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Have you ever kissed/dated/sexed someone as “practice” to prepare for your true target?

Its fcked up but people do it to gain experience or whatever. I dont agree with it but it is what it is
Have you ever kissed/dated/sexed someone as “practice” to prepare for your true target?
Have you ever kissed/dated/sexed someone as “practice” to prepare for your true target?
I remember when my first boyfriend wanted to eat me out and I said I wasn't ready. We broke up for like a week and he came back sayin “Since you wouldn’t let me eat you out, I went down on your best friend. It wasn’t all that but it was practice enough to be more ready for when we do it. Wanna try now?”
Have you ever kissed/dated/sexed someone as “practice” to prepare for your true target?
Have you ever kissed/dated/sexed someone as “practice” to prepare for your true target?
Have you ever kissed/dated/sexed someone as “practice” to prepare for your true target?
Have you ever kissed/dated/sexed someone as “practice” to prepare for your true target?
#FeelFreeToList #PracticeMakesPerfect
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Yea best way to sum it up... Would you USE someone until you scored the guy/girl you were truly interested in?
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  • YES ABOSULTELY. When I divorced by ex-wife of 20 years lets be honestly I was out of practice when it came to dating, and the whole dating world had changed. So yes I took a lot of dates with women I didn't really care for just to get back into practice.

    See my approach was that every possibility was an opportunity to get better and improve my skills, and if I happened to meet the right lady a long the way then great. If it ended in failure I would be that much better and more prepared for the next possibility and opportunity.

    I will not lie to you though, I took the dates because even if I wasn't really interested there would be a chance I might get laid and some times it worked out that way. But in the end I always went into any possible date or relationship with my eyes wide open and with low expectations. Because of this I met with a lot of failure and disappointment, but I remained persistent.

    So eventually I met a really amazing women and I knew she was amazing almost immediately given all the experiences I had had a long the way. Because of that gained knowledge and experience I knew all the right things to do to make it work. So now I look back on all the other women as just practice.

  • So basically people will go to someone else use them, possibly hurt them when the person they want to be with is available and they would get to see you happy with another person after having basically given them the experience to make that relationship better.

    Have to say what a way to make people feel like shit. And I have to say that's a major red flag. More so if they mentioned that they did that so they were ready.

    I would never do that and would be quite hurt if someone did that to me. And it's not okay at all. It's quite disgusting behaviour tbh.

    • I fully agree. But I've witnessed so many people do it

    • I know it happens but ice never really seen it occur. Even tho I would like to know/learn how to kiss and how to be a better partner should anyone want to date me and like how to please a partner during intimacy and all of that. But I would never do they to someone.. The only time I would say it's probably okay is if both parties are aware and agree to experiment to learn. As it's a lot like a friends with benefits arrangement.

    • Yea friends with benefits is agreeing mutually but the above is often not

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  • Nope and dont plan to as I feel so disappointed in myself for doing so. To me, its akin to those women who go on a date with a guy with the sole purpose of getting a free meal for the night and nothing more. I remember when social media was applauding women who did that and I would sit there like, " is this what we're doing now in the dating scene?" 😆 Happy that one died down though.

    • Yep great way to put it

  • I never dated someone *knowing* I wouldn't try to make it work out. If you ain't about it, don't start it that's my policy.

    • I agree

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  • That Nelly/Kelly song hits! I never heard it before. 1.2 Billion views! I'm late to the party!

    And I'm practicing on everybody.

    • Yea that song has always been a good one

  • No I really can't say that I have but now that you brought it up I mean are you okay with doing something like that if I was to ask you LMAO I mean I probably do need practice probably lots of practice LOL and I don't know anybody that would do that for me and since you brought it up I just thought just in case you know because you never know and I would be there for you LOL in case you needed practice well Desi thank you for asking I mean I'll probably take you up on it but I guess I just have to play it by ear first LOL LMAO 0

    • No im not gonna use anyone. Im gonna just approach my target and shoot my shot

    • Yeah I agree with you on that one I mean it's fun to pretend like that and maybe wish that you had a role play partner that you can check it out to see what would happen blah blah blah but I hear what you mean I agree with you you're never going to do it the same way twice anyway so you have to give it your best shot the first shot

  • I've been used like this, but I've never used anyone for it - I don't think I could ever do it with someone JUST to impress :(

    • Yea i hate someone did thag to you

    • I knew about the situation - and we didn't have sex, just some kissing. It was a bit disappointing, but he was fully respectful about the situation.

  • It's called living life. That's how people gain experience and maturity.

    Holding out for the "true target" makes me sick. It's like refusing to go outside until the one, perfect day comes along. What's wrong with just having fun and enjoying all that life has to offer?

    I never thought of sex as something sacred. It's just a wonderful thing to experience; a really, really fun recreation. It's natural.

    Even as a kid, girls made me feel all tingly. Starting out in my early teens, I held hands with girls who had crushes on me. I went to school dances and got all excited about holding real live girls close while slow dancing. I eventually learned how to kiss properly.

