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Basically we have been in a relationship for 18 months (6 of which we were friends with benefits). I'm her first proper boyfriend, she's 24 and I'm 25 whereas I've had several relationships. We have roleplayed about theeesomes in the past but that was more my idea to get her off not expecting it to ever become a possibility.
She has always maintained, during conversations in the past that she could only have a threesome with another guy, she'd never be able to have one with another girl.
We have a healthy sex life although I work away in Toronto (3 hours away) during the week so only get to do it on a weekend.
Recently she has shown a lot more interest in having another guy, we talk about it (roleplay) a lot more than we use to and she now requests it. I talk about it because I know she likes it and I want to make her happy, the fact we roleplay about it doesn't really bother me.
I'm now wondering if I should consider maybe signing us both up to somewhere and introduce another guy for her?
Why all of a sudden is she more interested in having other men?
Could she possibly be bored of our sex life and fantasising about this to herself?
How would you recommend I'd deal with seeing her with another guy?
So many more questions going through my head, I just want to make the girl I love happy.
What Girls & Guys Said
19 47This shouldn't even be a question, you should know what you want.
Do you want another guy to do her to? doesn't seem like it so dont do anything you are not comfortable with.
I dont even think she's that into you anyways.
If you're not into it, you're not into it. I wouldn't do a threesome with another guy involved.
i wouldn´t do it. a friend of mine did it and the other guys dick was just bigger and the guy was more experienced than him so it turned out to be more of a cuckold... i wouldn´t risk that.
but i´m generally not into this kind of thing. doesn´t matter if ffm or fmm.
If you're asking what you should do it's obvious you're not comfortable with it and that's okay. If she's not willing to do the same with you, then she's not an equal partner.
I fear that this will harm our relationship
Then go with your gut. It's usually always right. That's the beauty of role play is it's remained between y'all.
Is it normal thing threesomes?
For some I suppose. I however won't because I'm greedy and my guy doesn't like the idea of another dick in me and I don't like the idea of another female on him. We are very open sexually, but that line will not be crossed
Have you done it threesomes before?
No. He's enough for me.
Ask her all the question you asked on here, there is no other way to know. If that's all not the case, she just wants to experience new things with you. This is where you say you want to try it too or nah :).
I also want to add: the crap stereotype that a relationship will fail after a threesome is probably a sign that it wasn't great in the first place. To have a threesome you really must communicate in a relationship, and you must trust and love your partner fully.
If you really love someone that much , you wouldn't want to share them
People have different opinions :)
Yeah, you know what, im tired of argueing, so... Okay.
Okay :)
Ask her about it. Find out if she's actually wanting to have one, for example if you invite a cute friend over would it happen or is it just a fantasy which gets her off faster?
You need to dump her dude... she is not a girlfriend material... she is someone you don't take seriously if se wants to have sex with other guys...
Forget about making her your wife... someday..
Pointless question to ask random strangers.
I personally don't see the legitimacy of a threesome in any kind of a relationship, but others might not mind.
Just do what your morals tell you.
Put your foot down. That's cheating if she's off to get another man without your permission. Reverse the roles, how would she react? Don't be a doormat for anybody. If you just meekly go along with stuff in a relationship she will take the piss out of you, you'll eventually make her sick coz she'll have no respect for you then she'll dump you on your arse and break your heart. There's a crazy conception in this world that all behaviour is acceptable now and those getting offended have been indoctrinated to take offence. That's bullshit pal, there's right and wrong and there's marks that's shouldn't be overstepped. Remember you set your own bar in life for the amount of respect you recieve. You go along with this and let her do it you'll hate yourself, you'll eventually hate her too and you will be jealous and paranoid. This is just the start she'll be wanting other men constantly after it. You're better of running a mile before you get your heart destroyed. You should be enough for her
You don't do anything because ur not into it. Consent applies to men too. And when u talk about hypothetical situations, u r more or less conditioning yourself to the shock of it to where it's not unusual and can likely happen given a will, kind of like inception. If you really aren't for it, then you'll have to communicate u were only role playing for her. God knows u'd be doing FFM role play given the chance
wow she wants a threesome and you are still in a relationship with this woman... either you have a very low self esteem or something is severely wrong with you man... get your life together these sort of women are nothing but trouble and the fact that so many women have the same mentality like your girl just shows how f@ckeD up they are... Get away while you have time else be prepared to regret in the future
Threesomes are never a good idea. Someone always ends up getting hurt. If I were you'd I'd tell her that if she has respect for your relationship, for you, and for herself- she'll rethink her opinion.
Don´t do it, it will destroy the relationship.
Dump her. She wants to get banged by another guy in front of you--shes probably already banging other guys behind your back.
3 hours to get to his work... yeah no doubts about it she's had some forgein dick in her already
@CoolSky01 Oh yeah. She started out small, and is already used to getting banged by the other guy. So she isn't going to feel bad about doing it in front of her current boyfriend. She wants to feel like it's alright and he's given her permission, which makes what she'd been doing fine.
mhmm that was exactly as i thought, she wants his permission now even though she's been doing it for a while already, i mean 24, no realtiosnhip and 6 montsh friends with benefits all the red flags in one sentence and then she wants a 3some with another dude...
If you have any self-respect you'll break up with her. She think's you're a fuckin' Beta.
I just read the entire text of your question. You're already a fuckin' Beta, never mind.
lol he is a beta
This time her way, next time your way. You people are talking about equality, after all. Do the MMF now, then do MFF the next time :)
Dump her man.
Its either some kind of a test, where sge wants to knoe if you really love or respect her and some bullshit, or she's a slut.
dump her end of story
If i were you dude leave her. Looxy. com son plenty of fishes in the sea. Call you a prostitute for 1 time. Look at the out look man. A 3 some yea that your girlfriend wants to cheat. That's just the truth. I've been in clubs, prostitute s, and many relationship from 1 night stands, casual, relationships, 1 3some 2 women on me. Im 28 son I've expierenced a lot baby boy. Think about what you about to do life is too short.
Only wicked people with dirty hearts want to try things like threesomes. Throwing around your partner like a toy? Or allowing them to just "fulfill a fantasy" is another way to put it I suppose. I like how we come up with cute terms like that just to cover up a person's sick ideas and desire to cheat.