I've only experienced "too tight" when I was a young teenager because we didn't get her sufficiently lubricated with her own natural lubricant and was too young to buy lube comfortably. If you are referring to anal, penetrating slowly & gradually allowing her to get a bit used to the first degree of fullness before proceeding to 2nd AND plenty of lube
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Thank for sharing your thoughts!!! I appreciate sooooooo MUCH! Super helpful! And good evening!
dutch69loverXper 5
+1 y
More oral play is in order then I can keep plugging away
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Thank you for your help on this question! You're sooooooo freaking AWESOME!
MassagemanEditor
+1 y
If this were a workshop, I would say to use a squirt of WD-40. But since this is 6620 asking, we must be dealing with some thing else.
Guys - slooooooooooow dooooooooooown. Give the poor gal time to relax around it: don't start off by cramming your sardine into her can!
If you pre-arouse her with some foreplay, the vagina will naturally relax, expand, and become self-lubricated. Makes everything that comes after soooooooo much
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Bloody Brilliant!!! Yessssss 🔥😈🔥
finallylettinggoXper 5
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Licking and rubing until it's like Niagara Falls down there normally works 😉 But if i was ever with someone that it just would not fit, then i would be perfectly happy to have oral and other stimulation only in our relationship. I'm not picky about the style as long as we can both orgasm who cares how? The emotional aspect and bonding of just intimately being together is far more important to me than the caveman idea of must stick bone in hole. 🤣
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finallylettinggo
+1 y
Also, Good morning Secret and it really sounds like you wanted a good spanking when you wrote this 🤣
Asker
+1 y
I did!!! I've been sooooooo bitchy and no one does anything about it... I'm sorry to vent but I am bored and lonely... And I just want to be choked or slapped a little... But I'm a boring good girl and I have to wait to have the real fun when I get married or at least engaged... So I'll just stay on this app and pout about it ***Pouts Reallyyyyy Hard***😞
finallylettinggo
+1 y
*pokes your pouty lip then slaps your butt* 😈 no need to be lonely, there are many people that would talk to you. And in no way are you boring, nothing wrong with waiting or being a good girl either.
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BLUSHES!!! You're too good to me! And you have some amazing awareness lol! I thought I was being sneaky with this post!!! I speak in code LMBO 🤭😆🙈 I am sooooooo FREAKING red right now... Ahahahaha 🤣🙈 Thank you for saying that. ... People make me feel bad about it so I don't talk about it... But I am glad you don't view me that way and always treat me like a gentleman! HUGS 🤗
Asker
+1 y
I sent a follow request but you don't have to accept if you don't want to... I unfollow people when I stop hearing from them... I have abandonment issues 😞 But you are nice so yeah
finallylettinggo
+1 y
Thanks, and of course I'll accept it. We are all who we are and if anyone can't accept that then that sounds more like their narrow minded problem.
Asker
+1 y
Beautifully written!
Mr1derfulGuru
+1 y
Make her wetter or Add lube!
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+1 y
Thank you for explaining your answer! You're sooooooo freaking helpful! Thanks a bunch and I hope your night is going well!
Mr1derful
+1 y
Sure! Love your questions!
Asker
+1 y
YAY! That's wonderful news!
AkshayjoshXper 6
+1 y
I like it that way. I push harder until it pains 😜😝 . Or well a good lubricant is always available. Things get real interesting then
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I really like the way you talk on this subject... Thanks for explaining your answer... I enjoyed reading and you have some good energy... And good morning 🌞
Akshayjosh
+1 y
Good morning 🌹
Asker
+1 y
Good evening!!! I hope you enjoy your day!
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Akshayjosh
+1 y
Yeah its early dusk here
Vulture051Xper 5
+1 y
I wouldn't know *weeps*
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+1 y
Ohhhhhh nooooooo do not weep!!! It's okay!!! Thanks for the awesome feedback! And enjoy your evening 😃✌️
RyanBrooks90Xper 1
+1 y
What’s too tight?
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+1 y
Asks a stupid question and then deactivates... 😞
scott04sa22Guru
+1 y
Are you talking about the large doors? 😕
1000
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+1 y
Huh?
scott04sa22
+1 y
Are you asking about the women's vulva? All I can think of is fingers, toys and lubrication but if the guy is going lubricate her butthole then its few glasses of wine then lubrications, very high communications, relaxations and trust.
jmf909Xper 5
+1 y
They think they have big dicks and have to put in more prep work or get her to relax more and untense herself. but fellas like it tight but i perfer chicks who cancontrol there muscles and be tight that way that is the ultimate
1000
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+1 y
Thanks for your help!!! I appreciate it
KasperskyXper 3
+1 y
penetrate it, use maximum force unless she asks for a lube or something.
