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Hi Girls, Do you call what happened to me cheating? Should I tell my girlfriend? I got targeted by one stripper last night and: 1. She Dry humped me with just my boxers on 2. She Dry humped my face 3. I Kissed her with tongue while she was dry humping me 4. She was kissing my neck and messing up my hair while dry humping me I'm still thinking about what happened. I need your opinion. Thanks!
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Ok, I see I'm in the wrong here. This really happened a few nights ago, no trolling, no joking. The stripper is my age and likes cute guys her age coming into the club. FYI younger guys, the younger strippers love cute younger guys their age.
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To answerer Arwens-Fire: Sorry for not answering back on Saturday and Sunday. I have a life, friends, and full drinking days during March Madness. lol
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What Girls & Guys Said
35 13First off, you weren't targeted. Second off, imagine the situation in verse, imagine a male stripper doing that to your girlfriend. Would you be ok if your girlfriend and a male stripper did that? You should just come clean and tell your girlfriend what happened.
How could this NOT be considered cheating? Are you serious? OMG..
You cheated. It's not that hard to figure out.
is this even a question? yeah. it's cheating. hope your girlfriend leaves you and finds a nice guy. douche
Yeah its cheating if you had only boxers on, she humped your face, you kissed her. That is all cheating. Its really not a good thing to do if you are in a relationship, probably one of the worst things you can do.
Yes it's cheating.
You wasn't targeted, simple as that. It was consensual.
I would consider that cheating.
The thing is, your in a relationship and going to a strip club? Your setting yourself up for a lustful scene with uncontrollable actions.
You definitely...CHEATED
Yea, it's something intimate that she didn't agree to you. It wouldn't if she said you could
Its cheating!
Yes definitely it is cheating.
Is this a serious question? You've got to be joking here.
Ok, I see I'm in the wrong here. This really happened a few nights ago, no trolling, no joking. The stripper is my age and likes cute guys her age coming into the club. FYI younger guys, the younger strippers love cute younger guys their age.
HAHAHA HELL YEAH IT'S CHEATING !!!
yes nigga
Tell her. I would consider it cheating.
Not only are you an asshole. You're also braindead
Yes you should tell your girl friend you kissed her that's not good, did you like it im sure you did or you wouldn't be asking this question.
I girlfriend doesn't even know I went to the club. Should i still tell her. What happens at the club stays at the club?
How'd you end up with just your boxers on, troll? lol
Ok, I see I'm in the wrong here. This really happened a few nights ago, no trolling, no joking. The stripper is my age and likes cute guys her age coming into the club. Some strip clubs have private rooms, ever been to one?
Yeah, I've had private lap dances. But I've never ended up in my skivvies either hahaha
Dude, you need to find another club. I'm not the first guy it happened to and not the last guy it will happen to. Maybe its the culture of the town I live in.
I've been to 3 different clubs in my state, 2 in other states, 3 in Europe , and 1 in Asia...I'm pretty sure YOU are the rookie here ;)
Scratch that, 2 in Asia. I keep forgetting that Japan is actually an Asian country lol
This is the second time it happened to me at this club. But the first time was with a stripper I grew up with. Yes, she is hot too. That's why she makes a ton.
Well I've been propositioned at maybe half the clubs I've been to. But for the context of this question, it's a no-brainer that you cheated on your girlfriend.
Yup. Cheating.
what that fuck ,, would you like it if she did that to you with a really hot guy?
i think it IS cheating!