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Basically we have been in a relationship for 18 months (6 of which we were friends with benefits). I'm her first proper boyfriend, she's 24 and I'm 25 whereas I've had several relationships. We have roleplayed about theeesomes in the past but that was more my idea to get her off not expecting it to ever become a possibility.
She has always maintained, during conversations in the past that she could only have a threesome with another guy, she'd never be able to have one with another girl.
We have a healthy sex life although I work away in Toronto (3 hours away) during the week so only get to do it on a weekend.
Recently she has shown a lot more interest in having another guy, we talk about it (roleplay) a lot more than we use to and she now requests it. I talk about it because I know she likes it and I want to make her happy, the fact we roleplay about it doesn't really bother me.
I'm now wondering if I should consider maybe signing us both up to somewhere and introduce another guy for her?
Why all of a sudden is she more interested in having other men?
Could she possibly be bored of our sex life and fantasising about this to herself?
How would you recommend I'd deal with seeing her with another guy?
So many more questions going through my head, I just want to make the girl I love happy.
What Girls & Guys Said
19 47It's a shit test. She wants to see if you 'll degrade yourself by sucking some dude's dick or letting yourself get ass-fucked just to continue access to her golden vagina. If you are half a fag, or fag curious, go for it. If you're a real man, dump the bitch for disrespecting you.
A bit extreme, but hakf true in theory. She isn't checking if he's gay, she's checking if he's man enough to keep her to himself or if he wouldn't mind sharing..
Okay, I didn't even read any other opinions. But I can bet that most of the guys are saying: "dump her", or "she's a slut". Am I right?
I mean come on, she is.
@StainedClass threesomes are not taboo anymore. It's time to leav etraditional values behind
Tell her absolutely not.
Well I'd definitely break up with her she wants to experience a strangers dick ! Thats not acceptable.
Dump her ass.
absolutely not!
If you value the relationship then avoid it. But if she is actually serious about it and wants it then it means she does not value the relationship that much
Put a chastity belt on and enjoy being cuckolded, looking your girlfriend having sex and she can tease you that he have bigger penis than yours and
*and you cannot do anything. I see that she likes to be a mistress and do whatever she wants on you, dominate you. If you want, tell her so you go with another guy but then I'm gonna fuck another woman in front of you to see what's she's gonna say.
she doesn;t love you. any girl/guy who asks anyone for a threesome is not in love with their significant other.
I don't agree. My wife and I have talked on few occassions about introducing new factors (such as a third person) to our sexual life. It is exciting but also risky in terms of feelings, so have never done it (yet). The fact that she confessess her sexual desires to her SO is a sign of respect and trust, no matter wether your view on sexuality differs from hers.
@guilly18butnot Most people disagree with you as you can see. You're probably not in love, but infatuated with your wife.
Have you done it threesome?
hell no and will never do.
This is bad
it's disgusting
Sounds like she REALLY wants some new cock. . . sorry man!
Funny, if a girl would ask this I'm sure no one would tell her to dump him for suggesting MFF.
Why?
For some reason most men hate the whole idea, any woman who wants two guys the same time is a slut, while a guy wanting two girls is totally acceptable
This is wrong thing.
Double standards do go both ways. Don't get caught up on one simple little issue.
To be fair, i think its disrespectful af for either party to suggest it, but im not gonna lie, a lot of guys here do have that double standard... But you have to realize a lot of dudes on here are simply horny,, and that overrides their rational thinking. Mmf doesn't do it for most guys, so they are thinking more rationally and it starts looking more and more undesirable..
@lord_chilled You're right
@lord_chilled You bet big guy!
if u do this she's gonna want more more and more. soon she will get off on cheating
We were in the same situation. It started with porn and then with dirty talk and then role playing. She wasn't the one who brought up the subject of trying it for real, that was my idea. At first she said not, so I dropped it and never mentioned it again. We kept doing the dirty talk and role playing. One day she surprised the shit out of me. She asked me if I thought I would get mad. I wasn't even sure what she was talking about, so she had to clarify it. I told her that I'd never be mad, but I couldn't guarantee that that I would like it or not get jealous. Since I really wanted to try it, I was smart about it and didn't bring it up after that. Later during a particularly hot role playing session, she said would do it for real if I really wanted to. I whispered in her ear that I'd love to see another guy fuck her. She came like crazy.
