I'm watching an episode of Sex and the City (don't judge me 😉) and a guy has just found out he's no good at sex and most girls have probably faked it. Ladies; have you ever faked an orgasm? If so, how often and why? I have a few times because I was so very tired I just wanted to go to sleep, but he could tell 🙈
Guys; has a lady ever faked it with you? How do you know and how did you react?
Holy shit they might have been fake I thought my 30 seconds was plenty
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Wonderer89
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It is, of course it is! Go you!
Anonymous
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no never.. and I can tell :)
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Anonymous
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I don't worry whether they did or not. If they did, they are only kidding themselves. I can't give her the O if I don't know I'm doing something wrong.
So really, as long as I cum, I don't care too much. And I always cum.
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Anonymous
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You better hope he never finds out
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Wonderer89
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He knew straight away and told me to wake up to myself, so we're good
Opinion Owner
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Good cause women that do that suck
Wonderer89
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Men who 1. Refuse to listen to what actually works and how to get us there and 2. always take it personally if it doesn't happen every single time suck too so...
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Opinion Owner
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If he refuses to listen that's his problem. Women do themselves a major disservice by resorting to faking them just communicating
Wonderer89
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Except that it's just a continuous circle of blame then and nothing gets resolved. Both in a relationship need to communicate effectively without judgement or their own feelings overshadowing what's being said for it to take hold and work
Anonymous
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I don't fake anything
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Anonymous
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I have never had a girl fake an orgasm or need to. (And yes, I can tell... I know my way around the female body and know more about female orgasm and sexual response than most females.)
Women who fake orgasms are not doing anyone a favor. They are left with lackluster sex and the guy is given a false sense that he is good at it so he never bothers to learn or improve.
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Anonymous
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I have but they always know
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Anonymous
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I've faked it, multiple time, I have preferred positions which I can easily achieve orgasm but the guy usually has other ideas about flipping me around and changing it up all the time.
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SovereignessofVamps
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But why not just tell him how to flip or not to flip?
Opinion Owner
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@SovereignessofVamps he doesn't take kindly to criticism. It's cool I have my vibrator which never disappoints.
SovereignessofVamps
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He's affecting you... I think you should just tell him, it should be fine.
Anonymous
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I used to have a girlfriend who I found out faked her orgasms. When I figured it out I was pretty hurt. She said she was sorry and would never do it again but I had a hard time trusting her after that. It's hard for a relationship to recover from something like that.
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Anonymous
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well I haven't had sex sex yet. but I could tell a couple times when a girl was faking it through sexting. 0_o. haha. That still counts right? I just played along for her benefit. :D
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Anonymous
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They have never. I'd react badly if they did. If they are really and truly tired, I'll happily skip sex. So no need to cheat.
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Wonderer89
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I don't think it's cheating, I wanted it when we started it just went for longer than I expected and I wanted to finish. Sure he'd stop if I asked but pulling the pin when he is almost there feels like a worse thing to do in my opinion
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15 22Holy shit they might have been fake I thought my 30 seconds was plenty
It is, of course it is! Go you!
no never.. and I can tell :)
I don't worry whether they did or not. If they did, they are only kidding themselves. I can't give her the O if I don't know I'm doing something wrong.
So really, as long as I cum, I don't care too much. And I always cum.
You better hope he never finds out
He knew straight away and told me to wake up to myself, so we're good
Good cause women that do that suck
Men who 1. Refuse to listen to what actually works and how to get us there and 2. always take it personally if it doesn't happen every single time suck too so...
If he refuses to listen that's his problem. Women do themselves a major disservice by resorting to faking them just communicating
Except that it's just a continuous circle of blame then and nothing gets resolved. Both in a relationship need to communicate effectively without judgement or their own feelings overshadowing what's being said for it to take hold and work
I don't fake anything
I have never had a girl fake an orgasm or need to. (And yes, I can tell... I know my way around the female body and know more about female orgasm and sexual response than most females.)
Women who fake orgasms are not doing anyone a favor. They are left with lackluster sex and the guy is given a false sense that he is good at it so he never bothers to learn or improve.
I have but they always know
I've faked it, multiple time, I have preferred positions which I can easily achieve orgasm but the guy usually has other ideas about flipping me around and changing it up all the time.
But why not just tell him how to flip or not to flip?
@SovereignessofVamps he doesn't take kindly to criticism. It's cool I have my vibrator which never disappoints.
He's affecting you... I think you should just tell him, it should be fine.
I used to have a girlfriend who I found out faked her orgasms. When I figured it out I was pretty hurt. She said she was sorry and would never do it again but I had a hard time trusting her after that. It's hard for a relationship to recover from something like that.
well I haven't had sex sex yet. but I could tell a couple times when a girl was faking it through sexting. 0_o. haha. That still counts right? I just played along for her benefit. :D
They have never. I'd react badly if they did.
If they are really and truly tired, I'll happily skip sex. So no need to cheat.
I don't think it's cheating, I wanted it when we started it just went for longer than I expected and I wanted to finish. Sure he'd stop if I asked but pulling the pin when he is almost there feels like a worse thing to do in my opinion
In that case, I agree with your way, well done.