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Guys, do you know how to control your “beast mode” when you’re having sex (read more below)?

I gotta have this talk tonight with bae, so i can prepare myself 😂 Now some girls may like this shit... but i wasn't used to it. And y'all dudes be acting hypnotized like y'all can't hear all a sudden. When i lost my virginity to boyfriend #1, it was a dumb situation but we were in missionary position and he said “let me thrust one time”. I probably mumbled okay, but either way, he kept thrusting even when i said stop. There was this ferocious look in his eyes but it was like he was hypnotized at the same time. I just laid there crying. Afterwards, he apologized but anyways... 8 years later, im dryhumping/practicing sex positions with boyfriend #2. We’re half dressed and he’s practicing doggy style. This dude is ramming me like hell and im gripping the sheets. He hittin so hard, im like “is your dick still in the boxers” and i reach back and yea his dick is totally out. Im like dude stop, dude stop. He’s still slammin. I look back and see that same look that the first ex had. He then grabs my head and mashes it into the bed and my shit hittin the wall and im gettin a headache, so i get fed up and i swing and knock his ass out. He then snaps out of it and is like “why’d you do that? What happened?” And im like “did you not hear me callin you, tellin you to stop”? ... anyways, Like damn is this the point of safe words? Is it because dudes are hypnotized by the drive? Can girls go beastmode too? I dont like that rapey feeling bruh. But it can be hot if consensual and into rough sex
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Guys, do you know how to control your “beast mode” when you’re having sex (read more below)?
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The two guys above are exes. I had a talk with my current love and i think he understands. He seems easy going, but so did they. Not to say i dont trust him. I do. But people never know until theyre in the moment. So i’ll just pray for the best
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  • Obviously they are able to stop or rape laws would not exist

    Those guys were just lying to get what they wanted. I would not have wed with someone who did not stop the second I said stop

    “stop “is the word people use legally against rape. It’s the first line of questioning when Cross examining a witness. Did you say stop*

    So yes they can stop. It’s incredibly disturbing how many guys here think rape is ok. And to the guys saying you should not put yourself in a compromising position. You didn’t. In both cases you were with your bc doing a definite activity. He betrayed the agreement... in each case HE put himself into a legally compromised position and these idiots should learn what constitutes rape. It isn’t about their FEELINGS.

    Safe words are for when you plan on engaging in tough sex. They are not magical words that being someone pot of a zombie state. They are for when you might be saying no or stop just as part of the fun and not literally. So when they hear “ guacamole “ they know you are really meant stop. Not just excited.

    In that retro, safe words wouldn’t work if the guy couldn’t pay attention.

    So yes they can control it. They just chose not to.

    It’s like if you are scratching yourself. It feels good and you don’t want to stop but if you were going to be arrested for not stopping- you’d stop,

    No means no stop means stop. of they can’t stop they can’t start.

    • Thank you. Yes those were both of my exes bt thank for explaining safe word too. And yea its weird how many seem ok wih the conclusion that it could possibly be rape

    • Oh 😅 exes. Cool cool Good luck with this guy and good on you for having a talk ! 😊😊

    • Very well said, Vivant!

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  • Stop means stop. No means no. I don't care if you THINK it MIGHT mean yes. Listen to the words. Get a SAFE word. You do not want to be picked up for sexual assault. That is the law as it stands today. Pay attention to it. Those two guys were assholes. There is no "beastmode." That's an excuse to be careless.

    • Thank you

    • Absolutely agree.

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  • What's there to control? I thought the whole point of sex was to lose yourself in the moment and go wherever it takes you... granted it's nothing too weird.. why on earth would someone willingly put filters on that?

    Beast mode is probably as good as it gets for guys... and in my experience most girls like it...

    You shouldn't be willingly putting yourself in to those compromising situations if you can't handle the consequences... or just simply date sissy boys who like to wear chastity belts... because this is one those situations where you can't have your cake and eat it..

    it's a total mood killer for guys to be stopped in that zone... if this was a regular occurrence I would dump the girls ass... because i would think we were incompatible... nothing personal.. but yeah it's not meant to be 🤷‍♂️

    I honestly don't know any guys who would be happy to negate those urges in the heat of the moment... it's like you're giving me a green light but I'm supposed to anticipate a red light at any moment? how is a guy mentally supposed to perform like that? personally it's just too confusing for me...

    • Well for starters both of those times were in long term relationships where we both consentuallynagreed that it wasn't supposed to be sex. So how do you expect me to react when the first is thrusting repeatedly and the second isntrying to ease his dick in when i said no

  • I would rather called it "blue balls syndrome" or "desperado slam" than "beast mode". 😆

    Normally, for a guy who has sex regularly, he's in control and respects the wishes of his SO.

    This is where you hear them talk about "lovemaking" or "romantic sex".

    But for those who were "deprived" and "wanting", they will not give up that opportunity to fuck to orgasm. And I think that's what happened to you. Safe words are useless. They just wanted a release.

    So choose your next boyfriend carefully. Request him to masturbate a day hefore if you think fit before you have sex. It does help a little.

    • Thank you for this helpful advice. Yea one was deprived and the other was a virgin

    • Yeah, but just because someone is a virgin or deprived doesn't give them the right to use you and keep going when you say stop. It's still your body; it doesn't belong to them.

    • And I'm a virgin, so I'm preaching to my future self here.

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  • Those who can't control have a hidden sex monster inside there mind and they feel satisfied when they fuck the girl so hard and rough that she cries out in pain. It is a type of animal instinct to make your girl beg for mercy and crying requesting you to stop, but the beast in them tries to tear down the beauty.

