Girls; do you suddenly lose respect for the guy whom you’re talking to when he asks you for nudes?

I personally think it’s so disrespectful. I feel happy that a guy could be talking to me then suddenly he asks me for nudes and little piece of me dies inside... I’m actually so used to it at this point not to get my hopes that actually any guy wants to get to know me for me and not my body.
Girls; do you suddenly lose respect for the guy whom you’re talking to when he asks you for nudes?
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  • I hate guys who do that so I block them

  • You should, he's only after 1 thing and who knows what he'll do with them... Post them online?
    I guess it depends what you're looking for, just sex or a relationship.

  • If i really like him, i dont care

  • Yes for sure

  • This is why I don't ask for nudes even if the flirting and conversation has turned sexual.
    I'd rather a woman send them at a time of her choosing if she so wants. Besides it's more exciting to be surprised than to beg like a child.

  • That's just wrong. You're way too classy for that

  • He could want to know both. And if he wants your body, asking "suddenly" is stupid. That must be done at least when the girl wants it too, not suddenly. You don't go from talking about applie pie to asking boobs.

  • Yes I do

  • Lol I don't even care that much about nudes. I won't ask for them so the girl sends them only if she really wants to. And besides, sexting is much more fun with only words :P

  • Why? It's a sign that he finds you attractive and basically a compliment if you feel uncomfortable just tell him kindly he'll understand or you might do him a favour and actually send him one or two

  • Asking that should be after a decent period of time when you both feel comfortable to say that

  • Hmm you should asking nudes is wrong.

  • What if you're intimate and he's out of town. Would you send him sexy pictures?

  • You are quite right to feel disrespected

  • Yeah depends how deep you are in relationship

  • I think you should!

  • I don't think it makes sense to send anyone nudes. Once you send out a photo, you can never take it back..

  • Definitely.