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+1 y
WHOA 😳🔥👀 That's quite erotic
ashish804Yoda
+1 y
we would start by seducing and let her be wet.. then start with finger and then 2...; A bit after that i would rub mine head on clits..
1000
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+1 y
I enjoyed reading your post! And good morning 🌞
ashish804
+1 y
i love that you enjoy it by reading..🤭🤭🤭 Good Morning dear.. Have a wonderful day
ashish804
+1 y
Having more than 6000 followers and only follow 23 people.. if u enjoy my post... m so obliged 🙈🙈
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Asker
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I follow my friends from when I joined the app in 2015... They have proven to be trust worthy and loyal... If you can prove the same then I would happily follow you... But we still need to get to know each other better... I follow my best and close friends on this app... Hopefully that makes sense... I don't even know your name or what you look like... So I don't need to follow you right now... And good morning 🌞!!! I hope you slept well!
ashish804
+1 y
haahaa... cool... i was telling just that getting ur attention was loving..
chnapoExplorer
+1 y
Well, first of all it is very flexible. When it is too tight, girl is not relaxed or not aroused. So if it feels too tight, I will lean forward and kiss her on lips and neck, rub her clit with my finger and it will loosen in no time :) if not, I will start with one finger and when she gets orgasmic, she is definitely loose enough to fit in some more. I am (unfortunately? fortunately?) not THAT large to experience this too often.
1000
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+1 y
Thank you for explaining your answer and leaving detailed feedback! I enjoyed reading and super helpful 🙆
oncplYoda
+1 y
One should avoid forced penetration. Foreplay till it is wet, talking romantically & sexually, and applying lubricant on both organs.
1000
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+1 y
Thank you for your help and for the tips
oncpl
+1 y
Really these are tips?
Asker
+1 y
Why not?
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oncpl
+1 y
Thanks, but I am sure you know more than me.
Asker
+1 y
If you read you can know more too! Knowledge can be accessed almost anywhere... Just open a book or watch a video and learn something new... That's where I get all my facts from and information... People seem to think you need experience to access knowledge and you don't... If you don't know a lot of stuff it's simply because you are too lazy to teach it to yourself... So I would suggest maybe some erotic literature and videos to help perfect your skills BEFORE you get into the bedroom! Hope this makes sense... If you want more knowledge about he art of sex just open a box and study it! Or even go to pornhub... Study and learn what you are seeing and what it means if you're not a reader... They also have audio versions for different erotic literature... So have fun!!! I get sooooooo excited about knowledge 😃😁✌️
oncpl
+1 y
Really good advice. I like to watch and read on this subject, and have a good collection of books on sex. Nevertheless, I appreciate your well-worded advice. I always find new and interesting points while reading your Questions. Thanks for nice knowledge and sharing with us.
Asker
+1 y
Wonderful!!! Everyone assumes I'm an expert and I don't even have personal experiences of my own... My question material comes from music videos, porn, and erotic literature!!! So I'm book smart in the art of sex but I lack "hands on experience"hopefully that makes sense! And good morning!
oncpl
+1 y
I appreciate your "lack of practical knowledge". Good night.
Asker
+1 y
Don't get your panties in a bunch buddy 😹✌️
Asker
+1 y
Guys are sooooooo sensitive... Geez 🤦🙀
oncpl
+1 y
A compliment or?
Asker
+1 y
Not sure... Your response read kinda rude and bitchy to be honest... Not sure if that's how you intended it to come across though...
oncpl
+1 y
I say what I have in mind and heart. I confess sometimes my comments may be harsh and rude, but I say what I feel and do. I never intended to show disrespect to any friend, especially to you because I have benefited a lot from your questions and appreciative comments. Nevertheless, I apologize if my words, comments and way to constructing sentences has hurt you in any way. Please accept my sincere apology.
TunasubYoda
+1 y
First thing you must do is assess the snugness as your going in, depending on how comfortable the woman is will determine how things will go. Being mindful that the man has just as much to do with her comfort level, so best not to be a dick now that you've have reached the promised land.
Always have lube available. Go easy to rush the stroke and make sure you are letting her know just how lovely she is (and mean that shit) it helps her to relax and when she is relaxed that tightness will slowly ease...
Take your time, if it's too tight at first just remember this fellas...
Little human beings come out of the vagina.. no dick is 8.4 pounds and 23 inches, so stop thinking that your dick is doing damage. Besides it's all about the pleasure for the both of you.
Drops the mic.
Walks off stage...✌🏾
1000
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+1 y
Well done!!! Literally perfection!!! You ROCK 🌟
Tunasub
+1 y
Thank you.
Asker
+1 y
Of course! And good morning 🌞
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Tunasub
+1 y
It's always a good morning when speaking with you...
