Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I want to bring in a toy that makes me orgasm but I don’t want him to feel like sex is not good or like he’s not enough.
I just like a particular feeling in a specific place sometimes. I don’t want to take forever to get there with him without a toy, but also it’s something I would like to do together.
Does incorporating this toy during sex make you feel uncomfortable?
Guys: Does the use of sex toys make you feel less of a man?
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0 46I use a ring... it's strengthen my 🤐🤐🤐 😂
I bring my toys too lol
Maybe tell him while you enjoy sex, sometimes you need stimulation in two places at once and the toy allows you to get it more easily.
Not one bit.
If he really likes you, he would want you to orgasm as hard and as often as humanly possible. Girl losing her mind from pleasure is the hottest thing for a man in my opinion.
The sooner you do it the better.
The right approach is:
"This is what I do when I am alone and horny, I want you to see how wild and crazy I get, WELLCOME TO THE PARTY".
Then he will not see the toy as a competition nor he will feel less of a man.
If you use a wrong approach to introduce the toy.
It can really hurt him and make him feel a little sad. Don't delay it.
The longer you take the worse it will be.
Sex toys can make it so much more fun. If a man says no toys, he has issue's to resolve.
I think it's fine if you do that together :)
Not me. In fact, I like using toys on my wife during sex sessions.
As long as I can make my partner cum without one, it doesn't bother me at all. It just adds variety.
Just get a black boyfriend.
…It’s about clit stimulation during sex. Black or white does not matter.
Oh, I thought maybe he wasn't hitting your G spot. I've wrapped a clit stimulator around my cock before it was pretty fun.
That’s crazy funny, I’ll take your word on it. Must feel hella good tho, on her end.
Yeah we were on the beach too, and this crazy marine kept shining a spotlight on my ass.
Come to think of it, that clit stimulator lit up every time I banged her pussy with it. So, the Marines across the bay probably thought it was some kind of Morse code.
🤣🤣🤣 You guys are awesome, all of you have been the best with the advice and the personal experiences. Made me feel better.
Not at all
Nope they can be really fun
Incorporating toys doesn't make me feel less of a man or anything like that. I enjoy bringing and using toys during sex. I would suggest talking to your boyfriend about using toys during sex to see how he feels and if he would be willing to help with them.
No, not at all. I don’t mind if my girlfriend uses a sex toy while with me I want her to enjoy herself as much as possible! Nothing sexier than seeing a woman orgasm!
toys are cool
Nope
I love it
That’s hot. Whatever gives you a awesome orgasm.
As long as it's not bigger then his cock lol