Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Guys: be honest, do you ever fantasize about "raping" someone?
Anonymous
I'm curious to see how many guys out there secretly want to do this... Women think that it will never happen to them but I bet more guys than they think are out there and have a fantasy of it, of sorts. Maybe not really raping someone who doesn't want sex with you at all. But really having your way with a woman (or man if you want) who may or may not be completely into what you're doing...
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2 42I have done pretty much everything in my fantasies lol. But that doesn't mean that I wanna do it irl
dominating =/= rape
Kind of... But what I'm talking about is a person who wants to dominate and have the other person be saying no, or stop. But maybe half heart heartedly, but the person doing the dominating still likes to hear it. Do you like hearing no or stop or do you want the other person to be into being submissive
Not appealing to me
not about raping someone but having savage sex with my girl yeah..
do you want anybody to rape you?
I have fantasized about it before yeah... Only if it was a guy I was attracted to though haha, only then would it be hot
who is your fantasy guy? any specification..
Tall dark and handsome
how tall.. brown or black.. what is handsome?
I don't know that's a very broad question to answer... There are so many combinations of features that make a guy handsome. I'm not really attracted to white guys, all though I am white. Really any guy that's not white and doesn't dress like a douchebag, has a nice smile, good skin and nice hair is attractive to me hah. Big lips also are a big thing for a me for some Reason. My boyfriend isn't what most girls would typically find attractive but he turns me on so much, especially when he gets agressive. He carries a little bit of extra weight, but honestly it doesn't bother me at all. He has broad shoulders and toned legs and a thick chest. He is Mexican, and darker than most Mexicans, he has dark black hair and a big nose, lol. But he has the most beautiful eyes, they are just lovely. And the longest eyelashes too. And he has nice big lips and thick, straight eyebrows and a really nice beard. He has really thick hair too and is hairy all over this body and has some tattoos as well
how tall is he?
Yeah sorry for that rant, you asked though. Yeah any shade of brown skin turns me on. Black or brown
how big should the thing be?
He's about 5' 10" I believe. Height doesn't matter to me either, my last boyfriend was shorter than me and he broke up with me! Lol. And penis size doesn't matter much either. The more confident you are, the less she is going to think about your penis! My boyfriend's dick isn't huge but it's not tiny either, he has a perfect size, maybe, 7 inches when it's fully erect
what's your height?
I'm 5'2" why?
You're not thinking of raping someone right? Because you should only do it if you've talked to them about it before. My boyfriend said he wants to do it to me and I told him it was okay so he's going to do it to me because I told him he could. That's the only time when you should do it, otherwise risk ruining her life and going to jail and ruining yours too
are you really thinking that.. wow.. I was just thinking what sort if men women find attractive like you find a brown tall confident man attractive..
Yeah. I was just making sure, don't get offended, I don't even know you. Women find all sorts of men attractive. Don't worry, you'll get a girl or girls
yeah I don't worry about getting girl.. it is just I like to know the nature of girls.. and yeah I was not offended.. were you offended?
No it sounded like you were offended that I was making sure you weren't thinking about it. I don't want to be the reason anyone gets raped! Well, now you know what I, a complete stranger, finds attractive in guys. But everyone has such a different look on what they find attractive so you can't really base your research off of any one person. Everyone finds different things attractive
I believe I have asked a lot of persons.. and thanks for the conversation.. I really liked talking to you anon user..
Yeah no problem :)
Not even once. Consent is most important to me.
I haven't only fantasized about it...
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my only question is: are you aware that it could happen to your mother, when you try to be funny? Think about it... no, really, think about it for a couple of minutes before ranting a response.
@JamesCX I thought about it
um no i haven't i think that's very oddd
fantasy: yes i do in fantasy.
I have
I personally could not enjoy sex that way, that act of making a woman mine by making her feel better than everyone else could and by that applying not too little force is something I very like to do but my girlfriend is more than consent and I only do it cause she enjoys is too.
No i fantasise about women submitting to me willingly. Having to use force is dumb.
Hell yes!! Random hot girl on my campus.. I'd love to rip their yoga pants off right there in public and fuck them so good.. but kiss and thank them afterwards.. like, "oh im gonna fuck whether u want it or not, but I hope it feels good to you too"
yes (never had a girlfriend, being bullied, fat)
You'll get there. Don't become that guy, the bad guy. Work hard, work out and focus on you for now.
if men really wanted that, women would never marry us. grow up sweetheart.
Then why does my boyfriend want it, lol
if your boyfriend wants it , it doesn't mean all men want it. this is too much generalisation.
That's exactly why I asked this question
well i hope you got your answer.
