Guys after a long drought do you cum quickly?

My friends with benefits told me he hadn't had any in a while. So he would cum quickly. But he always cums quickly when we have vaginal sex versus anal or oral. Guys does not getting any for a while make you cum quick? And what are some things I can do to make him last longer?
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  • Generally yeah.

    What makes you last longer?
    - getting back in practice
    - having sex more frequently
    - slow increase in stimulation. Don't go from nothing to vaginal sex, actually give him foreplay, but do slow and not overly rhythmic. Relax on initial penetration, let him settle down and relax before he picks up any speed.
    - you initiate sex, don't just wait for him. When he initiates, he's already horny, he might take longer if you jump when YOU were horny.

  • No it doesn't happen because he masturbates, To make him last longer, use thicker condoms, or tell him to train it, when he is having sex with you, when he is getting close to cumming, make him pull out and calm down a bit, then go back in, while he us cooling down get him to finger you and stuff like that

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  • He'll last longer the 2nd time, and even longer the 10th.

  • There's not much you can do to help but there is a couple things he could work on roughly how long does it last not including forplay

  • Sometimes and make him cum with foreplay before sex

  • Yes, having not had any for a while does mean it'll happen faster - it's like the pressure is pent up inside, you know?

  • I think it's largely something he should work on, since he'll be most familiar with what's going on (its his dick). There's such a thing as male kegels, which can help orgasm control.

  • I my experience taking anti depressant that have a side effect to lower sexdrive / ejaculation. made me last waaaaaaay longer

  • After I got back from my last tour of duty, I didn't even get it out of my pants before I came lol

  • if i haven't jerked off yes i'll cum a bit quicker and it'll be a TON of cum cuz is like backed up but i'll be ready to go again in like 5 min. Just give him head first get the first cum out of the way then he'll be back to normal pretty quick

  • uhh no i dont think it makes it any quicker. the cum does seem thicker and more tho.

  • Not cumming for a while= harder to control = lasting a lot less. Want him to last longer? Fk him daily, or more. Sex is something you get good with time.

  • it can be for some guys but not for all, i dont think in my case it make much difference.

  • Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep.

    Honestly, the quickest way to build up is to have lots of sex and for him to concentrate on slowing it down.

    When my ex was away for over 6 months, yeah it was pretty quick the first few times lol, but a few weeks later, it was all back to normal.