Have you ever met anyone who didn't know how to have sex?

Many of us have been surprised by the lack of sex education other GAG users seem to have. Hardly a day goes by without someone asking a very basic sex question or displaying ignorance about the most elementary concepts.
Attitudes to sex education vary from being an essential part of a schools curriculum to something your parents should tell you about and not schools. Many parents of course pull their kids out of sex ed class because they see it as lib brainwashing.

But have you ever come across anyone who didn't know how to have sex? Perhaps a guy who didn't know where to stick it, or a girl who said "your putting that where?" Or perhaps someone who simply didn't know what what to do after penetration.

I know it sounds daft that people don't know how to have sex, after all even insects know how bur when I read questions on here I do wonder.
Have you ever met anyone who didnt know how to have sex?
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  • As in my country sex education is considerd as taboo , but surprisingly we are 2nd most populated country in the world.
    There are some unsaid rules in our country like
    1. Don't do datings
    2. You can't have relationship if you have then keep it secret
    3. You can't have sex before marriage.

    So that's where things get bottled up , you don't get proper sex education either u seek help from friends at younger age or else u see porn to get access to sex education.


    So resulting in unprotected and raw sex like what we used to see in porn movies.

    And i also accpet the fact that i also never had sex in my life till now, so even i wouldn't be not surprised if someone will tell me that i don't know much about sex.

  • Not with me, but one girl I was with told me that she didn't even know that her vagina had another hole besides her urethra until she got her period and her mother had to explain it to her then. She was a virgin until she was 19 and even then barely knew what was going on. She was 23 when I started dating her, so she had a basic understanding by then, but even then, she was still a bit clueless. On the plus side, she was an enthusiastic learner!

    • And isn't it ironic your profile pic is quagmire! Probably as your opinions read like his scripts! Giggity!

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  • I never have but my brother did. He said that she was so bad that he thinks we might be adopted.

  • Yes! sorry to say. but it's me
    I need a female Teacher. Even if your not a teacher it's ok to pretend that you are
    You just tell me what to learn and I will do my best even if we have to do it over and over untill I get it right.. and if you feel the need to hold me back a year and fuk I mean flunk me I can do that to

  • my husband and me on our wedding night.

  • Not actual sex no, but a couple of girls in my younger years didn't know how to either give a handjob or a blowjob. The one who didn't know how to give a handjob basically rolled her hand round my bellend like she was polishing a gear knob 🤣
    You have to remember when we were kids porn wasn't prolific like it is these days, they had never seen how it's done and I was their first.

  • Nobody knows how to do anything perfectly their first or even the next few times. Did you have to take drivers Ed before driving a car?

  • That never happened to me. Both of us always knew at least the basics, and we learned more from practice.

  • Yes, long ago in a public bus in which I was traveling with my wife, a young big guy asked me straight away how I fucked... A bit odd a situation, and the guy, probably missing something in his brains, seemed genuinely and naïvely asking. So, not wanting to offend or upset him, I just answered "as everyone"... What could one answer to such a question?

    And another time, but far more long ago, before meeting my future wife when I was about 24 years old : me ;0)

  • Or perhaps the question should be: "Have you ever met anyone who actually knew how to have sex?" Yes, once. And she earned every penny.

  • I was pretty clueless myself. A girl was nice enough to be patient.

    • Pretty much same here, Mine was with a Korean Bar Girl who like me because I was so short. I really wasn't looking for anything, but when the bar was closing she took my hand and walked me out the back door to her hooch. She stripped down and cleaned her self and then stripped me and cleaned me, She washed her pussy and my little penis very carefully. She then walked us around to her bedroom with a very beautiful bed with bright red sheets. She laid down and pulled me down next to her. She could tell I was very nervous and asked "you never?". And I shook my head and said NO. She smiled and began to slowly seduce me and show exactly what she wanted and what I should do. She was an extremely nice teacher, and I had a very enjoyable night and experience.

    • @AFretiredTXn cool , that is a great memory to have,

    • For a 1st, won't forget anything.

  • Oh yes a few times, not fun

  • Haven't run into that since my teens.

  • I think everyone has to have that experience we all start from somewhere. My first time I had no idea what I was doing... and it made for an awkward experience. We stayed together and after a few times of practice you get the hang of it. Practice makes perfect lol

  • Also dogs are able, do you need to be trained? If you want to have good sex maybe, but have sex is istinctual.

  • Yes I met virgin girl she look hot but don't even know how to kiss... very bad experience.

  • can’t say that i have. even a virgin i had was not clueless.

  • Yes a few times most noteably a woman about30 , married, had a child, and had not a clue as to how to please a man. First I'd heard a rumour she didn't allow anyone to eat her, after she left hubby, we got together and sure enough wouldn't have it or talk about it. When she went down on me she put her mouth on me and looked up at me waiting, finally she raised her head and asked what was wrong, I'm not sure what you mean I answered she looked at me like I was the dumbest SOB north of the south pole. She was waiting for me to grab her hair and yank her head back and fourth, we didn't last long.😁

  • I get the basic idea but I am pretty much clueless. Never had sex.

  • I know the theory. In practice I'm a little rusty.

  • EVERYONE learns by asking questions or by being taught... There is nothing wrong with asking questions, it's better than being ignorant...

  • I need to be guided through it, to be honest… I’d appreciate your help

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