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Female-Led Relationships, male chastity, cuckolding?

Hey, this question is for the girls: Female Led Relationships are basically where the guy and girl both agree that things would be smoother (and hotter) with the girl in charge, to varying degrees. some couples practice it just in the bedroom, some couples practice it 24/7. two, I guess, sub-genres would be: Male chastity is when the boyfriend is kept in a chastity device and the girlfriend or wife keeps the only keys, essentially preventing him from touching himself, or getting off in any way without his girlfriend/wife's permission..therefore channelling every bit of his sexual energy towards her needs and desires. Cuckolding is where both agree that the girlfriend or wife is allowed to sleep with other men, but the boyfriend stays faithful to her and actually enjoys the thought (or sight) of his girlfriend/wife sexing other men, and teasing him about it, usually denying him sex most of the time, but keeping him aroused, to keep him submissive. Not many women know, but these are three of the most popular male fetishes, the word cuckolding is actually the top-searched term on most p*rn sites. Men are very into the idea, but hardly ever admit to it in any social setting (for obvious reasons). Many psychologists have noted that psychological femdom relationships are extremely popular among highly intelligent and successful men. My question is, how many of you ladies would be interested in exploring this type of relationship, and to what degree?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I wore one when I was married for a bit. It was my idea and my thing. She didn't mind and got into making me please her whims sometimes. It was hot at times, but mostly it was my thing. I liked it cause I found myself fantasizing about her all the time and coming up with ways to make her feel happy. I was very attentive and willing to do much of the housework so she'd have time to spend with me. In a way it was like dating before sex where desire to be with her was constantly intense. They are mostly toys however and don't prevent a guy getting out unless you get pierced or something. What it did do is everytime I started to get hard, it would be restrained and then off I would go thinking how to get her naked and wet. I'd do it again for a bit, but only if the girl found it extremely hot to control the keys and was able to play the game with ease. Cuckolding is the same idea. My true pleasure is in her pleasure and if another guy fills that craving for her, and she is open, honest and loving to me, I am confident enough to accept her desires and share with them with her whatever they may be. I want a friend in a woman these days. A playmate friend who I can devote to and focus on and help make smile at every chance. If that means me throwing her around the bed and pinning her down and making her fantasies come alive I am sure she will naturally try to do the same back.

    • If a woman i was married to try to introduce cuckolding into the relationship i would never go along with that. If she insisted then i would find a woman to bed down even more pretty than my wife. two can play that game

    • i would never be in a FLR. Too many Alpha Females- they are the worst

  • I wear a CB6000S chastity device gor my Wife and Her Lover. We were introduced to chastity about 5 years ago and it took awhile to find the one that fit prooerly to wear on a daily basis.

    Since we started this I have become on a gradual progression basically a sissy cuckold for my Wife and her Lover. I now for the past 3 years keep my body smooth and I am kept locked 24/7 (daily cleaning) and I only wear panties now. I always dress as the sissy I am inside and I serve them both. I also do all the house work and cooking. So Ladies I am here to say that chastity is the best thing that ever happened to me.

    If anyone has any questions about my progression to becoming a happy sissy cuckold husband Please email me. sissyjazmyne at yahoo

Most Helpful Girls

  • Highly intelligent and successful men are the bosses all day long, it makes complete sense that they want to be submissive when they get home.

    That's not really my type of thing, I'd rather he take the dominant role and tell ME what to do. I'm sure there are plenty of women out there who would be into it though. None of it sounds like any fun to me. I'm not into chastity and I don't need to sleep with other men. Plus, that would definitely NOT turn my guy on, he's probably rip someone's head off.

  • As long as the guy is more into it then I am I would be very open to it. I worked as an online mistress for a while, and the vast majority of guys are open to some form of this. However, I would be hesitant to full time domination without legal contracts for mine and his protection.

    • Your hot

    • Not this man. I am a Alpha male and i am not into such things

  • i think the chastity one would be hot if he was the one who was more into it than me otherwise i would feel like he would regret it too much

    • I myself am very much into trying the idea out ^.^

    • nice :) perhaps feel it out with your gf and if she's up for some kinky stuff suggest it! you can always say you were just kidding around if she isn't into it so you dont have anything to lose

    • I would definitely be the one who is more into it!!

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  • hmmmmm sounds interesting but i wouldn't like to try it

  • Perfect candidate to be a transgender.

  • No I am way too dominant for submissive role.

  • My girlfriend keeps me in chastity cage. It’s almost two years she keeps me caged. She lets me out twice a month for couple days.

    • I am a Alpha male and would Never ever allow myself to be put my cock in a cage. How would a woman like it of men said you must wear a chastity belt

    • you allow your girlfriend to keep you locked up 24/7. no way would i ever allow someone that kind of control over me. i am a veteran and the navy is the last entity to have control over me. I was taught you NEVER ALLOW a Woman to have that kind of control.

  • no way would I ever go along with that. This would lead to a divorce for me

  • I would love that and believe the Best way for me is to be at the feet of my wife

    • That is how submissive males are-beta males- Alpha males don't play that crap

  • me wearing a chastity device is one of my biggest fantasies and i would like to wear one 24/7 and i would like to wear panties while i am in the chastity device and be cuckolded while i wear it but only to men that are bigger than me

    • That is pitiful

    • you know what my fantasy is- to find a faithful woman. i have no kinks or fetishes

  • I prefer the man to be in charge in the bedroom. But outside of the bedroom I like to be in charge for the most part. I like chivalry of course...
    I don't think I'd be into this type of relationship though. I'm a sub for the most part (not 24/7 though).

  • "these are three of the most popular male fetishes"

    No, they aren't.

    www.google.com/search?q=most+popular+male+fetish

    It's more likely that the p*rn sites you use, use cookies, and thanks to your cuckold fetish, have geared themselves towards that for your benefit.

    • Thanks for trying to be a smart ass, but actually the very same link that you provided proves me correct: on the third site down (I can't link yet), Elitedaily, it is listed as #2. thanks though :)

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