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Sometimes, "revenge sex" is going out and having sex with the first person you find available after you learn that your long term partner cheated on you. Sometimes, it is going through a break up and having sex with your ex's best friend, brother, sister, the person they were cheating with, to try to hurt your ex even more than they hurt you. And sometimes, revenge sex is just going out and having hot, meaningless sex to prove that you are still desirable and can please a partner in bed.
I've never done it. Maybe some people go out, find a partner, and explain, "I need to use your body for sex, if that's okay with you. Just to be clear, I really don't like you at all" . . . but that probably doesn't happen very often. So it seems to me that your partner in the revenge sex escapade most likely ends up feeling used and I would feel horribly guilty about treating someone else that way.
Have you ever had revenge sex? Aside from the fact that sex feels good (duh!,) did having revenge sex make you feel better about being cheated on or getting dumped and told you were lousy in bed or whatever happened that made you want revenge sex?
What Girls & Guys Said
12 13That’s only something immature people do
It has nothing to do with maturity or the lack of it.
@msc545 “Revenge sex” is the stupidest concept I’ve ever heard. Just the fact the other person already cheated on you is enough to tell me they don’t take your commitment seriously either. Otherwise, they’d have already held up their end of the bargain
These reactions are driven by emotion, not cognitive processes. Logic does not rule the day when you learn that your wife has had sex with your best friend on numerous occasions.
@olderandwiser My reaction would be to say “fck both you guys” and storm off mad. I don’t understand how I’m suppossed to just suddenly want sex with some random ass girl all of a sudden. How’s that supposed to make me feel better?
You've not yet had the experience - I hope you never have to go through that.
@msc545 Dude. The fact is I’d feel as though I sustained a loss. My soul would feel crushed. I’d need time to independently process what happened
@msc545 Sex would maybe only serve as a temporary distraction. But I can’t imagine I’d ever turn that way because I’ve only ever wanted sex with a girl I was intimately bonded to first
ok, thanks - good answers.
@whiteboychill Fuck me? Read the post. I've NEVER done this and I've never recommended it.
No my man. I was saying if my best friend and girlfriend hooked up, that is what I would’ve said to them
Well, that went right over my head! My apology!
No worries! It happens
Are there people, who actually read these inane questions? An essay about revenge sex? Do something more productive with your time. Lmao
I wouldn't shame myself like that.
Angry sex and make up sex sure.