So sometimes during sex while riding him or underneath, I sometimes like to rub myself some down there. He never minds. Do guys often mind the woman doing that during sex or would you prefer rubbing her on her clit instead?
I'm sure there are some guys who would feel like they weren't "enough" and thus were deficient in some way and it would bother them - but most of those could be reassured. You could tell the guy that you have always needed some clit stimulation and you didn't want him to feel like he was expected to do that too - but you wouldn't mind if he did it himself sometimes, and you will take care of it yourself at other times.
Lots of guys already know this or have either figured it out or have had another woman explain it to them, or are just not bothered by it in the first place. It's just the inexperienced or insecure guys you need to worry about.
Guys tend to prefer partners who are actively involved during sexual experiences, as long as they aren't totally focusing on themselves and disconnected from their partner. Touching yourself sensually, anywhere on your body, can be a turn-on to most guys. Sometimes it can be seen as an arousing show, while other times, it can be seen as just a helpful assist, so the guys don't get frustrated feeling you expect them to do all the work while you just lay back and receive.
Guys tend to prefer partners who are actively involved during sexual experiences, as long as they aren't totally focusing on themselves and disconnected from their partner. Touching yourself sensually, anywhere on your body, can be a turn-on to most guys. Sometimes it can be seen as an arousing show, while other times, it can be seen as just a helpful assist, so the guys don't get frustrated feeling you expect them to do all the work while you just lay back and receive. It is also a helpful means of educating your partner, showing him what you prefer or enjoy. Guys are not born with innate knowledge of how to please every individual woman. People are unique, so showing you care enough to educate him (without demanding anything) can help him to feel safer with you, which draws him closer. It's showing him you feel safe enough to freely be yourself and care about him.
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The fear of a guy may be that she needs to rub because she has difficulty getting excited with him, if there is no such problem can be exciting to see
I don't mind it at all. If it gives her pleasure then all the better!
Oh heck no I don't mind. That is hot and awesome. Any time a woman knows what she wants and is confident enough to go for it that's hot and sexy.
Great! I'd think some guys would think they weren't doing her right so she took over some when it's not that at all.
Nope! Not a bit. I mean, yeah, you're right, there probably are guys who will think that. But, whatever. I think they're wrong. Here's the thing: first, in so many (? most?) cases, my penis isn't going to hit exactly the right spot at exactly the right time all the time and/or long enough. That's just us it's not me being a failure. Second, if she needs that to get off, that's her need, again, not my failing. And it's still hot. Tells me she's into it.
I definitely don’t mind if she wants to stimulate her self while we’re in bed. I am all about having fun and enjoying ourselves. That said, she’s writing on top are usually reach in and do a little bit of light contact on her Clit. Experience shows that it can be too much if I don’t use a really light touch. So, it wouldn’t surprise me if you want to do that yourself.
Of course, whatever works for you. If you have a partner who doesn't like that for some reason, dump them.
Thatcwould beva normal thing for a woman to do if the position used is not dtimulating her clit. I prefer to get her clit super aroused first with oral prior to penetration.
Do we mind? Heck no... we love it when a woman adds to her pleasure... that increases our pleasure, and we also learn what she likes for the next time.
For me as long as I am having sex you can rub what you want where you want esp if it makes it better for you.
Isn't that the point of getting naked and sweaty?
As long as you ask, "May I pleasure myself, Master?" Depending on whether or not your performance and behavior has been satisfactory in recent days, I may or may not untie you for a moment.
No, go right ahead! I mean, I'd prefer to do it but, if my hands are busy either holding you close or running my fingers through your hair or playing with your tits, by all means, if you need to diddle, diddle do!! I certainly won't stop you unless it's to take over for you.
I don't personally mind either way.
I would find this super hot! Either rubbing your clit or your pussy with your fingers either side of his dick so you can feel him sliding in and out. Nothing wrong with adding an extra layer of pleasure - it just shows you're really into to.
Not at all since the goal is to have both parties achieve an O.
I wouldn't mind if she rubbed herself. I think it's kinda hot
It's fine. I heard for some women, it's really hard to orgasm without extra clitoral stimulation
I think it's very hot when a woman rubs her clit while having sex. It intensifies the sex
I'd yes think it would be very arousing like she's really into this!
Yes I wish more women would just do this. Makes the orgasms stronger
I rather do it but I don't mind if she wants to make her orgasm more intense and make it feel better. I think she rather have my hands on her hips, butt cheeks, and breast as I thrust in her and she can rub her clit. It kinda feels good because she get wetter and love hearing her cum.
Nope. It’s all about gettin her where she needs to be. I’d offer help if she would prefer me to do it, however not opposed to her helping out (since she knows what feels good)
No, I wouldn’t mind…. I don’t think most would. I would ask questions after, like if there are ways I could help you out more or ways to make you feel even better…..
But ultimately, if you enjoy doing it…go for it.
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