This type of thing isn't for the faint of heart, but we enjoy it.
A girl that wants 2 dicks at the same time is a slut. Dump her
You purposely role play this fantasy with her, because you know it really makes her hot. I'm confused why you're now surprised that she wants to take it to the next level. Don't ever think that this has anything to do with not wanting you. I bet the fantasy wouldn't mean anything for her if you weren't part of the mix. Most of us don't have the guts to admit/share our true fantasies with our partner. I think you are lucky that she is brave enough to do that.
Break up with her she Is probably cheating on you
Do it! I've had them with two men. Fucking amazing
Lol nice
And it was then that Anonymous realized what being a slut feels like
@CoolSky01 you sound like a bitter virgin. Women are just as sexual and have desire. Get over your lame self. I feel proud. Slamming a woman for being sexual doesn't work on me
lol @"bitter" thats the word sluts use most of the time to justify their sluttieness. iam not trying to test if it works or not iam simply calling you a slut :)
@CoolSky01 doesn't work on me. Nice try loser 😂
but iam not trying to make anything work iam just calling you a slut
@CoolSky01 I never thought you were trying. Call me whatever. It doesn't work. Losers who can't get laid result to slut shaming.
Well, how many times someone else gets laid is irrelevant really cause all you have to do as a woman is open your legs, and from what you're saying you worked those muscles quite a lot , its safe to assume that you can even fit the titanic down there
@CoolSky01 women push babies out of there so a penis doesn't even compare. The vagina is elastic. It's created a stretch and go back to normal after intercourse and a child. #themoreyouknow
that doesn't apply to sluts so...
@CoolSky01 😂 That applies to all women,
no you're a rare breed lady
@CoolSky01 that I'm a sexual woman with desires I choose to live out? That's not rare at all. You assume it's rare because you have problems getting rejected by women constantly. Sucks to suck
@Anonymous Why are you going to argue with him?
He came on my post and asked for it
With whom your 3some?
Wtf coolant she can do whatever she wants
she's arguing cause she's ashamed of her past and wants to justify it, notice how i used one word to insult her and she wrote an entire senetence to counter it, that means she's putting a lot of effort into trying to shame me, but the highest insult you can tell a woman is that she is a slut... and also fat, it means you just wrekt her reputation which is all most women have really, now saying that i dont get laid... is kinda irrelevant cause not getting laid is still better than bedding dozens of men... so no matter how you look at it you will lose this argument. also just so you know the two dudes that banged you dont respect you, you're not the first to experience a 3some and won't be last and guys talk about their experiences and the girl is always referred to as a whore. have a nice day
@CoolSky01 I didn't read any of that. Great job wasting your own time
I win PWNED !
Women can have however many partners they wantb
@thesunstillshines9 they sure can no one said they can't, but you can't stop men from calling them sluts so its really not a matter of how many dicks you can get in you its a matter of what will the next dude you wanna date think of this.
You don't need to reply to him. His opinions are just that. His. Majority of men don't feel this way. Just losers who are insecure and don't want to be compared So they push their opinions on others. Ignore
yes "losers" the losers who refused to date you
Who cares how many dicks a girl has taken Just like it doesn't matter how many girls a guy has been with
@thesunstillshines9 and thats hommie is where you start being unreasoable, guys are not girls we are not obligated to have the same standards as you and we really dont, you like guys who fked lots of women? okay cool most women do, but that doesn't mean men like sluts, dont confuse the two, we dont like what you like. you can argue that.
@thesunstillshines9 girl he's another gag loser who has been turned down his entire life and bitter about it. It's easy to troll online. His ass would be beat if he said this to anyone in person
why do you think i dont say this to anyone in real life? nothing to be afraid off especially when everyone agrees with you, i have said it before and will say it again, sluts are not sex not for marriage.
Explore your bi aptitudes
You might discover new plesures
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with. Threesome can ruin a relationship, so be open with her about your boundaries and feelings.
I fear that this will harm our relationship. But i love threesomes.
Just talk about it and see where her head is. Be open. Dont get grumpy. Just let her speak her mind.
Maybe offer her a deal. You will have a threesome with another dude if she lets you have one with 2 women. Fair is fair and make sure she knows it
I fear that this will harm our relationship. But i love threesomes.