Most Helpful Guys

  • Perversion means acting in a way that is not normal... so if you are saying most guys are acting in a certain way, then it isn't perverted, by definition. That's just how guys act. Which means the guys that aren't acting that way are technically the ones acting perverted...

    If you mean why do men not act like women, then that would have to do with the different levels of hormones in the brain. Women that have high levels of hormones typically found in men, often behave in ways that one would describe as being 'like a man', as a lot of behaviour is actually hormonally driven. And if you are going to complain about people acting in a manner dictated by their hormones, that just opens up men being able to complain about women NOT acting that way.

    The root of the problem, to be honest, is NOT that men have certain impulses or certain drives, it's about finding ways to provide them with outlets that don't bother people that don't feel the same way. Repression doesn't work, pretty much anybody knows that, so if you simply try to tell people "don't think the way your brain is thinking", you are waging an unwinnable war. Teaching men about what is acceptable, what has consent, what makes people uncomfortable, while providing them with ways to deal with the feelings their chemistry is causing, is what's really needed. If you don't provide them with coping strategies and an understanding of what's acceptable, you can't be surprised when they act in a way that you don't like.

  • Lol not all of us are, but in general I think there's two things.
    A) Sociology. We are encouraged by the media and our peers, where as women are shamed men are praised for their sexuality. On top of this in a male driven society we also frequently dehumanize women making them appear as prizes to be won.
    Biology: we just naturally are more so then women, and that may have to do with our reproduction method and what's most efficient.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Not all of them are and it depends on your definition of perversion. A lot of people have interests that are beyond the social norm which they can't help. It's not necessarily their fault.

  • Don't generalize, not all guys are so perverted. But I guess it's just how most guys are, part of being male.

  • Some women are too, they just aren't as open about it lol

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  • Wow. this is a hot topic. I'm just here to read the responses. haha

  • Not all of them are. Lol

    • anyone who says men aren't perverts obviously doesn't know guys... :P hahaha

    • @pedro28 I beg your pardon? I think you should read guys opinions too.

    • Some of the guy I know are quite decent. They just look at my eyes when we are talking and not stare at my breast. So, I wouldn't call them perverts

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  • Can you elaborate? In what way are we perverted?

  • It's almost like the perverts had more sex than non perverts, so we're descended from them.

    • Someone could write a college thesis on that lol

  • they will try and blame the testosterone, but i think they are taught that its ok to let your urges take over and push way out of boundaries.

    • Really? You think my mother will teach me to let my urges take over me and be a pervert towards women? -_-

    • no you guys teach each other, even on tv or media its ok, not ur mom lol wtf?

    • So according to this, you ain't gonna date me mrs. Lillie?

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  • Not sure but some women are perverted too

    • From my experience, women don't get perverted until they're in their 30's.

  • cuz we fall in love with our eyes!

  • It's just the way we are made. Some of us are just able to get a lot more control over it than others. And so many young guys today don't even seem to try.

  • Why are women so quick to judge and generalize?

  • cause they want sex and so do girls but they're less open about it

  • not all of us basically...:-)

  • I intriqued - Could you explain context of question?

  • Because society allows them to be

  • @suitandtie

    I'm just tagging you... no reason at all that it's on the pervert question. 😛😂🙊

    But seriously, good question asker!

  • 'Why are 'some' men so perverted?'

    Please refrain from using generalizing questions, it's irritating.

    (If you meant some, but forgot to put it; apologies.)

  • I'm not a pervert and I thought a woman your age would be smart enough to not make ignorant generalizations about an entire gender

    • You sir, deserve a cookie!

    • Exactly what I was thinking. Outsmarted by a guy who is 17 years younger.

  • Not all man are like that, but sure generalize all men if want.

  • Not all of us are

  • I would say we are more open in that sense but not in another. For instance you rarely will hear a guy talking about his feelings with another guy just like you rarely will hear girls talking naughty things with their friends.

  • Nu-uhuh! Not all of them are perverts.

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