Tunasub
+1 y
Hope your evening went well...
jermaineatlXper 6
+1 y
Work my way on loosening it up 😏😂
1000
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+1 y
🙆🔥🔥🔥
jermaineatl
+1 y
Gotta knock it out 😜
RickyyyGXper 5
+1 y
Last time i had one that was too tight i spent an hour giving het head cause i knew i wouldn't last very long lol
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OMFG 😱😳🔥 This post is kinda of hot though so thanks for the feedback! I appreciate it!
monkeynuttsGuru
+1 y
Use lubricant. Lots of it.
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QuidthonianGuru
+1 y
I think really hard, in order to get a stronger erection. Then, I would pull my foreskin forward. It would go in first. Using the foreskin, I will then try to slide the rest of the penis in. If still too tight, then I give up.
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2 113I've only experienced "too tight" when I was a young teenager because we didn't get her sufficiently lubricated with her own natural lubricant and was too young to buy lube comfortably. If you are referring to anal, penetrating slowly & gradually allowing her to get a bit used to the first degree of fullness before proceeding to 2nd AND plenty of lube
Thank for sharing your thoughts!!! I appreciate sooooooo MUCH! Super helpful! And good evening!
More oral play is in order then I can keep plugging away
Thank you for your help on this question! You're sooooooo freaking AWESOME!
If this were a workshop, I would say to use a squirt of WD-40. But since this is 6620 asking, we must be dealing with some thing else.
Guys - slooooooooooow dooooooooooown. Give the poor gal time to relax around it: don't start off by cramming your sardine into her can!
If you pre-arouse her with some foreplay, the vagina will naturally relax, expand, and become self-lubricated. Makes everything that comes after soooooooo much
Bloody Brilliant!!! Yessssss 🔥😈🔥
Licking and rubing until it's like Niagara Falls down there normally works 😉 But if i was ever with someone that it just would not fit, then i would be perfectly happy to have oral and other stimulation only in our relationship. I'm not picky about the style as long as we can both orgasm who cares how? The emotional aspect and bonding of just intimately being together is far more important to me than the caveman idea of must stick bone in hole. 🤣
Also, Good morning Secret and it really sounds like you wanted a good spanking when you wrote this 🤣
I did!!! I've been sooooooo bitchy and no one does anything about it... I'm sorry to vent but I am bored and lonely... And I just want to be choked or slapped a little... But I'm a boring good girl and I have to wait to have the real fun when I get married or at least engaged... So I'll just stay on this app and pout about it ***Pouts Reallyyyyy Hard***😞
*pokes your pouty lip then slaps your butt* 😈 no need to be lonely, there are many people that would talk to you. And in no way are you boring, nothing wrong with waiting or being a good girl either.
BLUSHES!!! You're too good to me! And you have some amazing awareness lol! I thought I was being sneaky with this post!!! I speak in code LMBO 🤭😆🙈 I am sooooooo FREAKING red right now... Ahahahaha 🤣🙈 Thank you for saying that. ... People make me feel bad about it so I don't talk about it... But I am glad you don't view me that way and always treat me like a gentleman! HUGS 🤗
I sent a follow request but you don't have to accept if you don't want to... I unfollow people when I stop hearing from them... I have abandonment issues 😞 But you are nice so yeah
Thanks, and of course I'll accept it. We are all who we are and if anyone can't accept that then that sounds more like their narrow minded problem.
Beautifully written!
Make her wetter or Add lube!
Thank you for explaining your answer! You're sooooooo freaking helpful! Thanks a bunch and I hope your night is going well!
Sure! Love your questions!
YAY! That's wonderful news!
I like it that way.
I push harder until it pains 😜😝 .
Or well a good lubricant is always available.
Things get real interesting then
I really like the way you talk on this subject... Thanks for explaining your answer... I enjoyed reading and you have some good energy... And good morning 🌞
Good morning 🌹
Good evening!!! I hope you enjoy your day!
Yeah its early dusk here
I wouldn't know *weeps*
Ohhhhhh nooooooo do not weep!!! It's okay!!! Thanks for the awesome feedback! And enjoy your evening 😃✌️
What’s too tight?
Asks a stupid question and then deactivates... 😞
Are you talking about the large doors? 😕
Huh?
Are you asking about the women's vulva? All I can think of is fingers, toys and lubrication but if the guy is going lubricate her butthole then its few glasses of wine then lubrications, very high communications, relaxations and trust.
They think they have big dicks and have to put in more prep work or get her to relax more and untense herself. but fellas like it tight but i perfer chicks who cancontrol there muscles and be tight that way that is the ultimate
Thanks for your help!!! I appreciate it
penetrate it, use maximum force unless she asks for a lube or something.
