Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I have a bestie who is super hot (5’6 blonde, gorgeous blue eyes 34C boobs thin and in great shape toned butt we play adult soccer league together she’s got hips and thighs) totally hot is my point I’m straight but totally attracted to her and vice versa we have been best friends for 12 years. I’m 41 she’s 36. We kissed a few times and my boyfriend likes it but would say ok that’s enough. We wanted to try some other stuff and convinced my by to let us fool around just the girls! it was a 2 night excursion the first night we had a threesome but he couldn’t bang her. Just me. Night 2 my boyfriend left us girls alone lol. We had the most amazing night and continued it the next day back at my house. She came over again this weekend we were in our thong bikinis by the pool getting tipsy and started going at it we spent like hours in the bedroom. We want to have a girls night again this weekend and my boyfriend knows we’re going to dinner/drinks he doesn’t know what we’re going to do later. When he agreed to our first “girls only night” it was supposed to be a one shot deal. I thought it would be but we want to have our “girls night” a bit more often… is this cheating? I love my boyfriend and don’t want to ruin our relationship over this but I really, really enjoy our “girls only” nights/weekends?
11 mo
Fooling around with my bestie while I have a boyfriend is it wrong?
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What Girls & Guys Said
6 24You had a threesome with her and your boyfriend?
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Tell your boyfriend about it and go for it. He's had both of you
Not exactly he wasn’t allowed to bang her
So how did it happen?
Everything but him banging my bestie exactly how you would think I’m not getting into too many deets here
Then you shouldn't be with her more. That's not fair
If it is with the same sex it's not cheating 🙂
It is wrong
The short answer is no. Just have fun lifes too short for regrets
Lady you are not straight I'm sorry. And yes you are in fact cheating on your boyfriend. You might think its harmless, but going behind his back like this makes you untrustworthy. You could probably continue playing him for a fool and he would be none the wiser, but that really doesn't speak well to you as a person, and i would personally want nothing to do with someone so two faced.
I’m totally straight
Would you call a man straight if he kissed another dude?
Eeeww no but men and women are very different
... Ok either you're a troll or an idiot.
Ummm no don’t hate
Oh... brother. Now i know what kind of person you really are...
Oh ok I’m interested what kinda person is that (besides one that can get a hot blonde with big boobs and a guy 20 years younger?) who’s by the way about to come over
Lets just say i can't help but shake the feeling that if you heard of an adult woman roughly around the same age as yourself, being in an... inappropriate relationship with man of questionable age, you likely wouldn't think its that big of a deal because it's different when its an older woman and a young boy then if it was the reverse... am i wrong?
He’s 22 how’s that questionable lol of course it’s not
Try younger
Your husband has got to be spinning in his grave for missing this. No, for verification purposes, we will need to see the photos and/or videos of this encounter though.