    When I was 16, a girlfriend invited me to have sex. It was a dream come true. At that age, the last thing on my mind was getting married, having kids and settling down. I knew that I wasn't mature enough for that. It would have been a disaster. But that didn't stop me from enjoying life to the fullest.

    I didn't go around having sex and one night stands with strangers. I never took advantage of anyone. My practice was having committed relationships with girlfriends, experiencing infatuation and sex, and learning about women.

    I was in my mid-30s when I decided that I had enough maturity and life experience to think about finding a life partner and settling down.

    In the end, I did find a life partner and the two of us have been happily married for over 25 years. Before we met, she had had a wonderful, full life, too.

    My entire life wasn't built around finding "the one". That's only one part of life. I didn't need someone to "complete" me. I couldn't be more grateful for all the memories I've stored up. Every girlfriend and every single life experience has been a treasure. My memories would be anemic if I had only focused on getting married.

    Everyone has their own path, though.

    • Im not referring to just sex. Im saying, say you like Jill but you’re not brave enough to ask her out tomorrow. So you decide to takeout Jane and ask Jill out next week after you’ve practiced with Jane

    • Nah. I never used women to "practice". Well, actually, the first time I kissed a girl was the summer after 8th grade at a co-ed weekend school outing in the mountains. Boys and girls stayed in separate cabins but we got together in the evenings to hang out. This would have been around 1967, so there was no internet. One night we decided to play Spin the Bottle. When it pointed at someone, they had to stand up and kiss someone. When it landed on me, I stood and a girl stood. I had never kissed a girl and didn't know how. From watching movies, I kinda knew you were supposed to open your mouth. I parted my lips but forgot to open my mouth and had my teeth clenched. So she kissed me and I felt her tongue run across my teeth. I immediately knew where I had gone wrong but it was too late. I leaned my lesson, though. So I guess you could call that innocent practice. LOL

  • No. I'm honest about my feelings/ intentions.

    • Good

  • No, practicing doing the wrong with with the wrong people is usually counterproductive.

    • So true

  • As a Demisexual, literally couldn't think of anything worse 🤦‍♀️🤣

    • Ikr!!

    • @harleigh90 lol

    • @ChrisMasters69 🤣 The thought gave me goosebumps! And not good ones 😆

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  • nope... I'm not a douchebag like that, lol

    • Good. You’re actually too freakin good lol

    • lol... maybe

    • Its your optimism that makes you so amazing. Like i have optimistic moments and i try to return to them after my pessimistic ranting but you always seem to be on a good note. Super rare. I couldnt even if i tried

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  • Nope, not my style.

    • I agree

  • No but I had guys in band past do that to me. The results the girls either broke up with them in a very cruel way or cheated on them

    • The girls they wanted all along cheated?

    • Plot twist to that situation

  • No, I just do it because I enjoy it

    • You enjoy short term

    • I'm in a committed relationship, I've been married for 32 years and been together for like 35

    • Amazing

  • Not for practice, but with the intention of it being short-term, yes (only did this when I was young).

    • Damn i can't plan for short term. Longterm only otherwise My OCD would get the best of me

    • Yeah, well, I can't do that now either. But you know young guys- young, dumb and full of cum.

    • Damn you make it sound good 😝

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  • As a yunger man I thought about it for sure but I never wanted to try with any of my friends except the girls I would have been interested in dating anyways. So it would have just been dumb. And now it is just an appalling idea. Like how can you try something so senseless. At least call it what it is and say you are doing a friends with benefits thing and go all the way. But don’t just “practice”!!

    • Right

  • That's disgusting... I would never do that...

    I would never do something as practice on someone 😒😒 i feel it's very cheap thing to do

    • Yea its messed up

    • Yaaa 🤮🤮🤮

  • Well I think all the early dates are practice to some degree but I have never had a practice run on a best friend even though I have had crushes on best friends who either didn't notice or didn't report erections in the hello/goodbye hugs. I like that guy's style by the way. Superb nonchalance. Curious - did your best friend think she was doing you a favor in up skilling him?

    I have practiced my chatting up skills on waitresses, bar girls a lot though. one waitress was walking out the cafe's door with me holding my hand till the head waiter ran up and stopped her. I'm still proud of that.

    • Nah she was just being the neighborhood hoe as usual. I disowned her after she got preggers by him... or his cousin... who knows she did them a few days apart

    • OMG... And his cousin as well! Well there's a good discussion at family gatherings. Who knocked the hoe up!

    • She miscarried unfortunately but both dudes refused to claim it. They always messed around with the same girls

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  • Im not about that life

    • Lmao same

  • Practice does make perfect but I wouldn't do it with someone I don't like, just to gain experience.

    • I agree

  • Never

    • Good

  • yeah lol but they knew. when I was like fourteen me and my girls practiced kissing each other for the real deal. We kept giggling the whole damn time tho so it didn't really work lmao.

    • Lawd

    • lol we we're really dumb

  • Nope never.

    • Good

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