I did
for sure, who never wanted to rape a random hot chick in the streets? who never? that's so normal
often.. rape is kinda my fetish. not that i would commit rape or anything like that. just the thought of forced sex turns me on. i don't think it's sexual sadism cuz I'm not really into tying someone up and lashing her till she cries or other of those latex BDSM stuff. And don't get me wrong, im not the creepy, stalker, pedo type... i have a girlfriend and we have a very active sex life...
You sound like my boyfriend. He wants to do it. So would you want her to scream no or stop while you keep going and hold her down or what? Do you know why you want to do it?
depends on the situation. maybe it would be a good idea to do some little role playing? it would be awkward if you started screaming or resisting out of nowhere at the middle of a sexy time haha.. in my case tho, im pretty sure some rape role play would satisfy my fetish desires. Never tried it before, girlfriend is not into roleplaying. lol...
i love watching porn when girls are being blackmailed and started resisting. it just turns me on when they seem so powerless and taken for granted. im not really into the physical side of rape where some hardcore slaps and even punches are the ones that make the girls cry. Can't say the same bout your boyfriend tho.. maybe he wants you to cry or scream or maybe just wants you to resist instead.. i think it would be safer to ask him what kind of role play he would enjoy..
No I would know when he would want me to start screaming. He said he would want to take me into the woods where no one can hear me scream. He has a very active imagination. I would never let him do that though. I don't think he wants me to cry because whenever I cry he says he hates seeing me cry and he's very comforting. But he does want to slap me and spank me, etc. I think he just wants me to put on a show so he can feel all mighty haha.
well, we have different taste apparently. but i can't say that what he wants is wrong or creepy. a lot of people actually likes feeling in control and dominant during sex.. its always up to you whether or not you would give him what he wants. haha but damn... i like his imagination lol. i wish we have woods where I'm from.. haha
Never. I enjoy BDSM play, but it has to be consensual.
Nope. I had a girlfriend who was into rape fantasies, and I said no right away. Even the idea of pretending to do anything like that makes me feel gross and sick. I verify consent before everything because I never want to do something to someone they don't want.
Sort of
I fantasize about forcing someone & then they stop fighting it, give in & enjoy it
Yeah
But if they screamed, yelled, didn't enjoy it like realistic rape it does nothing for me
I've never really fantasized about having sex, but I have fantasized about cuddling with or tickling a cute girl, and sometimes about having my hand around her butt
Are you asexual or what?
No I'm not asexual. I'm attracted to women in just the same way all guys are, but for some reason I don't have a dominating desire to have sex. It's not that I don't want to have sex, it's just that I feel more patient about it than other things haha. Does my answer seem like I'm asexual?
Yeah because you said you don't even fantasize about having sex... Lol. Are you still a virgin?
I'm not laughing at you just so you know, I empathize with everyone. But tickling and cuddling is so different from having sex and you can touch a girl's butt while you're having sex, even smack it haha
Lol, yeah I actually am a virgin. Tbh that's partly for religious reasons and partly because it's not on my priority list. I don't know though, I get turned on more by other things than sex at the moment, but I'm sure when I do have the opportunity to have sex it'll be one hell of a ride!
And yeah I understand. I'm not sure why I don't fantasize about sex and do fantasize about cuddling, tickling, and spanking her, but that'll change someday haha. It would be awesome to smack her butt while having sex
Well when you do have sex, you're going to like it!! But make sure she doesn't have any disease first, definitely. And don't get her pregnant unless you can take care of a baby
Yeah for sure, when I have sex it'll be because she's very special and I want to be completely close to her, so that's why it'll be amazing :)
Thanks for your input!
Good! Keep your head (penis) in that place! Lol, you're welcome
Have you ever had a sex partner where you and him smacked each other's butts?
Oh yeah! My current boyfriend and I do it a lot
That's awesome 😉 I look forward to doing that with my future girlfriend or whoever
''but I bet more guys than they think are out there and have a fantasy of it''
no I never have and people who do clearly are not all there in the head. Also, I take offense to the fact that you think of guys in such a manner.
Well maybe you're just one of the more submissive/ emotional type of guys. But a lot of guys are agressive and would probably want to try that in bed. Maybe you should talk to guy friends and see what they say about it because according to the comments, I'm right
according to these comments this is just confirmation of this being nothing more than a back page site. these people answering these questions do not represent the general population and neither do your ignorant views on ''aggressive men'' and ''submissive'' I am someone who can tell right from wrong and I can also tell when someone is coming off as a complete moron who is not using any logic (you). Me not wanting to rape people does not make me more ''submissive'' that is just stupid on any level..
by the way, 14 people say they have never thought about it, there are only about 5 weirdos here saying they did and the rest only talk about rough sex NOT rape.
I love it when people take the time to fight with someone over the internet and call them names. It really shows people who the real moron is.