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If you have, how was your orgasm on a scale of 0 (didn’t have one) to 10?
Have you ever hooked up just for sex?
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34 79Yes, and hoping was pointless. Better to know beforehand.
I had lots of hookups.
On a greyhound bus, in the library, exchange numbers in a bookstore and be at her place in a few hours fucking.
I've hit 10 only with my wife but some freaky girls in the bookstores were easy 6-9 range.
A Greyhound bus? In a bookstore? Wow! Never done either of those. (Have been picked up in a bookstore though.)
I met a lot of girls in bookstores and libraries. Never fucked in a bookstore. I fucked a skinny geeky girl with glasses in the back top floor of a large library. She seemed so sweet and gentle but when she was bent over and close to cumming she fucked me back so hard I had to brace myself against the bookshelf and hold on tight to her bony hips so she didn't knock me over. I had bruises around my groin for a few days, she was a banshee. Greyhound bus was just a blowjob. The bus driver found a couple fucking in the little bathroom on the greyhound bus and kicked them both off the bus. She been traveling for over a day and was afraid of how she'd smell so she didn't let me touch her pussy but she sucked my cock when everyone around us was asleep.
Amazing
I did that many times in college. The options for dating were terrible, and I figured I’d might as well get some
practicz in there.
Makes sense
yeah, i've tried that out. not particularly interested in doing that again. i did not have an orgasm in the experience that i had.
I'm curious, usually we guys just cum almost every time we entertain an erection. What happened?
@Tstrbrainer "usually we guys just cum almost every time". that is not a statement that i would subscribe to. i don't know if that is true. maybe it's true and i'm weird. but for me, sex is more than just physical stimulation. and if certain emotional stimulation is lacking, i can't really get off.
Interesting, I've heard of such stuff like some guys can't get off completely on their own etc. Maybe it's rare, as I don't personally know anyone who would need an emotional connection to get off
@Tstrbrainer i can get of on my own perfectly fine. no issues with that. cause masturbtion of course gives me complete control of physical and mentals timuli. however if i have sex with another person and they don't give me the mental or physical stimulation that i want, then that's not gonna work forme. to be more precise and risking to be a bit TMI: if a girl just lays there, telling me "do what you want, i give you permission to do everything that you like", that's not cool for me. i mean sure it's interesting to be allowed to do what i want and it IS fun for sure. but i can not get off if she's not involved. sex in my mind is for both. not just for me. and if i do what i want, then how do i know that she likes what i do? specially if there's litterally no physical reciprocation besides moaning from her side? does that make sense?
Yes. Now it's more clear. Some people really need some kind of reciprocation or participation. I've seen such a scene in Cherry, and yeah many guys wouldn't be pleased with being treated like that.
Thanks for sharing
I have not. Nor am I interested in doing that.
I've done it a handful of times and don't really enjoy it. The first time it was pretty damn good, but every time since then it has been underwhelming.
No never have and not planning to 😊
Yes, about a 6.
No, that's stupid.
What will we do if our attraction is only superficial?
Have sex
I don't think I want to touch a girl if we are not emotionally aligned
Yes all the time, the guy I was with last night made scream and cum hard so my orgasm was definitely a 10
I have not but i have friends that did
I understand
I never "secretly" hope that it will grow into more. I put it squarely on the shoulders of any woman seeking casual sex to tell me upfront. Maybe it's just my luck but, literally, every woman I've been with has chosen to hedge her bets and I wished them a good evening. Sometimes with them even following behind saying crap like "just cause this wasn't a date doesn't mean I want you to go" or another juicy one, "maybe we could stay friends" (trying to keep me in some hook-up stable) Yeah save your test drives for the car lot. If you need more of a guarantee on a mans value... Meditate (self knowledge) read an effing book on human psychology/body language. There's a big difference between a salesman selling you on an experience for his own profit and a Craftsman trying to help other people with his lifes work. Your post makes me sick!
When I was younger, I just wanted sex. Now, I make sure that we both in love before having sex.
Yes, I lost my virginity on a one night stand, but I had no interest in the girl after that.
Why not? And how was your orgasm?
It was fantastic, I just didn't see the appeal in this girl, and I think she felt the same.
At least you had fun. And so did she.
Yes! Did you ever get another cat?
I have several times. Some where good (8-9), some were 0.
Wow! And so young.
Started at age 13. I know Im young, but feel older.
Okay. Are you happy with that?
With what? That I feel older?
With having so much season young
With having so much sex so young
Well, I dont mind at all. I like sex 😁
Nope
You know my answer
😍😍😍
But others don't know...
@yuviii2012 So,?
Please mention here too... really interested to know.
@yuviii2012 I'm sure
If I wanted to I would have but thanks
Nonl issues... but really intersted to know
ALMOST. Thank Goodness it never worked.
They always demanded Money, even if they first said "Oh, it's free"...
I was a poor individual.
I'm in a friends with benefits relationship right now so I don't know if that couts
That counts
Underwhelming, 1-2 on the scale