Guys, do you like submissive girls?

My LDR guy likes it when i "starfish"... He prefers doing everything without me interfering. I don't mind being submissive but it would get boring after a while. I used to be the one in control before so this is quite strange. We don't have sex often as we live far away. Do guys normally like to do everything? How do i get him to let me be dominant sometimes lol 😂.
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  • Actually i love to be submissive but the guy has to think of me too and being submissive doing all his desires can make u actually feel dominant in a way, it's like i own this dick and I am the one to make u cum, i am craving and you're craving too baby... kinda like that

    • I'm pretty lazy so don't mind being submissive. He didn't like it when i push his bum to change the speed... didn't think it's a big problem. He would choose the positions and the timing, i wanna rideeee!!!

    • yeah i get what u mean but submissive doesn't mean lazy... by the way i get your point, i see you gurlll hahaah

  • sorry to day but that is not really submissive that sounds more like he just wants to get off and doesn't care of he's pleasing you

    • He did ask me how i like It during foreplays so i think he tried to please me as well. Just that during actual sex he liked to be in control without me doing anything lol

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  • I have nothing against LDR. But then again I haven't tried it either.

    But my point is that I would want her to do something back to me cause it turns me on to know that there is something she wants to do to me.

    In what ways do you want to be dominant?

  • I like submissive girls, but I don't want a starfish. The girl's reactions are a big part of my enjoyment, so a dead fish isn't exciting at all to me. Submissive is no where near the same as "no reaction."

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  • No, I'm more into aggressive girls. It would be a turn off if she just laid there like she didn't want to be there.

  • I don't mind if she's submissive to other guys, but when I'm with her, I want her to dominate that ass (my ass).

  • I prefer submissive, but not that submissive. I hate starfish girls.

    • Hate is a strong word lol

    • I don't mean I hate the person, I hate that they don't do anything in bed. Perhaps I shouldn't have said "hate" hahaha

    • Poor starfish 😂

  • My personal prefference would be a switch, a girl who can be submissive and dominant and likes to keep things fresh by switching things up every while. I consider myself a switch myself so it would be a great match.

  • Some do. Some don't. I'd rather have a mix of me in control and then her in control. A healthy balance.

  • 50% of the time? YES
    Otherwise the guy is an idiot to stiffarm the erotic pleasures of being submissive/lazy himself

    How?
    As he recovers from being king of sex, offer a massage, then give a Happy Ending for starters. After awhile your massage technique will be more acceptable and you'll soon be in charge and allowed to be more dominant

  • My wife and i switch off on roles we usually tie eachother up and i love both scenarios but maybe just tell him communication is key i know for me whenever a girl tells me what she wants is a huge turn on for me

  • I like variety... its good to switch things up. But i do have a weakness for strong almost dominant women. I would recommend you just speak your mind with him... nothing like good communication to ensure a good strong sex life.

  • 1. I don't like submissive girls.
    2. I despise the starfish.
    3. 1 and 2 aren't related.

  • Yes but an aggressive side too

  • Do guys normally like to do everything? For the most part, I don't want to argue over differences of opinions doing every little thing. So , I rather just do most of the things.
    How do I get him to let me be dominant sometimes? I can't really help you sexual dominance by the woman usually balances things out.

  • I think the biggest turnoff for me is when a girl starfishes in bed

  • Starfish, love the word : D
    You don't need to be completely passive, you can do something.

  • Not any more. Now I like to be submissive to my wife. She gives me crazy orgasms because I feel out of control. But that's just me. I'm only one guy...

  • Meh. Submissive women are boring. I prefer sharing the action and effort if anything.

    Think you two are just not compatible.

  • Yes, submissives are best.

  • generally yea, but sometimes i like to lean back and let her be the dominant one

  • No, u can show him your aggressive side too but do it at the right time

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    If you want to be dominant in an area of the relationship be dominant when it comes to cooking, cleaning, food shopping and child rearing.

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