Girls, How is it that you can have sex with a guy that you really aren’t into? serious question here?

[Finchie40]

Me personally needs a connection with a
Girl for me to even consider having sex with her , like I need her to look at me and want me the same way I look at her and want her , but how is it that most girls can just have sex with a guy that they aren’t Really into? That you don’t get lost into? Not really attracted to , don’t care about his heart etc I notice a lot of girls are looking for sugar daddies for his money but have no connection or attraction towards him just what’s inside his wallet , I know there are desperate guys that will pay just to get laid. But I could never do that , So honestly I want to know how do or could you do that to yourselves. If I paid for a girl to be with me I would feel so turned off that she was just doing it for my money and feel she was just doing a job that she really doesn’t want to do , I couldn’t get Turned on by that honestly , I would feel she doesn’t find anything about me attractive , am I wrong for being this way , should I just not care and pay and have sex? It just blows me away how girls can degrade
Themselves this way

[Screenwriter]

I'm curious about the number of women you've met who are into this. Two? Five? 10?
I think this is a young girl thing, not a mature woman thing. And by young girl, I mean teens, very early 20s, because they are the only women who can get away with this. As sexy as a woman in her 40s and older can be when she takes care of herself, youth has this cachet that can't be emulated by age and experience.

As for you, you SOUND like the voice of age and experience.

Young men and a hefty number of older men just want bouncy tits and asses and a cute face to fuck. Some of these they pay for in cash, as in prostitutes, some of them they pay for in gifts or in keeping someone as a sugar daddy.

You can't possibly believe that these particular men or women are happy, can you? Just cause your bills are paid, or you can rustle up a woman to be on your arms because you support her financially has nothing to do with real emotional satisfaction.

But people who do this probably wouldn't see or know emotional satisfaction if it slapped them in the face. This is why men like Jeffrey Epstein made a fortune whoring out young girls, and others make fortunes setting up sugar babies with sugar daddies.

Something important is missing in these peoples' lives and those arrangements may give them something, but it won't add up to happiness.

[Finchie40]

I been experiencing this a lot on social media mainly on dating apps , which I been browsing through cuz of this Corona crap , but it seems every girl I try to talk to and get to know wants me to join some damn premium site or pay to fuck her, I don’t get it to be honest , I have denied everyone of them and told them I am not into that shit. And just shake my head that people Can actually degrade themselves that way , it’s sad in a way that someone would allow that to happen to themselves so they can pay a bill or whatever. It’s disgusting To me

[Screenwriter]

These people weren't raised right or are poor and weren't raised right and think they deserve to get money because they're hot. It's just a form of whoring.

[DizzyDesii]

I’ll never understand how ANYONE girl or guy can sex some random. One night stands are silly and condoms aren't guaranteed to protect from disease. I personally have to be in love and in a longterm relationship to have sex. But i also refuse to sex more than a total of 3
people in life. Speaking of attraction, i lost attraction to the 2nd guy i had sex with and i only went through with the sex out of love and raging hormones. Dumb on my part and i ended up regretting it but not because of the loss of attraction to him. I just dont like the idea of having sex with too many people in life and i was hoping he’d be the last

[Drumlin2001]

Sex is a physical thing, dosent have to have an emotional element. Hooking up and getting off is a good release. You dont have to be emotionally invested in a partner.

[CindyRuns]

I personally have never had sex with a guy who I didn't have a very strong connection to.

I can't imagine doing it any other way !!!

[moonpie89]

I just can. Especially if I'm horny and lonely. Sometimes sex can give you that connection you're looking for in that moment but then it goes away.

[Tinna80]

I did had sugar daddies way back when I was 18. Myex boyfriend he is your same age had a problem with it. I am sorry but if a man can not provide for a woman what other choice do we have. Also man are very cruel creatures.

[Anonymous]

Well, I personally couldn't have sex with someone I'm really not into. I wouldn't do it unless I was SERIOUSLY into someone and had known them for at least a couple of months.