Does sex change a friendship?

You've known each other for a decade and recently found out you've both had feelings for each other for a long time. Would sleeping together make it better or worse? Would it change anything?
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  • it can and usally does

  • Yes. It almost always changes everything. Sometimes good, sometimes bad.

  • Yes because sex and friendship are two different thing you don't mix it up or it will become poisonous

  • It's very rare that I say this, but if you've known each other for over 10 years and both of you have feelings for each other then go the distance and wait a little bit longer until you get married. The experience will be very different if you do that as opposed to having sex beforehand.

  • Yes.
    I slept with my long term friend as both were singles. I tried to gain distance for a while to her after sex, because I didn't want any romantic feelings from her side. Fortunately she didn't develop any.

    • Are you still friends?

    • Yes.

  • Yea sometimes for the worse from my experience

  • Yeah it ruins it

  • Yea, too much risk, a small chance for reward that doesn'r ruin the friendship. Not worth

  • I believe that’s what’s called friends with benefits.

  • It usually does.

  • It would change for the better depending on each other's actions.

  • Always. Sometimes for better and sometimes not

  • I haven't yet tried it to see.

  • I wouldn't think it would it would just give you a better understanding but for some people it may

  • I'd imagine it would 👁️👄👁️

  • It would change it a lot.

  • It’s will make friendship better

  • It changes things, but I say all for the better. Helps you to be closer and more comfortable emotionally to do so physically.

  • It's about individual values, bringing up - culture and maturity ( on account of experiences and AGE)

  • It wouldn’t change.

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