Only if they have an STD, kid, or cheat in a relationship.
Other details such as number of partners, details of past sexual encounters, etc I prefer not to know. I don't even like hearing dates talk about exes. Bottom line is if I don't ask then there's no reason for you to tell me that stuff.
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Anonymous
+1 y
I think so but only just for health issues.
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Anonymous
+1 y
It matters to me. It impacts me in a negative way. I know it is ridiculous and the past is the past, but I can't help the way I feel.
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Madeon929
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It impacts you? How so?
Opinion Owner
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Emotionally. I am more insecure because I compare myself to the people in his past. There's more anxiety when we have sex. You question if you're the best he's had. You wonder if he was this passionate with others. Physically. Greater risk of STD'S. I potentially won't feel as good as a previous lover. My reasons are stupid, I know. But they are what I feel.
Madeon929
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Lol!!! I'm not laughing at you, I'm lacking at the situation. Guys have wayyyyyy more performance anxiety than, women. We have to make you orgasm and if we don't, we think about all the faceless guys that have made you come. Guys really don't compare you to other women, in general.
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Opinion Owner
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Actually my boyfriend has never made me orgasm and doesn't worry about it lol. In bed I always worry I'm being a dead fish, or if I don't get him off because boys are ALWAYS supposed to come. My boyfriend is under the assumption a female orgasm is a rare thing that never happens so he doesn't feel the need to give me one
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13 17No absolutely no
Only if they have an STD, kid, or cheat in a relationship.
Other details such as number of partners, details of past sexual encounters, etc I prefer not to know. I don't even like hearing dates talk about exes. Bottom line is if I don't ask then there's no reason for you to tell me that stuff.
I think so but only just for health issues.
It matters to me. It impacts me in a negative way. I know it is ridiculous and the past is the past, but I can't help the way I feel.
It impacts you? How so?
Emotionally. I am more insecure because I compare myself to the people in his past. There's more anxiety when we have sex. You question if you're the best he's had. You wonder if he was this passionate with others. Physically. Greater risk of STD'S. I potentially won't feel as good as a previous lover. My reasons are stupid, I know. But they are what I feel.
Lol!!! I'm not laughing at you, I'm lacking at the situation. Guys have wayyyyyy more performance anxiety than, women. We have to make you orgasm and if we don't, we think about all the faceless guys that have made you come. Guys really don't compare you to other women, in general.
Actually my boyfriend has never made me orgasm and doesn't worry about it lol. In bed I always worry I'm being a dead fish, or if I don't get him off because boys are ALWAYS supposed to come. My boyfriend is under the assumption a female orgasm is a rare thing that never happens so he doesn't feel the need to give me one