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Sexual Health Former porn star, should I lie when a guy asks me what I do for work?
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I used to be a former porn star and am having trouble finding a nice guy who wants to date me and not just because of what I used to do. I have been on several dates with the guy spending most of the night staring at my chest. This usually occurs after we have exchanged conversation and I revealed what I used to do for work. I have even had several guys become obsessed with trying to guess how big my breasts are. Should I lie when a guy asks me what I do for work? Please help.
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What Girls & Guys Said
6 48Nah just find someone who isn't a complete idiot and you should be okay.. that said I understand that's difficult to do these days
I'd treat her for her worth, not for the fact that she knows her way around a cock.
Well... 1st) name for research purposes?
Joke aside: don't lie. If the guy finds out afterwards, it'll be hell for you.
Also... jour choice of job pretty much fucked you (pun not intended). You'll have an extremely hard time finding a normal guy.
Most normal guys would not date a (former) porn star.
You're literally looking for a cuck.
I think it's hard to see you as the Person you are if someone know what you did. I personaly see no problem with it but you maybe need to look outside the box. What are you doing now for work? You used to ne pornstar. Maybe don't tell at the First date. If someone is interested for the Person you are he won't Care what you used to do
I don't do porn. But mens are alo looking at my chest the whole time when in a date
Its hard to fight that when a pretty girl you obviously find very attractive is sitting in front of you. Natural instinctive urges will occasionally take over when a spark is there to check out more then just your face. Perfectly normal in my opinion and while as a guy its polite to do it as few times as possible or not to long it should be a perfectly acceptable action.
Wht did you decide to do porn and what made you stop?
Find yourself a pornstar boyfriend, normal can't and won't deal with you.
lying would make things more worse. tell the truth
No self-respecting guy is going to want to date you unless you’ve entirely changed your life.
As long as the occupation in porn is there the guys will act gorillas and you my friend will be the banana, get in depth with your date before you reveal your past. .
Just be honest, and I believe you will find the guy who will accept you no matter what you did in the past
Tell her the truths now
I feel like lying could cause trust issuses if it were to work out with that persob
Yep, you should, rarely here people give worthy advise.
Don't try to be open just like that, if someone really liked you, he will also be able to gulp down that fact.
Oc tell him before marrying him, hahaha
Don't know. I would try to find a boyfriend who accepts that you were a former pornstar and doesn't stare at your chest all day. If it really doesn't work out, I guess the only option you're left with is to lie about it.
There's no formally about it. You're CURRENTLY a pornstar. Most people can't handle dating someone who has sex with a bunch of people all the time. And depending on what type of porn videos you appear in also will affect the likely hood of dating someone who likes you as a person and not a sex object.
You shouldn't like, I wouldn't have a problem with it, it's just a job.
The guy deserves to know, but at the same time the overwhelming majority of guys will not date a former prostitute.
Thank you. Maybe you should tell them after a couple ot dates mystery can be good. Kik me please.
Lol you're skrewed