    I love rough sex, but only to the extreme that she can bear with ease. And I stop at her single sound or single signal, as I want to go rough but can't hurt her.

    Unfortunately you did not have two boyfriend (Boy Friends) - you got boyfriend (Brutal Fuckers)

    • Thank you for explaining. I’ve been waiting to here some actual advice. It was scary

  • Nope, it never happened to me. If I ask him to stop he stops even if he's about to cum

    • Damn thats just torture lmao

    • 😂 I don't do it on purpose. Maybe I'm in an unconfortable position and I ask him to get up to switch and he gets up and cums and I'm like if you have told me I could have resisted a couple of seconds longer 😂

  • I’m starting to get the sense you are sexually frustrated. Lol.

    • Im not. The paragraph above talks more about fear of having sex due to their beastmode kicking in

  • In my realtionship I'm the one that gets out of control. Its basically like I'm on another planet 🛸🛸

    • Lol but read above what imeant

  • If she says stop then I stop. But then it can get weird cuz sometimes a girl will be like, well, maybe actually keep going, and then flip flops back and forth and then when you do get into it and bangin hard then she’s like ah, no don’t do it. Been in that sitch before and I’m like thinkin, did I technically rape this chick?

    • Yea its crazy

  • I would think It can be hard once you get in the moment with it but it would be good to learn how to hear my partner and make sure she was enjoying herself and trying to make it enjoyable for her

    • I agree

  • Safe words are a must when the beast is free lol pineapples Desii, pineapples

    • Lmao 😂😂😂

  • yep completely... it is borderline though but still under control lol :D

    • So in my story abovec why did thhey not stop? It was like they were possessed

    • no self control, they allow themselves to go unhindered and ignore any need for restraint and focus purely on what they want and getting their own satisfaction

    • Yea its messed up

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  • Haha I assume yes, my beast mode is very limited Desi :D

  • Yeah, I can control it. Really love that last picture though the way that girl is getting punished pretty hard. M!

    • Loll

    • God, I love how bad that girl is taking it in the ass! Lol.

    • Its prob hittin the puss from Behind

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  • It’s one of the hardest tasks when ur having sex and it’s really good. My first girlfriend was very petite and she would always ask me to slow down, sometimes it was hard to listen cuz ur mind is lost in pleasure and it’s in a trance of enjoying the moment, it’s a bliss man... so sometimes I’d hear her voice but what she would say made no sense. She would have to tap me or move abruptly for me to know what’s up. I would always apologize and ask her if I had hurt her and she would simply go back to our business. 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • Yea im like her. Its just scary cause i dont know how to snap the guy out of it without hittin em

    • Well darling, you can snap the guy out of it in any way that’s convenient for you. Not that I’m trying to excuse him, but being in that state of pleasure is almost indescribable and you really get lost into it, so don’t always expect him to hear you. If you push yourself away from him or tap him as hard as you can, that should do. It’s different if he wants to keep forcing you, then I’d say that’s almost like rape.

    • Thank you

  • If you can control yourself enough to be able to stop when I say stop, then it ain't gonna work. Because if I feel threatened, it automatically turns into fight or flight. And since he obviously don't wanna let me flight, now we gotta fight. So now the sex is over and he got a busted lip and bruised dick 🤷🏾‍♀️.

    • You mean "can't".

    • @Jamie05rhs yup I meant can't

    • Yea thats what happened. I had to hit des #3 cause he was on some des #1 shit

  • Pretty sure those dudes was just so horny, and ready to get down that they just went crazy when it did happen.. Anybody can get there... Even women.. Guys just have testosterone...

    • Damn

    • Yeah, I mean I can control myself from havin sex, so I'm sure I will be able to not go rough onna girl when my johnson meets the V.. LOL..

    • My ex was good at control til then

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  • Ummm i don't really know. I'm unsure if I've ever had a beast mode. I'm pretty tame to be honest.

    • Good

    • Really?

    • Read my storybabove and you'll see why i say that

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  • Lmao “beast mode don’t end in the gym”

    • Loll

  • I can control it. One ex was all "put it in my but," Ibwas "are you sure"
    Well she started crying... So yes I stopped and held her. Part of being a gentleman.

    • That was sweet

    • Thanks...

  • "Beast Mode"... how scary! I don't get that! Being submissive, I'm completely under control. My ears are my tools for my future girl's pleasure!

    • Oh lawd 🤦‍♀️

    • Actually, you're right... I'm very odd.

  • No i dont have near enough confidence to try some shit like that

    • Read my story. That wasn't confidence. It was like they were possessed

  • honestly every time i hear stories like that, i think it's bullshit. like some leftist asshole trying to push some weird gender agenda... i just assume that, cause to me that is just so bizarre. i can't imagine men bing like that, cause i'm not like that. i don't want to believe that some men are like that...

    so that out of the way, all i can say is get the heck away from that guy. i'm 100% sure, that he took note of you wanting to stop but just didn't care. it's not like we just stop hearing and seeing stuff... if she's struggeling and hurting, we notice that. if the guy decides not to react to that, he made a conscious choicce and probable has a problem that he needs professional help with...

    • Yess

    • I mean maybe give him the benefit of a doubt. Tell him this can never happen again. Maybe establish a safe word that under all circumstances must stop what ever either of you are doing, taking it out and completely reset. Never use the safe word lightly. If he does it again and ignores your wish to stop, seriously leave him. That guy might be dangerous...

    • They never even agreed to rough sex though she shouldn’t have needed a safe word. They weren’t actually having sex. No or stop was well over enough and he shouldn’t have been in there bc she thought they were dry jumping. No way that was innocent.

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  • Yeah I'm pretty calm at sex

    • Good

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