WHOA 😳🔥👀 That's quite erotic
we would start by seducing and let her be wet.. then start with finger and then 2...; A bit after that i would rub mine head on clits..
I enjoyed reading your post! And good morning 🌞
i love that you enjoy it by reading..🤭🤭🤭 Good Morning dear.. Have a wonderful day
Having more than 6000 followers and only follow 23 people.. if u enjoy my post... m so obliged 🙈🙈
I follow my friends from when I joined the app in 2015... They have proven to be trust worthy and loyal... If you can prove the same then I would happily follow you... But we still need to get to know each other better... I follow my best and close friends on this app... Hopefully that makes sense... I don't even know your name or what you look like... So I don't need to follow you right now... And good morning 🌞!!! I hope you slept well!
haahaa... cool... i was telling just that getting ur attention was loving..
Well, first of all it is very flexible. When it is too tight, girl is not relaxed or not aroused. So if it feels too tight, I will lean forward and kiss her on lips and neck, rub her clit with my finger and it will loosen in no time :) if not, I will start with one finger and when she gets orgasmic, she is definitely loose enough to fit in some more. I am (unfortunately? fortunately?) not THAT large to experience this too often.
Thank you for explaining your answer and leaving detailed feedback! I enjoyed reading and super helpful 🙆
One should avoid forced penetration. Foreplay till it is wet, talking romantically & sexually, and applying lubricant on both organs.
Thank you for your help and for the tips
Really these are tips?
Why not?
Thanks, but I am sure you know more than me.
If you read you can know more too! Knowledge can be accessed almost anywhere... Just open a book or watch a video and learn something new... That's where I get all my facts from and information... People seem to think you need experience to access knowledge and you don't... If you don't know a lot of stuff it's simply because you are too lazy to teach it to yourself... So I would suggest maybe some erotic literature and videos to help perfect your skills BEFORE you get into the bedroom! Hope this makes sense... If you want more knowledge about he art of sex just open a box and study it! Or even go to pornhub... Study and learn what you are seeing and what it means if you're not a reader... They also have audio versions for different erotic literature... So have fun!!! I get sooooooo excited about knowledge 😃😁✌️
Really good advice. I like to watch and read on this subject, and have a good collection of books on sex. Nevertheless, I appreciate your well-worded advice. I always find new and interesting points while reading your Questions. Thanks for nice knowledge and sharing with us.
Wonderful!!! Everyone assumes I'm an expert and I don't even have personal experiences of my own... My question material comes from music videos, porn, and erotic literature!!! So I'm book smart in the art of sex but I lack "hands on experience"hopefully that makes sense! And good morning!
I appreciate your "lack of practical knowledge". Good night.
Don't get your panties in a bunch buddy 😹✌️
Guys are sooooooo sensitive... Geez 🤦🙀
A compliment or?
Not sure... Your response read kinda rude and bitchy to be honest... Not sure if that's how you intended it to come across though...
I say what I have in mind and heart. I confess sometimes my comments may be harsh and rude, but I say what I feel and do. I never intended to show disrespect to any friend, especially to you because I have benefited a lot from your questions and appreciative comments. Nevertheless, I apologize if my words, comments and way to constructing sentences has hurt you in any way. Please accept my sincere apology.
First thing you must do is assess the snugness as your going in, depending on how comfortable the woman is will determine how things will go. Being mindful that the man has just as much to do with her comfort level, so best not to be a dick now that you've have reached the promised land.
Always have lube available. Go easy to rush the stroke and make sure you are letting her know just how lovely she is (and mean that shit) it helps her to relax and when she is relaxed that tightness will slowly ease...
Take your time, if it's too tight at first just remember this fellas...
Little human beings come out of the vagina.. no dick is 8.4 pounds and 23 inches, so stop thinking that your dick is doing damage. Besides it's all about the pleasure for the both of you.
Drops the mic.
Walks off stage...✌🏾
Well done!!! Literally perfection!!! You ROCK 🌟
Thank you.
Of course! And good morning 🌞
It's always a good morning when speaking with you...
Hope your evening went well...
Work my way on loosening it up 😏😂
🙆🔥🔥🔥
Gotta knock it out 😜
Last time i had one that was too tight i spent an hour giving het head cause i knew i wouldn't last very long lol
OMFG 😱😳🔥 This post is kinda of hot though so thanks for the feedback! I appreciate it!
Use lubricant. Lots of it.
I think really hard, in order to get a stronger erection. Then, I would pull my foreskin forward. It would go in first. Using the foreskin, I will then try to slide the rest of the penis in. If still too tight, then I give up.
😃😃😃
my job properly
Lol!!! Niceeeee