or another guy could still the phone, or a guy can start a rumor saying: looking at the hot women i banged, could always send it to the wrong person etc. now, think about what that could do to her future.
Read again what the OP said. "But if a guy asks me for nudes and I have decided that he's not going to leak them or be mean about them, then I'll go for it" That's why you gotta send them to men, not boys.
@Thunderstorms i repeat: guys will say anything.
Girls aren't as naive as you think we are.
@Thunderstorms talk!
What do you want me to say?
@Thunderstorms show it in action. It's easy to claim something, it takes strength to put back up your claims with actions. Girls are impulsive, you want me to believe differently, show me. This girl is just throwing herself out there and putting herself at the mercy of strangers... this will not only threaten her reputation and her future, it's also and indictment of her self-respect. I here how all these feminists complain about how their sexualize in society by men... yet, this girl is just letting herself be a piece of fap material.
How can I show it? All I'm saying is that I, for example, have a very good intuition. I think a lot of girls do. I've sent nudes to a lot of guys in my lifetime and I know damn well which ones would show them to other people, leak them or something, and which guys I'm 100% sure would never do that. Inb4 you judge me, no I didn't care that that first group would do that. It's like the first rule of sending nudes: never include face. That's like... common sense. If I can't be identified, I don't give a fuck. But yeah, my point is, it's easy to tell which dudes you can trust just by knowing who they are as a person.
@Thunderstorms I've said me piece
@Thunderstorms my
Lol. So have I. Good talk.
@Thunderstorms I will say this, many girls can get in good institutions by their looks and with sex... hell, one person here asked if it was a good career move!
What does that have to do with anything? xD
@Thunderstorms meaning, just because you're hight on the social circle, (or think you are) doesn't really mean you're all that great of a person, here's a good example: one girl asked: my hot crush likes some ugly girl but not me, why? Piss poor personally.
I never said anything about that. Yeah that question was dumb, I saw it, but that still has nothing to do with sending nudes.
@Thunderstorms didn't say it did. I was responding to your comment about your institution
I said intuition not institution 😂
@Thunderstorms gimme a break. I'm typing on my iPhone
Just saying xD I'm on my phone too.
@Thunderstorms it's also 5 30
U shouldn't use that for get your self esteem up. U can do it because u enjoy the thoughts of a guy getting hard just by your pics. But your self esteem need another foundations and no doesn't make u a slut.
No not really i send nudes pics also sometimes
I dont think sending nudes is a problem everyone will eventually be curious and probably try it out. If you like it then keep doing it if not then dont. Just be carefull and keep around your age. 👍😊
Nope
If you are under 18, you are engaging in child porn! Yes... you sending it makes you guilty. It makes no difference if you are above the age of consent.. Simply being under 18 makes you a child and guilty. This is a Federal offense in the USA.
You are engaging in child pornography, being under 18. A federal offense.
It's only child pornography if they're over 18, I have looked into it. And being my age, the law does state me being able to consent. At least in my state. Plus you're assuming that I send them to middle aged men, I'm young but I'm not that stupid. It's all consensual, but thanks for the concern and the report 😊🍓
Uh no... A person under 18 who sends it IS engaging in child porn. The age of consent does not matter. You are still under 18, by law a "child". Consensual or not means nothing. You need to look up Federal statutes. But then again, you are just a kid, who thinks she knows everything.
Oh hell yes it's child porn!
Yes it does make you a slut in my eyes
Can you please explain why? I'm just curios
Because you send nudes to random guys which makes you thrashy and slutty
Would it be less "trashy" if it was to my boyfriend of three years or some corny shit like that?
Then it is completely OK to do that :-) nothing to worry about :-) You didn't mention that you do that with you boyfriend... Though :-D
I don't, Fuck relationships lol. I was making a counter point, I honestly don't see why it's trashy if I'm single and do it. But thanks for your opinion
Fuck relationships? Then you are a slut... No one would wanna marry you ever... No one marries a slut
A slut is someone who has sex with a lot of people so no it doesn't not make you a slut